Be wise
Being a man is actually the most complicated thing in the world.
Being a man is actually the most complicated thing in the world. Everyone has different beliefs about life, so the meaning of life is naturally different. Even people with the same beliefs will have great differences because of different personal consciousness. If we must sum up how to be a man in one sentence, that is: nature and utility are godsend, and morality and heaven and earth depend on practice.
Mr. Feng Youlan believes that there are four kinds of life realm:
1. Natural state: it is the lowest level. People in this realm always act according to social habits or nature, and they completely follow the operation of heaven and earth. They "work at sunrise and rest at sunset" and don't think too much about other things. They don't know what bitterness is and what pleasure is. They laugh all day and don't feel happy. They muddle along, don't want to make progress, don't want to change anything, just drift, live in the water, don't think about the meaning of life at all, or think little, or even don't understand "life" and "death".
2. Utilitarianism: They understand the purpose and significance of their actions and what they need. So I will try. They have "I" in their hearts, only "I", and they do everything for their own utilitarianism and interests. Their motivation is to exchange for higher income, and their final destination is "me".
3, moral realm: follow one's inclinations. In addition to "I", there is a society and a whole in their hearts. Their focus is on public rather than private, that is, those who seek human resources are beneficial and those who seek social benefits are righteous. Ancient sages and heroes reached the moral realm. Perhaps their actions have not brought practical benefits to reality, but they are always moral.
4. The realm of heaven and earth: People who reach this realm believe that there is a higher world above society-the universe. Individuals cannot exist without the universe, because people are not only a member of society, but also a part of the universe. People are citizens of social organizations, but also people as Mencius said, so for them, there is no fear of life or death. Everything is to serve the universe.
The differences between the four realms are obvious. Ordinary people wander and torture themselves in the natural realm and utilitarian realm, virtuous people seek benefits for the society and people's livelihood in the moral realm, and saints praise the cultivation of heaven and earth in the realm of heaven and earth. People see and enjoy different worlds.
The book I read today broadened my horizons.
Self-cultivation is the first essence of life.
Character is the laurel and glory of life, the noblest property of a person, which constitutes a person's status and identity itself. As far as credibility is concerned, it is all the property of a person. Nobleness is inseparable from the perfection of character. Without good moral quality and perfect inner world, no matter how beautiful your appearance is, it can only serve as a clothes rack for clothing stores. Only your personality can make you soar and achieve the pattern of life.
If you have virtue in your heart, you do what you should do, and virtue will do it.
Why does a person who realizes that "Tao is high enough" become "famous for future generations"? Huang Shigong said this because he wanted to tell us that moral business cards are the best proof of peers in dealing with people. Maybe you are an ordinary person, but if you have the most favorable virtue pass, your life will shine brilliantly, and you will move from ordinary to success. No matter how time passes, virtue is always the most touching medal.
Each of us should do good deeds, do good deeds and do useful things; Each of us should be a good person, a good person and an excellent person. Do things in advance from being a man, do more things that benefit others and benefit themselves, and don't do things that harm others and benefit themselves. This is the basic principle of being a man.
The way to success lies in virtue rather than skill, Tao rather than seeking, courtesy rather than power. Do things without showing your edge, without arrogance or rashness, keep a low profile, be stupid when you are smart, and be clumsy when you are smart.
The success or failure of being a man is closely related to the success or failure of doing things. People who insist on their own personality can stand the test of time and persist in Mika for a long time as time goes by. Morality is the noblest criterion, and abiding by faith is also a necessary prerequisite for winning people's hearts and attracting people. Can let us gain more trust and understanding, get more support and cooperation. When our character is recognized, the big pattern of life will be opened.
After reading this, I have mixed feelings and recall some past events. Have some sympathy for those who are greedy for small profits and are not ashamed of hurting others! Alas, he doesn't even know how to be a man! At present, how people should get along with each other is something that all living beings should learn. Join the family education tutor's study and let me know that it is always me who needs to change my cognition! Only by thinking positively and optimistically will all the magnetic fields of happiness come close to you.
It's good to encounter problems, and the opportunity for growth is coming again! Have a positive belief: everything is optimistic, and every problem is an opportunity for us to grow! Anything that seems unfavorable has a positive side for me. Everything has two sides! Let's embrace life with gratitude! I believe everything is beautiful!
Therefore, to learn to be a man, we must learn non-violent communication. We will start several rounds of study. On the way of growing up, I hope more people will join me and make the world full of love!