There is a saying that goes like this, "When I become successful and famous, I will smile proudly on the mountains and look at the sparrow branches." This sentence means that when I am proud of myself, I will make those who underestimate me regret it. . This sentence is very inspiring, but we must also remember that the most proud time in life is also the most dangerous time.

Anyone with experience will lament that many mistakes are made when they are most proud. In life, we can also see many people fall off the altar and even lose their reputation when they have unlimited glory.

These few sentences in "Cai Gen Tan" tell us how a person should behave and how to avoid disaster when he is successful.

1. The talent of a gentleman is hidden in jade and pearls, and cannot be easily seen.

This sentence superficially means that a person should hide his talent and not show his sharpness. In fact, this is a hidden truth. Whether it is wealth or talent, you should not show off or show off everywhere, otherwise your own psychology will change and it will easily lead to the jealousy and frame-up of others.

If a successful person does not know how to hide his clumsiness and is willing to be in the limelight in everything, he will be easily suppressed by others and become the target of jealousy.

In fact, no matter what position you are in, you must know that it is not a good thing to let everyone know your intelligence (capital). This will not only put pressure on others, but also make yourself vulnerable. Become the center of the vortex.

2. Full of achievements, often defeated by small things

Details determine success or failure. No matter how successful or high status you have, it is possible to achieve success overnight. Destitute and utterly defeated. A cigarette butt may destroy the entire forest, and a thousand-mile embankment may be destroyed by an ant nest. You must be cautious when doing things, especially when you achieve something.

When many people become successful and famous, they feel that they have everything and relax themselves, and they also relax their control of "details". In fact, at this time, it is very likely that your words and actions will be too casual and careless, which will affect the overall situation.

On the other hand, people must have a sense of crisis, otherwise, they will easily stagnate and make various mistakes without realizing it.

3. Perfect reputations and virtues should not be obtained alone. Sharing some with others can harm the whole body; When people succeed in their careers, they claim that all the credit belongs to themselves. In fact, what one person can do is very limited.

This kind of people are very stupid. They don't understand the truth that feelings are gained more and more with talk, but the credit is lost with more talk. Not only will it not make others admire you more, but it will cause big trouble and even become the laughing stock of others.

On the contrary, when you achieve something, don't pity your reputation. When you encounter mistakes and humiliations, take the initiative to take some responsibility. This will not harm you and attract less jealousy from others.