Sometimes you have to take a hard fall to know your place.

1. It’s freezing cold, who do you think you are?

A camel is crossing the desert with difficulty. A fly is lying on the camel’s back. It has no strength at all. Come over. .

The fly sneered: "Camel, thank you for your hard work and let me hump over. Bye!

"The camel looked at the fly and said: "When you are on my body , I don’t know at all, you are gone, you don’t have to say hello to me, you have no weight at all, don’t take yourself too seriously

Ying Ruocheng is a famous performing artist. , he told a story.

Growing up in a big family, dozens of people would sit together in a big restaurant to eat together. Once, he suddenly thought of something and decided. Just kidding everyone.

Before eating, he hid himself in a small cupboard in the restaurant where no one was paying attention, hoping to jump out when no one could find him.

The embarrassing thing is: no one noticed his absence at all. He was so drunk that after everyone left, he came out dejectedly to eat the leftover soup.

From then on, he said to himself. : Don't take yourself too seriously, otherwise you will be disappointed.

As Lao Bi left the Avenue of Stars, Zhu Jun got into the car.

It can be seen that no matter where you are. Position, no matter how important you are, your departure is not important at all.

Go too far, go too far, go too far, go too far, go too far, go. Go too far, go too far, go too fast, go too far.

Be a person and don’t think you are a great person. Without you, the earth will still be the same. Turn around, you will have nothing if you leave this platform!

Be humble and keep a low profile. It doesn’t matter how high you fly.

Rui Chenggang used to say that back then. He is an "old friend" of world celebrities such as former US President Clinton, former Secretary of State Kissinger, former Japanese Prime Minister Naoto Kan, and former Australian Prime Minister Kevin Rudd.

He attends the Davos Economic Forum every year. , there will be a "gathering of Rui Chenggang and his friends"

But when Rui Chenggang was sentenced to prison, his "old friends" from all over the world disappeared, and his former partners also fell in love. The hozen is scattered, and those who add insult to injury are also coming one after another. The world is so cold...

Don’t be too self-righteous. In the rush of life, you are just a passer-by. In the long river of human history, you are not even comparable to a grain of sand.

Don’t value yourself too much. This is a kind of cultivation, a kind of grace, a kind of elegant state, and a kind of optimistic attitude in life.

It is a kind of mentality. Maturity is a kind of indifference of mind. Living with this mentality can make you healthier and broader; doing things with this mentality can make life easier and more practical; living with this mentality can make people around you more like it. Get along with you.

Buddha said: There is no water, no moon, no clouds, no sky, let go of yourself

Don’t show off your money, the hospital is like paper;

Don’t show off your work, if you fail, countless people will do better than you;

Don’t show off your room, if you go there, it is someone else’s nest;

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Don’t show off your car. Once you leave, the car keys will be in someone else’s hands!

The only thing you can show off: your health!

When everyone else is gone, you can still bask in the sun, drink tea, and enjoy a healthy life.

Please be kind to yourself as some of the ingredients are bad and very expensive! There is no stock now....

Human character is the best trump card

There is an ancient saying: Virtue carries everything, that is to say, as long as a person is virtuous, there is nothing he cannot bear. On the contrary, if a person is not virtuous, he will not be able to undertake big things.

These famous quotes warn us that we must be willing to suffer losses and think more about others in order to achieve success in our careers. At the same time, virtue is a blessing, and you must be kind to gain the respect of others.

2. Kindness

Kindness is an important factor in good character. People should always have a grateful heart, so that they will be appreciated by people. You should do more good deeds and do more good deeds. Only in this way can we live a calm life and achieve the state of not doing bad things on weekdays and not being afraid of ghosts knocking on the door at midnight.

3. Keep your word

Without credibility, nothing can be accomplished. In interpersonal communication, the most important thing is to be trustworthy. Ancient people believed that keeping one's word is one of the important behaviors of a human being, and it is important to keep one's word and keep one's word.

Wei Sheng died at Lanqiao for love, and Zengzi killed a pig for his son. These are all ancient stories of keeping one's word. In society, if a person is dishonest, no one will want to associate with him, let alone win his trust.

4. Tolerance

As the saying goes, tolerance means greatness. A person must have a tolerant heart to tolerate the difficulties in the world. People should learn to tolerate people who have different views than their own, especially those who have conflicts with them.

Tolerating others is actually to loosen your own heart. Otherwise, you will only suffer your own heart and yourself. Recognize the differences between people, see more of the advantages and strengths of others, tolerate the shortcomings and shortcomings of others, and divide others into two. In everything, there is a win-lose situation and a give-and-take situation.

5. Honesty

Integrity is the basis, integrity is the virtue, and integrity is the virtue. Human beings are not sincere and cannot make friends. "If you want to take on a great responsibility, you must be firm." Only by being honest and reliable can people win the respect of others and gain a foothold in society.

Regarding work, whether it is reporting or reporting problems, we must seek truth from facts and must not commit fraud or spread rumors if we do not believe them.

6. Humility

Humility is an important part of character. Humility makes people progress, pride makes people fall behind. When you think low of yourself, it's a good thing. On the one hand, it's good for your progress, and on the other hand, it's good for you to get along with others.

An ancient saying goes: "No matter what you do, you can't be snobbish; no matter what you do, you can't be careless." When doing things, don't always think that you are virtuous. It is indispensable. Well, easy to be annoying. If a person is humble, everyone likes him.

7. Integrity

You may not be a great person, but you can be an upright person. The first thing an upright person should do is to act according to his conscience. Wang Yongbin of the Qing Dynasty said: "Please control my conscience and leave some room for me to be a good person." This is what he said.

If an official can proceed from his conscience, he is definitely a noble and upright person. People should also have correct concepts of right and wrong, and have their own opinions when encountering problems. Never say hello, me, or everyone. Stick to the truth, and don’t call wrong a right just because the relationship is good, and don’t call a wrong a right just because the relationship is bad.

8. Record

Human beings have permanence. You must have determination, perseverance, patience, and perseverance in everything you do. This is the key to success. Otherwise there will be nothing. This is what we say: "A drop of water wears a stone, an iron rod sharpens a needle."

Patriot General Feng Yuxiang once said: "The big guys in the world are all mentally retarded" because once these people recognize the target, they just move forward, and in this way they achieve success. On the contrary, some so-called smart people end up in a mess because their minds move too fast, they look around and think too much.

As a mentally retarded person, we might as well think of ourselves a little smaller. Why not? In every day's work, we must find our own position, find ways to get things done, do them well, and strive to pursue the happiness of success. This perseverance and courage are the concrete manifestation of persistent pursuit.

No matter what you do in life, you can only reach the highest realm of life by constantly improving your self-cultivation and recognizing your own status and value.