Yes, you are right, how can a man who doesn't care about his family be a good man? A man should be an upright man who can support the family, protect the family safely and faithfully in times of hardship and crisis, and protect the family's property and personal safety from infringement at all times.

If this man lives and sleeps around the house, does not care about his job, does not care about his family and children, and only cares about personal enjoyment, such a man is a scumbag. It is unfortunate for a family to have such a man. His family is in danger of being torn apart at any time.