In "Do You Know"! Sheng Minglan has a classic saying, "To stay with someone, you ultimately rely on your lowest point." The lowest point of your character;

There are girls around me! When falling in love and getting married, there is a misunderstanding, which is to look at the other person’s strengths, for example, is the job good? Does he look handsome? Will I buy gifts, do I have money, and what about me? I agree more with Minglan’s idea of ??getting along with others! You have to look at his lowest point, because this determines that if one day the love between you is no longer fresh, how hard can his heart be and how ruthless can his behavior be? The lowest point of some men is that they are not good at words, and they are not good at speaking. However, he is actually kind in his heart. Even if we break up in the future, he will not yell at you and undermine you. For another example, some men are reckless and selfish at their lowest point. Even if he is ambitious and successful in his career, , the external conditions are excellent, but once you go against his wishes, his temper will be out of control and he will do anything cruel. In fact, in a long-term love and marriage;

The final battle is three points : Personality, cultivation and responsibility. In the process of getting along, find the shortcomings of these three points, rather than the other person's scattered advantages. The other person must be a good person, not just when he loves you. To be a good person, how do you find the lowest point in this person?

There are three details:

First, is his attitude towards his family rough or gentle? This is personality;

The second is whether he is hysterical when he is angry, or he faces it calmly; this is cultivation;

The third is keeping his word when he promises others Commitment, or just say it casually and forget it, this is responsibility;

We fall in love because of each other's strengths, but in the end we have to get along with each other's shortcomings. A healthy and long-term relationship may not necessarily look like it. So colorful, even more plain and full of shortcomings, but this is the truth. May we be surprised at first sight and happy for a long time.