-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
People who can't bear it are the most cruel to themselves.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
What is more terrible than the unknown is foresight, and what is more disturbing than change is constancy.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
Not all hobbies need to be useful. As long as this hobby brings you happiness. People always have to find something they like ... to make you different and interesting. What's wrong with some useless hobbies without affecting normal life?
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
I found that people always stagnate at a certain moment, sometimes because of inertia and sometimes because of environment.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
The most powerful thing in a woman is toughness, and she can survive even in the mud. The best thing about a woman is that she has the determination to do what she firmly believes is right, even if the whole world is overthrown, confused and forgotten.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
A person should have the ability to take life too lightly and let it go when life is hit hard.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
Things are different, close friends are scattered, but the good times I spent and enjoyed are real. On paper, I once had a quiet world.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
I found you in the vast sea of people. Fortunately, you are as beautiful as ever.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
The world is bitter, but life should be what it should be. Even so, when the whole world forgets about you, before going to bed every day, she will iron the clothes to be worn the next day with a big teapot full of hot water, so her children are always cleaner and flatter than their peers even if they are dressed in rags. At that time, he didn't understand. He just vaguely felt that even as a washerwoman, his mother was different from others. As an adult, I have been trying to find the standard of beauty. At this moment, it dawned on me.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
You realize why there are so many people who are addicted to hobbies in the world, but there are too many people who just make a living for eight hours. Yes, just to make a living, not talk about ideals. Your present job is just a tool for your livelihood. You play the person you need every day, playing the same role. You hate millions of people, but it is too difficult and expensive to make a comeback and start from scratch.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
In fact, in most things, there is no essential difference between acting according to this opinion and acting according to that opinion. There are only a few key things in a person's life that need to express his views. For example, who you live with, what you do, what you like, what you want and what you need to maintain.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
Youth is a very accidental thing, a very accidental choice, a very accidental change and a very accidental result.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
You don't need the temptation of Jianghu risks, and you don't need to be rich or expensive as an insurance policy. Usually, when he is here, you will be practical. This is the sense of security.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
Too many people have no idea about big things and don't make do with small things. The more trivial things are, the more we strive for people around us to exercise their decision-making power frequently according to their own ideas and think that this is independence.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
She is lucky because she is so diligent in capturing every useful information; Not only with your heart, but also with more execution than a dreamer.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
For an underachiever admitted to a university, there will be a thousand reasons afterwards to say that he must work hard at that time, but seriously thinking about life, I am sure that my first time happened at that dusk-I can't live a life that can see the end.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
It turned out that at the moment I entered school, I also pressed the pause button of my life. Escape is not the way out. There is nothing to feel sorry for others and feel glad for yourself. Everything is just for myself.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
Whether it's school or work, all your life experiences, all the things you waved goodbye to, all belong to you at the moment of farewell, but in different ways and with different marks. Living the present life, but always taking the past life as an example. Casual words, a smell, a trace of aroma, will remind people of a certain fragment of the past, and then start talking about Kan Kan. At that time, the small restaurant next to our school; At that time, the grove next to our company. Tell a story that once belonged to you.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
If I had known that a certain moment was the end of an important relationship, she would spare no effort to play it and draw a happy ending.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
I am better than others in selling Chinese cabbage.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
Time is always a headache, sometimes it feels long and idle, and sometimes it feels short. Being late for class is always a verbal topic.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
Perhaps what we put in front of people is the result of hard work, and only ourselves can understand the ups and downs; Then we will envy others' achievements, feel sorry for ourselves and feel that we are the most unfortunate people in the world.
-Lin Tete's "Live the way you like"
We walked far in the eyes, watching others leave, and finally waited for a complete farewell. In this world, we will never meet again.
Live the way you like.
Not all hobbies need to be useful. As long as this hobby brings you happiness. People always have to find something they like ... to make you different and interesting.
Live the way you like.
A classic quotation of "living as you please"
1, the best thing about being young is that I'm not afraid. I believe in miracles in all books on TV. I think I can go anywhere and live in any way. As long as you want, you can transform yourself and become anyone.
2. When we can see the mountain, we are far away from it; When we can see the sea, we are far away from it.
3, awareness, conditions, opportunities, even in ordinary moments, our lives are actually full of turning points and clues, the plot has a logical dark line, and the future is buried in the past.
When I grow up, I want to be a person with funny talk, credible personality, profound knowledge and clear eyes.
5, you know, even if the first half of life is beautiful, the second half depends on wisdom and money.
6. Let's close our eyes and imagine that we are eighty years old, wrinkled, thin and full of energy, and it's best to talk about what we have seen. If we look back from that day, we must tell ourselves now: "Your blood is burning, straight!" " Live your life according to your own wishes, because winning the right to be yourself is worth fighting for with your life. When you encounter suffering, despair, miracle, comrades-in-arms, old enemies, don't forget that this is your own will, you swore an oath. "
7. I am not qualified to evaluate anyone's life goals, but I admire those who have a deep understanding of their own desires and abilities and will accomplish their mission.
8. I'm telling the past now, stripping away the story I told. Every confused choice can be summarized into four elements: pursuit, pain, consciousness and decisive moment.
9. The present situation of life is the resultant force of all external and internal forces and the common result of all variables determined by the superposition of will. Realize this, and you will pay attention to everything, because everything is meaningful; You will also look down on everything, because the influence of a single force is limited. Planning is the overall situation and structure, the destination and significance, and they are the most important starting point.
10, really, it is extremely important to be grateful. Once mastered, the grid of happiness will gradually become dense in the long life. Of course, it will be the same after that, and then there will be a new round of concentration.
1 1. Every time you change careers, it means that the previous master's road is dead, and it has fallen down a layer in the pyramid and once again fell back to the average level of people. In a limited time, every time you change your profession, you increase the risk of returning to mediocrity, and you are branded as a lost person. However, this is me.
12. Only when people have seen several living methods can they imagine the living methods they can have.
13. Before I do something vague and wrong, I will think about whether the hidden motive for doing it includes "I am lazy, I am greedy and I am lucky". If so, I'll think about it again, whether it can stand the cross-examination at different levels.
14, the person I want to be in college is an idealist. When you meet something or someone, you can't give up your personal design. What you gave up was not a real rationalist.
15. Nothing is worth crying about except survival and disaster.
16, I have long been used to trying to demonstrate before giving a judgment and trying to solve problems when emotions strike. I can only be myself, and I have no other choice.
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1. May there be breeze and elves in your city, and someone is your way home, and may you get lost by my side.
Life is like this. It will never give you so much satisfaction and get what you want. It will only tell you again and again with your unavoidable mistakes. No one can predict the result until the end. It will only let you know that fate is always awesome at every moment of relaxation and unprepared.
3. Some people just appear to remember.
4. Life is a aimless journey. We are all looking for someone, and we don't need to be brave or pretend. We are also looking for a better self, full, warm, soft and full of strength. In fact, I have never lost my way. In Me Before You, I regard life as a free walk. No matter how you go through vicissitudes, you will always be full of sincerity and kindness. May there be breeze and strong liquor in your city.
I know all your sorrows. Believe me, I really understand. But so what? You have to walk alone in life, and you have no choice but to bear everything yourself. The happy days are over, and the pain is over. Let yourself be happy, OK?
6. All disappointments will pass, but believe us, goodness is more than evil.
Classic Quotations from Zen Heart and Zen Life
1. In order to pursue happiness, we must first acquire wisdom. Wipe away the dust in your heart and know the true colors of life. Zen, like her, lived all her life.
Time is so cool in the morning and evening. If you can learn to do a little subtraction and subtract too many troubles and desires, even if you are in the depths of the world of mortals, you can still be clean and comfortable, live in the present and immerse yourself in meditation and happiness.
We should observe the truth of the world in an all-round way and not be deceived by temporary differences.
People fall in love, get married and live a life, which is predestined and has a deep Zen meaning. This time, next time. People get along with different mentality at different stages. People are not static.
5. Mother-in-law's world refers to people's world, which always has shortcomings and can't be perfect. "Woman" means "forbearance" in Sanskrit, and she is always in pain and distractions. If we magnify small things and deal with them infinitely, there will certainly be endless troubles.
How to get rid of troubles? Just holding a Zen mind in the world.
6. Deal with small things, don't hold it in your heart and ferment, take it out to dry, make a joke and let the wind blow away. Zen is more true, seeking to identify the truth and understand the essence, but not caring about people and being tolerant of them.
7. The most important thing in life is self-discipline and heteronomy. If you don't want to choose other laws, you have to be self-disciplined.
8. Comfortable is not an adult, but an adult is uncomfortable. If you want to achieve something, you must be controlled.
9. The secret of Zen must be inseparable from daily life. Our intentions determine our karma.
10. Just like a tea drinker, remind yourself to obey the rules and offer tea to others with both hands. Over time, you will naturally get used to being polite and humble. Get close to others and others will help you.
1 1. If you long for comfort and security, you will be like those frogs. Times have changed, new plans have come, and you have lost your foundation.
In your twenties, you should know better than ever not to waste your life on comfort.
12. A whip is a whip. "This is the story explained in Jingdezhen Lantern Legend: a fast horse can walk Wan Li Road with a whip; An understanding person can get a comprehensive understanding and take immediate action as long as he says a word to him.
13. The essence of Zen is never to persuade people to do nothing, but to strive to realize themselves and handle their own lives well.
14. Only when we get rid of the myth can we realize that life is constantly changing.
You can't apply one lifestyle to different people in Qian Qian.
15. Therefore, the waste in the eyes of others is actually your own accumulation period.
Just stick to what you like, don't think too much, stick to it and you will get results. If you grow up in your own way, you will have your own wind and harvest.
16. It is said that life should have a meditation, but meditation is not muddleheaded or timid. Bodhisattva also has two faces: low eyebrows and thunderbolt.
In fact, both men and women are gentle and strong, which is a great charm and a real Zen. Not afraid of things, not timid, facing difficulties, is the real strength.
17. A good leader will not rush ahead every day, do everything himself and be exhausted, but create more opportunities for team members and help them grow.
18. Close people can teach directly; People who are far apart should consider each other's situation. This embodies wisdom and Buddha's heart. Before helping others solve problems, we must consider the real needs of others.
19. In daily life, there are Zen machines everywhere, and everything is Zen. As Zen master Dazhu Huihai said, the so-called practice means eating when you are hungry and sleeping when you are sleepy, that's all.
In a short life, we never know what kind of future we will encounter next time. Focus on the present, and you won't miss the beauty.
2 1. Everyone has such a characteristic. If they are injured, one will stick to his teeth, hold his breath, get through the pain and sadness and stand up quickly; If we get a lot of attention from others, complain constantly and seek comfort constantly, we will become weaker and weaker.
22. When we are vulnerable, we are particularly eager for sympathy. However, when sympathy comes, it will suck away our strength to stand up.
On the long road of life, when we encounter difficulties and setbacks, we can change our destiny by correcting our mentality. There is no unchangeable world, only the unchangeable self.
When you change your mind, not bound by the shadow, background and starting point of gender discrimination, and jump out of the cage of ideas, the world will change with you.
24. Qian Zhongshu also said in On Happiness: "If you feel happy after taking a bath, watching flowers and eating, it is not entirely because the bath is clean and the flowers are blooming well, or the food is to your taste, mainly because your mind is free, and a relaxed soul can concentrate on the feeling, appreciation and examination of the body. Therefore, happiness is determined by the spirit. Spiritual alchemy can turn physical pain into happy information. Although life is unsatisfactory, it can still be optimistic. "
25. If it is not as good as expected, you can either admit that you are out, stop fighting with the past and give yourself a chance to live, or get stuck in a quagmire and let all your dignity be trampled and suffocated. This is life.
26. Whether practicing by yourself or helping others, we should advocate self-reliance as the first criterion. This is the real great sorrow.
27. In the Ming Dynasty, Wu Shi Zen Master had a famous Zen poem: "The past has passed, so there is no need to think about the future. Only today's sidewalk is this sentence, plums are ripe and gardenias are fragrant. "
28. A person can get along well with loneliness, get along with himself, stop pleasing others, live beautifully and get along well with others.
29. We look for partners in order to get love and fall in love. This is the sincerity.
30. Only truth can dissolve persistence.
We should be the masters of our own hearts, and practice itself needs time to clarify the truth for us.
3 1. People don't necessarily become smart when they grow up. Go back to the child's perspective and re-examine life. If the child falls and stands up again, it should be forgotten.
32. In fact, real learning comes from various common places in life. True practice also comes from eating and drinking, cherishing a piece of paper and reading a page of scripture.
33. Taking things as they are is a peaceful attitude towards life and a good prescription for optimism. In the eyes of Master Hongyi, everything is the same whether it is salty or light, respectful or contemptuous. In the face of any kind of life situation, it makes no difference if you accept it all.
34. A Zen master once said, "It doesn't matter if you suffer some losses, but you might as well give in by three points. I only see willow green in spring and chrysanthemum yellow in autumn. "
This kind of love is like water. Although dull, it lasts. It is an umbrella held up during heavy rain; It is a cup of hot water that you pass when you have a cold; Or, I ate a bowl of clear soup noodles for breakfast.
36. It is most comfortable to leave some space for your stomach. A full meal, what about the stomach?
Isn't life the same? Many times, you need to leave blank.
37. Disputes and provocations are inevitable in life, and humor is the magic weapon to "turn war into friendship".
38. "Stop the war with war, never stop; Only patience can stop fighting. " Endless arguments will only add to troubles, but they will not help and will not solve any problems. At this time, we have to use our compassion and wisdom to skillfully resolve each other's anger.
39. If a person wants to live in peace with the world and get along with others, he can only be calm and relaxed, laugh at himself and relax with a smile, and then he can make peace.
40. We often say that we should accumulate wealth and practice. In fact, cooking for your family is the best way and the support of love.
4 1. The more a person cares about the feelings of others, the more humble and weak he is. In fact, as long as you are willing, you can always return to indifference, grope from darkness to dawn, and be yourself confidently.
42. When we get along with people in life and solve things, we must remember to take the right path, have a bright heart and turn it into due strength with a good attitude.
Dealing with things in a bad way and venting your anger and resentment may be refreshing and Japanese for a while, but if fortunes depend on each other and a fire source is planted, it will be difficult to clean up or even destroy precious things.
43. Marriage is different from love. We should not only love each other, but also tolerate his shortcomings.
44. A person's highest reward is neither money nor laurel. The highest reward is: give him or her a mirror and let him or her see what kind of person he or she is.
45. Hungry to eat, sleepy to sleep, hot and cold, cold to fire. Normal mind is natural, there is nothing artificial, there is no right or wrong.
46. Buddhists believe that we can't just judge the people, things and things we meet in life by intuition, otherwise we will get into trouble. Look through the surface of things and see the inner side below, so as not to fall into a confused predicament. Our intuition is often unreliable.
47. If you know the happiness in life, you should cherish them. A person who knows the meaning of happiness will cherish what he has in front of him, not only to let the water flow forever, but also to find the right way to open up sources and reduce expenditure, so that happiness can develop continuously and last longer, instead of running out of blessings at once.
48. If you can cultivate a carefree heart and know how to follow the cause and the trend, maybe you will become much more relaxed.
49. The ancients said, "Man proposes, God disposes, and you can't be strong." Contrary to expectations, since there is no hurry, we can only do what the old monk said: follow fate.
Patiently endure the worst days, and when the conditions are ripe, it will naturally follow.
Because people are rare and easy to get lost, parents should not only meet their children's material needs, but also have the responsibility to accompany their children to find the right direction in life. There are some things that children must do alone, accompany them to find their own needs, let them pursue and realize themselves.
5 1. Who wants to hear an overwhelming reprimand every day? The ancients said, "A sharp knife hurts easily, but a bad word hurts and hates hard to disappear." When we are angry, we often say something that hurts others, causing irreparable consequences.
52. "Replace blame with encouragement and reprimand with praise".
Master Xing Yun believes that this is not only the best way to educate, but also the best way to be a person.
53. As professionals, they usually do more and do less in their work, and the final result is different. Where a person goes depends entirely on yourself, not your boss.
Being reprimanded by the boss and being yelled at by the boss are actually just clouds. The only thing you have to do now is to set a goal, stick to it in a down-to-earth way, grow a little every day, and finally show your unique value.
54. Young people are wandering in big cities, holding ideals and eager for success, and their hearts are also erratic. A successful person should not only have a smart mind, but also have the patience to persist in loneliness.
If you can't get the reserved room, you must try your best to get the other party to put you at the top of the waiting list. If you don't reach your goal, you must find a way to become the first candidate.
56. Throw your negative emotions to others, and then how to live, that's not talking, that's escaping and shirking.
There is a saying I like very much: "mind your own heart, mind your own mouth and do your own thing." Such people are activists.
No matter where you are, don't complain about the difficulties you face first. You must be a real activist, make up your mind to change yourself and do everything well in the present, in order to "turn troubles into bodhi".
Complainers are crushed by life, while activists win life.
58. Buddhism advocates the practice of "the middle way", which means relaxing once at a time and combining rigidity with softness. In fact, the same is true with people.
59. If a person is smart in everything, takes me as the center and sticks to other people's small shortcomings and mistakes, he is likely to be smart and mistaken. I think this may be why people say "see through life, not see through it".
60. In our life and work, we need to promote the way of thinking of ourselves and others. When you encounter something, you should think calmly: from the other side's point of view, what would I think and do?
6 1. Clothes can't give stable and reliable love and care, only relatives and partners can. You, it's time to subtract your life.
62. If you don't know how to be modest and respect others, you will eventually hurt yourself. And people who really do great things will be soft-hearted like water, will not fight for a moment, and will forgive others when they are reasonable.
63. We can sincerely respect each other, be gentle and natural, and do not need arrogance or flattery. When you are gentle, you naturally have strength, gentle and inclusive like water, and nourish everything.
64. One of the most beautiful compensations in life is that people help themselves after sincerely helping others.
65. Life is not a life-and-death war. If you take the initiative to compromise, you can solve the problem. People who reach out first are happier and more active.
66. If you don't take it lightly and meet the psychological needs of others, you will naturally win the respect of others and succeed in doing things.
67. Many students and teenagers are not cheap, and life has its own opportunities. Everyone needs to be responsible for his own life. It may not be icing on the cake, but it will definitely be a timely help.
68. Love is a choice. Others think it is a great sacrifice, in fact, the parties themselves are very satisfied. People who can give love are very happy inside.
69. No pains, no gains. In a world where everyone is greedy for fame and fortune, unscrupulous and cheating, the richer the material, the more restless the people are. Find ways to make others happy, find ways to make others miserable, find ways to make others happy. "You can accumulate small kindness into great virtue, and sprinkle lotus fragrance with compassion and joy all the way.
79. Even after witnessing the darkest and worst moment, you can still accept all imperfections with a smile and be a kind, tolerant and upright person.