Professor Li Meijin, a famous psychologist, is sought after by parents because of his practical and effective concept of raising children. Tik Tok has been honored as a new generation of parenting experts with professional opinions on children's education, marriage and family, and the lecture was packed. She once said: Smart parents will give their children the right to choose!

Mothers want their children to grow up healthily and happily, and arrange everything for their children to ensure their stability throughout their lives. Although parents have good intentions, children are not our private products after all. Every child has his own specific personality characteristics, and there are infinite possibilities. If we help him make the so-called best route too early, it may not be really good for the children.

1. Probably in parents' subconscious, children have the right to control their own things.

Li Meijin, a professor at People's Public Security University, said in legal report: Many parents have no choice when communicating with their children. The most frequently said words are "What you have to do, what you do this semester and what you do next semester, he has made a good plan".

Professor Li Meijin suggested that parents should give their children more choices, make a plan for their holidays, and spend half or one third of their holidays playing or studying. There are two options for children to choose, which will make children feel respected and more acceptable.

2. The children's own goals.

what is faith? Faith is a concept that people firmly believe after practice, and its core is to believe and stick to it. There may be some low tides in a person's life, setbacks, incomprehension of others, and even a contemptuous and mocking look from others.

But even like this, the restless heart still insists on going on by itself. If you have a persistence in your heart, you will have strength. If you have patient persistence, you will not easily follow the reality.

what kind of ideas do you instill in your children? You should always nag in your mouth. Nagging must be put before he leaves you, that is, before he is 12 years old; After the age of 12, he became independent in adolescence, and you will be annoyed if you nag him again. Therefore, in education, we should help young people to know themselves in time, so should parents, and tell their children what your shortcomings are at any time. What is your weakness?

Socrates, an ancient Greek philosopher, famously said, "Know yourself!" In order to make scientific choices, parents should help their children know themselves during their growth. Many times, when faced with choices, some people often don't know what they should do. When faced with children's doubts, parents should learn to help them find themselves and know themselves.