Theoretical demonstration

It is true tolerance not to care about those who have hurt themselves. anonymous

If you stare at the abyss for too long, the abyss will stare back at you. If a person can't let go of his resentment against the enemy, he will live in anger and sadness forever. -Nietzsche

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Factual argument

Mandra

Mandela was tortured by prison guards. When he was elected president, he respectfully paid tribute to the three guards. All the guests present and even the whole world were quiet.

He said: "When I walked out of my cell and walked through the prison door leading to freedom, I knew that if I couldn't put my sadness and resentment behind me, I would still be in prison."

Cao Cao

In the battle of Guandu, Cao Cao defeated Yuan Shao, and many of the captured trophies were loyal letters written by his subordinates to Yuan Shao. Most of the letters belittle Cao Cao and express their trust in Yuan Shao.

Some advisers suggested to Cao Cao that all these people with double thoughts should be arrested and killed as an example. Those soldiers who once wanted to take refuge in Yuan Shao were also in constant fear.

Unexpectedly, Cao Cao ordered all these letters to be burned, and no one should be responsible for his mistakes. He said to the soldiers around him: "The war is coming. The enemy is strong and I am weak. I can't even protect myself, let alone my men." It is human nature to find a good way out. "

Six-foot driveway

During the reign of Kangxi in Qing Dynasty, there was a college student named Zhang Ying. One day, Zhang Ying received a letter from home, saying that her family had an argument with her neighbor in order to compete for a three-foot wide homestead, and asked him to use his power to smooth the relationship and win the lawsuit.

After reading the letter, Zhang Ying smiled indifferently and wrote a letter with a poem: Why not let him write a book for a wall? The Great Wall of Wan Li is still there today, but I haven't seen Qin Shihuang.

After receiving the letter, the family voluntarily gave up the three-foot homestead. Neighbors saw it and took the initiative to give way to each other. Finally, it became Liuchi Lane, and the story of turning an enemy into a friend has been passed down to this day.

Su Shi

Su Shi was persecuted by Zhang Dun many times, and Zhang Dun even demoted Su Shi to Hainan, trying to let him die of old age in the wild.

After Su Shi pardoned the world, his son wrote to Su Shi, hoping that Su Shi would be lenient with the Zhang family and not retaliate. Su Shi said in his reply, "But in the past, it was more beneficial."

Such persecution was underestimated by Su Shi's sentence "What's there to talk about". Things have passed, don't mention it again. He also sent medicine to sick Zhang Dun, hoping that he would recover soon.

Su Shi

Tolerance to strangers is the best quality and accomplishment.

When Su Dongpo became the chief executive of Hangzhou, he met tachileik, a candidate for tax evasion. Wu Wei was arrested by tax collectors for transporting gauze to Beijing in the name of Su Shi.

When Su Shi learned about the situation, he knew that Wu Wei had used his own name to transport gauze to evade taxes. It was only because the travel expenses for the exam were not enough that he had to make this decision.

Su Shi did not pursue it, but instead sent him a batch of goods, so that he could prepare for the exam with peace of mind.

Tolerance of strangers promotes a person's tolerance and personality.

Tolerance of relatives

In addition to being tolerant of strangers, we should also be tolerant of family and friends.

Family, friends and lovers are the closest people in our daily life. But the closer we get, the easier it is for us to be picky.

We leave our good temper to outsiders, but we like to leave our bad temper to the people we love most. It is instinct to find fault with people close to you. It is wisdom to overcome instinct and not find fault with those close to you.

Don't argue with people close to you about unimportant things. Losing will hurt yourself, winning will hurt your loved ones.