1. Does sleeping in separate beds really keep your marriage fresh?

There is a saying, "First-class couples sleep in separate rooms, second-class couples sleep in separate beds, and third-class couples sleep in the same bed." Some people have always regarded this sentence as a wise saying. How can such a little fun not keep the marriage fresh?

Cai Bo and Xiaoya have never slept together since they had children. In order not to affect the children, I said that they would sleep together when they are older.

But it was no longer possible for them to sleep together. When the child was three years old, they chose to divorce because of Cai Bo's cheating.

It’s so sad! Sleeping in separate beds between husband and wife is really the beginning of the demise of a relationship, and this is not an alarmist statement. Separating beds means distraction, the separation of heart from heart, the alienation of heart, and the alienation of emotions.

2. Sleeping position is a "mirror" that reflects the most true emotional state of a couple

Bed sharing is a medium for the sublimation of the relationship between husband and wife, but it does not mean that they will really grasp it. Sleeping in the same bed and having different pillows will also lead to different dreams! If you want to know their emotional state, just look at how they sleep.

Sleeping posture hides the secrets of life and emotions. It is an external manifestation of intimate relationship. Whether there is any affection between husband and wife can be known by looking at the sleeping posture.

Maintaining relationships requires communication, and a busy day definitely lacks communication. Those few minutes of pillow talk in front of the bed have become the most important bridge between husband and wife. Whether they had pillow talk or not directly caused their sleeping postures to be different.

If the couple is still in love, how can they bear to sleep in separate beds?

3. We must not only sleep together, but also be together in our hearts

Marriage is a real-life version of "Journey to the West". Only by facing the difficulties in life can we achieve success.

It is better to sleep in separate beds than to share the same bed with different dreams. Marriage is a long practice. We come together because of love. Because of love, we give birth to new life. Because of love, we move forward together. All of this is because of love. , all this love comes from having each other in our hearts.

When our hearts are together, we eat together, sleep together, and explore the future together, life becomes so bright and full of hope.

Don’t be blinded by life. Marriage requires two people to work together and maintain it. Don't follow what others say. If others say sleeping in separate beds will help keep you fresh, just do it. Other people's lifestyles are not suitable for you. The vast majority of loving couples in marriage not only sleep together, but also share their hearts.