first, be yourself. First of all, we should know ourselves and what kind of person we are: what are the unique places, what are the advantages and disadvantages, what are our interests and hobbies, and what are our ideals and ambitions. Secondly, you should accept yourself, no matter how poor your family is and how ignorant your parents are, you should admit him and accept him frankly; As far as your appearance is concerned, ugly, short, black, fat, acne all over your face, or even disabled, the person in the mirror is yourself. You should face him with joy and appreciate him like a work of art. Finally, you should be firm in yourself. Everyone is the creator's only work in the world. There is no duplication or cloning. Every feature of you is dyed with your color, either red or blue. Although other colors are popular in fashion, don't worry, don't be afraid, and don't make changes blindly. The creator didn't make you a vassal of others, you just exist as you.
second, we should constantly improve ourselves and be the best of ourselves. It's better not to compare with others. There are days behind us, and there are people outside us. Compared with others, you will never be the best one, and you will never enjoy the joy of success. The best thing is to compare with yourself, with yourself in the past, and with yourself yesterday, so that you can become the best yourself today, and strive to make progress every day. Being the best you can be doesn't matter who you were yesterday, how thin your foundation is, or how poor your foundation is. As long as you work hard, you can be better than you who don't work hard. As long as you keep working hard, you can be the best you can be.
Perfecting yourself is not blind perfection. For example, a student can study hard by compressing time for rest and exercise, which is commendable, but it will never be the best. There are only 24 hours in a day, and you can't keep working hard for 24 hours. People's energy is limited. You must first ensure the efficiency in class, ensure the efficiency of self-study class, and keep making progress when energy allows. Then when you lie in bed at night, you can calmly say to yourself that you did your best today.
to be the best is to be the happiest!