Second, one thing, no matter how beautiful, once there is no result, don't pester it again, it will be tired after a long time; One thing, even if you remember it again and can't grasp it, you should put it down at the right time, which will break your heart for a long time. Sometimes, giving up is another kind of persistence. If you miss the splendor of summer flowers, you will definitely walk into autumn leaves. Everything, anyone, will become the past. Don't embarrass it. No matter how difficult it is, we must learn to get out.
Third, what should come will come, and what should go will go, beginning and ending. Sometimes, follow the fate, follow the fate, and don't force it; Meet any situation, face, accept, deal with, let go, not demanding. Borrowed a pair of empty skins, arrived empty, lived for decades, and that's all.
Fourth, in life, there are too many helpless things and too many helplessness. An impenetrable disguise is like an impenetrable heart. An unclear feeling is like an incomprehensible mind. Less muscle is not as good as more heart; Forgiveness with a smile is better than red eyes.
Five, a hundred years of life, suddenly become empty. Life does not bring, death does not bring. All encounters, joys and sorrows, are determined by the heart. If you can see through and let go, everything will be like a flower in the mirror and a moon in the water. Although pleasing to the eye, it is not eternal. It's better to be happy and open-minded, not to let yourself spend time in sadness, not to let yourself wander around, to start with fate, to end with fate, to be happy in everything and to live happily. Life is a game, but you can only live once.
6. When you cling to something, you can only have it. If you are willing to let go, you will have a chance to choose something else. If a person insists on his own ideas in his heart and refuses to let go, then his wisdom can only reach a certain level.
7. Disappointment is common in this world. People who are obedient to you can make you get what you want. If you don't care, no one or thing can satisfy you. If you live a lifetime, you need peace of mind, so why bother yourself? The heart is one inch wide and the road is ten feet wide.
Eight, there is nothing in the world, only yourself and yourself. Many times, when I look back on the past, I can see the depression, sadness, entanglement and anxiety that caused me pain. Actually, I'm fighting myself. What should come will come, and what should be changed will pass. Bitterness is also a day, and joy is also a day. Why bother? Letting go of yourself is actually a release.
No matter how good yesterday is, you can't go back; No matter how difficult tomorrow is, we must keep our feet up and move on. No one can disturb you unless you disturb yourself with other people's words and deeds; There is nothing you can't let go unless you don't want to let go yourself. Life is a kind of mood; Life is about quality. Understand that nothing is empty, things are not chaotic, big things are not afraid, and small things are not slow.
Ten, everything in life is not calculated, but seeking goodness; I didn't ask for it, I fixed it. The breadth of mind determines the pattern of fate. You can have as much as you can tolerate. Everything is open-minded, thoughtful, affordable and open-minded. Learn to forbear temperament, know how to restrain desires, be rational when retiring, be generous when modest, get rid of distractions and selfishness, and pay less attention to comparison, so as to adapt to the situation.
1 1. When people are upset, they only see who provoked them. They always complain about others, this and that, never complain that they can't see through, can't figure it out, and never look for reasons from themselves. They only know that troubles happen every day, but forget that this is a very common thing. They don't pick nature.
Twelve, it is better to meet each other if you miss it, and it is better to climb with it. Follow the fate, and it will be smooth. When you want nothing, you will have everything. There is no good or bad thing in itself. Good or bad is our own persistence. Follow the fate to be smooth, and let go to get it.
Everyone who appears in your life has a reason and a mission. People who like you give you warmth and courage; The person you like makes you learn love and self-control; People you don't like teach you tolerance and respect; People who don't like you let you know how to reflect and grow. No one appears in your life for no reason. Everyone's appearance is fate, there are reasons, and they are all worthy of gratitude.
Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be happy. Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate. Since I didn't get what I wanted, I might as well be relieved. When you return to inner peace, no longer care about gains and losses, no longer criticize others, you will live a perfect life, and the present is where you belong. People's happiness is given by themselves, and their inner satisfaction is complete; If you are not satisfied, it is difficult to get real happiness. The so-called perfection is not the absence of bitterness and joy, but the companionship of bitterness and joy, sadness and joy.
Fifteen, life is not bitter, what is bitter is too much desire; My heart is not tired, but I am too tired to let go. Life is a process of reducing desires and demands; The profound meaning of fate is to learn to give up and return, give up all impetuous noise and return to inner peace. In life, learn to precipitate. Precipitation, not depression, is to look at impetuousness with a indifferent heart and find your own position in peace.
Sixteen, life is a process of continuous choice and give up. Giving up can make the limited life release the maximum energy. Without giving up boldly, there will be no tenacious persistence. Giving up is a spiritual awakening and a manifestation of wisdom, just like being released into the forest and water. When all the dust settles and the noise of the past calms down, we will truly understand that giving up is also a choice, and losing is also a gain.
17. The most regrettable thing in life is: easily giving up what should not be given up and stubbornly sticking to what should not be adhered to. Life is doomed to be flawed, and the past time can't be found back. Not everything can be as you wish, and you don't have to cling to those unchangeable results.
Eighteen, no one's life will be smooth sailing, those stubborn melodramatic and narrow-minded, is a double harm to life. Life is destined to have many contents, including happiness and hope, which exist every day. Happiness in life is to find a quiet place for the soul. It is always shallow to bury the past, so it is better to put it down as soon as possible.
Nineteen, let them come and let them go. Don't be persistent, don't care, calm down and you will know that you are still you, and you are not led by them, so that you are the real you. Even at the last moment, death is a kind of realm for you. Go with fate and feel at ease.
Twenty, people who see through are full of vitality, and those who don't see through are full of difficulties. Those who can afford it are responsible everywhere, and those who can't afford it are negligent everywhere. People who can let go are avenues everywhere, and people who can't let go are lost everywhere. Those who want to get through it are full of spring; Hard-headed people wither everywhere. It is up to you to decide who you are and what kind of life you live.