"The soft rice is eaten hard" means "I don't want to be a soft rice man, but I still have to endure it".
To put it simply, it means that although I am a soft-boiled person, I eat with confidence. It is generally used to describe the reluctance of pretty boys to rely on single rich women for their lives, but the cruel reality forces them to have no choice but to persevere. Nowadays, it is mostly used for self-deprecation. From the initial derogatory term, the word has gradually been used as a funny word by netizens.
This stem comes from a variety show called "Talk Show", in which there are two talk show actors, Si Wen and Lu Cheng, who are a couple. Once in the program, they talked about the economic strength of men and women, which triggered a series of discussions about gender equality among netizens. Some netizens believe that in today's society, everyone is equal. Even if a woman earns more money than her husband, there is no problem. The man should not feel ashamed and resisted, but should accept it and face this with a "hard-hearted" attitude. phenomenon.
What are the characteristics of men who are soft-boiled and hard-working?
1. Men who eat soft food are very smart
A smart man should usually know how to manage himself and his career. But in view of the weirdness of this era and the collapse and decline of many traditional values, some men have lost the psychological motivation and source of success through their own efforts, and just want to take shortcuts.
2. Men who eat soft food are very strategic.
Men who eat soft food are used to abandoning everyone's definition for their own goals. Such as a sense of dignity, such as not lying, such as positioning oneself as a subordinate dog for others, etc. They habitually strategize their actions and behaviors: today they will move for their leaders, tomorrow they will go shopping for their bosses, the day after tomorrow they will give gifts and flattery to colleagues who need solidarity, and later on, they will even dedicate their own nights.
3. Men who eat soft food are good at moving your heart
To impress people, unless they have peerless appearance and amazing skills, otherwise, in this era where everyone is a legend , is not easy to do. A man who is good at eating soft food can easily do this, because he will always focus on the target audience and constantly take various proactive measures to impress others from the inside out.