The most important thing to give yourself a warm word of comfort is your heart today; don’t always be in trouble with yourself; do what you should do with your heart; don’t care too much about other people’s evaluations; everyone has their own How to live; you will embrace life only if you like yourself; you don’t have to blindly please others; you have to let nature take its course when the deal is done; you might as well put aside your worries for the time being; happiness that you feel is happiness.
2. When I think of these, the spring seedlings grow green all the way to my pillow. "The Poetry and Biography of Tsangyang Gyatso"
3. When Duanju Buzhong was heading to the distant palace, Tsangyang Gyatso became the master. He was drunk next to a beautiful woman in a drunken building at night, and he was a prodigal son in this world. "Collection of Poems of Tsangyang Gyatso"
4. Being able to smile slightly when you are misunderstood is a kind of quality; being able to smile calmly when you are wronged is a kind of generosity; Being able to smile happily when you are in trouble is a kind of open-mindedness; being able to smile optimistically when you are helpless is a kind of state; being able to smile calmly when you are in danger is a kind of magnanimity; being able to smile calmly when you are despised is a kind of state. A kind of self-confidence; being able to smile gently when you are lovelorn is a kind of freedom and ease.
5. Over time, people always have to mature. Sometimes we always hesitate between gains and losses in life, and often we lose more! In fact, in life, we always have to learn and understand how to let go. You will get more harvest!
6. What measure you use to give to others, others will also use the same measure to you. ——"The Bible"
7. Human life is entangled with many trivial matters that are difficult to choose and confusing. What is needed at this time is decisive abandonment and wise choices. The only thing that will limit us is, Just determination.
8. I once worried that being sentimental would harm my holy life, and when I entered the mountains, I was afraid that I would not be able to live in a beautiful city. I have found peace in the world, and I will live up to the Tathagata and your Majesty.
9. The feeling after letting go is melancholy and gentle, which is a rational choice after helplessness! The sweetness of missing someone is mixed with bitterness. When you deeply fall in love with someone, but the other person does not respond to you with love, one day you will find that losing yourself will make you humble no matter how deep your love is. Letting go is actually a kind of beauty and self-comfort that everyone is forced to appreciate but unwilling to appreciate!
10. I am lucky; I am not destined to die - Xu Zhimo Life is a fire. The only thing each of us can do is to save more things from this fire - Bill Gates The most precious thing in the world is not "cannot get" and "lost" but the happiness that can be grasped now - the spider who has practiced for three thousand years
11. Let go of what should be let go, and you will get what you should get. Letting go does not mean letting go of the ideal you are pursuing, but letting go temporarily for the sake of your ideal.
12. If you can give her a happy home, it is better to give her a starting point for flying; if you cannot give her a shoulder to rely on, it is better to leave her gone; if you cannot give her a good happiness , it is better to let her take risks; if the promise cannot always be fulfilled, it is better to remain silent; it is better to let go of being together reluctantly...
13. Spitting up to the sky, spitting does not reach the sky, but falls in front of oneself; dust rises against the wind , the dust does not reach there, it returns to one's own body. ——"The Sutra of Forty-Two Chapters"