I have heard a saying since I was a child, "If you are thick-skinned, you will not be able to eat enough, but if you are thin-skinned, you will not be able to eat enough." I have always believed that this sentence has a certain truth. So I think thick-skinned people are more likely to be successful and richer than thin-skinned people.

I like making friends, especially on the train. Maybe the journey is too long, but I am very willing to talk to the person sitting next to me and learn about each other's major and which school they are in.

At the beginning of this vacation, I boarded the journey home. In the car, I met the most cheerful girl I have seen in 20 years. Why do I say this? Because she is also a freshman, but she has done a lot of things that I have never done. It is shameful to say that she used her own efforts to buy a travel ticket worth 6,000 for her mother. She relied on recruiting people for a certain gym. A freshman girl killed many sophomores and juniors, and the gap between her and the first place was only a few hundred. The secret she finally told me was to be thick-skinned and not afraid of rejection, and to approach her job with the spirit of an unbeatable Xiaoqiang.

We chatted for a long time about this cute and cheerful girl. We learned that this girl can study in three universities and has also met many great people. She is the kind of girl who can afford to pay tuition and support herself. own people. To be honest, everyone has the same tuition fee, but some people rely on their own efforts and do not ask for money from their families, which is indeed admirable. It can be said that the Eight Immortals have shown their magical powers across the sea. Some people go to Taekwondo to discipline children and practice kickboxing, and can earn over 10,000 yuan a month. They are also college students, but the difference is obvious.

The girl I met on the train didn’t seem to like studying very much, but she was very popular and could be said to respond to a hundred requests. This is an era that relies on knowledge, but it is also an era that relies on connections. I don’t despise her because she likes to skip school and stay up late at night. On the contrary, I admire her very much. She has done things that some people want to do but don’t dare to do. I don’t Think she is a bad girl.

Parents like good girls very much, but I don’t know whether a good girl is really good. There is a girl in our village, I should call her sister. She is a good girl in everyone’s eyes, but she is also a girl who can’t do anything. She doesn’t know how to use a lighter or cook. She is afraid of all insects and interacts with others. She blushes when she says anything, and this hasn't changed since she got married. If you ask if such a girl is really good, the answer is obviously wrong. She may not have any chance of success in her life.

Comparing these two girls is largely incomparable. My sister cannot imitate that girl’s liveliness, enthusiasm, and “cheeky” spirit. I have always believed that thick-skinned people are more likely to succeed.