In the TV series "The Way of Heaven", Ding Yuanying is undoubtedly a mystery.

Whether it is his assistant, friends such as Han Chufeng, or even everyone in the play, he is a mystery.

Of course, from a certain perspective, this kind of mystery is an unknown caused by our inability to reach his level. This kind of unknown becomes more and more mysterious due to the small amount of information obtained.

But as Ding Yuanying’s assistant, Yawen’s evaluation of him is very fair, especially the conversation between best friends, which is even more thorough, namely:

“Women, there are so many cheap things. As long as you are a woman, you can't throw it away. From a woman's point of view, Ding Yuanying is not attractive to women. He is not affordable and does not have the things that women want. This kind of person can only be positioned as an acquaintance or friend. It is meaningful, but the value will be destroyed no matter how close the distance is.”

So, in Yawen’s eyes, why is Ding Yuanying not liked by women?

The answer is of course as Yawen said, "He doesn't have women who want things."

In other words, in most cases, a woman is born to be what a man wants, otherwise, she would not be a woman.

So, what do women need?

In reality, women need to be loved, recognized, wealthy, romantic and many other needs, but Ding Yuanying cannot satisfy these needs of women.

That’s why Yawen said, “He doesn’t attract women.”

However, it is worth noting that Ding Yuanying is not incapable of meeting these needs of women, but that he does not bother to devote energy to these "needs". The implication is that his needs are different from ordinary people. As his good friend Han Chufeng said in "Tiandao", that is:

"Yuanying is not a person who is obsessed with getting ahead. He is content with having food to eat. He likes quietness and is used to being alone. This To women, he is passive, withdrawn, and not enterprising."

In other words, Ding Yuanying's needs and personal preferences appear to women to be unenterprising.

However, after hearing these comments, Rui Xiaodan not only did not give up, but moved forward bravely, so she asked him personally to hear what he said personally, that is:

"What do you think? Women? Tell me what is deep in your heart." Ding Yuanying answered frankly: 'Women are a model of formal logic and an obstacle to dialectical logic. I have no intention of destroying women, nor do I want to be destroyed by women.'

And it is precisely Han Chufeng said the real reason why he was afraid of women to the core of his being.

Why?

Because women often only have formal logical thinking, while Ding Yuanying prefers dialectical logical thinking. Although there is no advantage or disadvantage between the two types of logical thinking, he has no intention to reconcile the two. Completely different thinking, and even less willing to wander between the two.

For this reason, he didn't bother to accommodate women's needs, and he was even less willing to let himself face that kind of instability, so he had no choice but to stay away from women.

And this is actually the real reason why Yawen said that Ding Yuanying is not liked by women.

This shows that the conversation between real best friends is so thorough.

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The information in this article is mainly quoted from "The Analects", "Zhuangzi", "The Tan Sutra", "Tao Te Ching", "Sitting Temporarily", "A Dream of Red Mansions", "The Plum in the Golden Vase", "Abandoned Capital", "Walking Alone" and "Philosophical Thoughts on Life" "Thus Spoke Plato", "Historical Records", "The Complete Works of Wang Yangming", "Huayan Sutra", "Great Learning", "Book of Rites" and "The Way of Heaven"