-Some chat records in March 2004

Distortion of personality leads to tragedy

Sun Yunxiao said to everyone: Dear netizens, good evening! Welcome everyone! Tonight, I want to discuss with you the enlightenment of Ma Jiajue's murder. Do friends know Ma Jiajue? Recently, the media are discussing the murder of Ma Jiajue. Ma Jiajue, a student of Yunnan University, was the second candidate in Nanning, Guangxi. He killed four students who shared a dormitory day and night and fled to Sanya, Hainan. Now he has been arrested by the police.

Meiying smiled and said to Wei: On February 23rd, 2004, a murder happened in a university in Yunnan, and four bodies were found in the cupboard of the dormitory. Ma Jiajue, suspected of committing a major crime, absconded. On March 1, the Ministry of Public Security issued an A-level wanted order against Ma Jiajue, a fugitive murder suspect. On March 15, Ma Jiajue, a Class A wanted criminal of the Ministry of Public Security, was arrested! Welcome to discuss the problem with Mr. Sun.

Xia Dui said: This is a very meaningful topic. Ma Jiajue is a tragedy, but where is the cause of this tragedy?

I said to Xia: I think the tragedy lies in his distorted personality, although his grades are very good, which is the result of dark psychology and lack of good education. He sounded the alarm for parents, teachers and even the whole society! I have said many times that the core of education is not to impart knowledge, but to cultivate healthy personality. If we ignore this point, tragedies will emerge one after another.

Xie Baiyun said to Sun Yunxiao: Hello, Teacher Sun! I don't pay much attention to this incident, but I have a superficial view and want to discuss it with you.

Sun Yunxiao said to Xie Baiyun: Your opinions are very welcome.

Tell Sun Yunxiao well: Why did he kill his classmates?

Sun Yunxiao said to him, "It is reported that the police found information about violence, murder movies and knowledge of survival in the wild in his computer." . Ma Jiajue confessed that the four classmates he killed had a good relationship with him at ordinary times. He killed people because his partner said he cheated in a card game, but he didn't cheat, so he quarreled with his partner. This shows that he is a seriously distorted young man!

Xie Baiyun said to Sun Yunxiao: Judging from the current education system, there are many problems in our education in China. I don't want to comment on Ma Jiajue first, but I want to talk about today's education. The first is arbitrary charges, especially in key junior high schools. It is really difficult for rural children to read some books, which is not commensurate with compulsory education. Second, school quality education, nominally quality education, is essentially an important basis for measuring students with scores. Children's personality, morality, study habits and living habits are all lack of correct guidance, and teachers can only try their best to grasp the so-called quality under the baton. In fact, they do problems every day, take exams at both ends every three days, and finally numb the students.

Sun Yunxiao said to Xie Baiyun: Yes, it is the root of the tragedy to only pay attention to the entrance examination and neglect the cultivation of personality. I can assert that similar tragedies will continue to happen for quite some time.

Xia Dui said: Now the students in the school are really not very healthy psychologically, but the poor academic performance is much better.

Say to Xia: Yes.

Xia Dui said: How many people really understand the importance of cultivating a sound personality? As long as disaster doesn't come directly to them, people won't think so.

Said to Xia: Can't the lesson of blood awaken the intoxicated person?

Adults have a great influence on students' personality development.

Brian said to Sun Yunxiao: I think this is a tragedy from individuals to society!

Waiting to say to Sun Yunxiao: The Ma Jiajue case reminds us once again that the mental health problems of students in universities, primary and secondary schools cannot be ignored and must be put on the educational agenda. I think mental health education should run through the whole process of students' growth.

Sun Yunxiao said to the waiting, What you said is very reasonable.

I don't want to say to Sun Yunxiao when I grow up: I think what happened to Ma Jiajue is undoubtedly a failure of education, but what caused his psychological problems?

Sun Yunxiao said to him who didn't want to grow up: China's parents have a famous saying: As long as you do your study well, you don't have to worry about anything else! This is the family cause of the tragedy.

Xie Baiyun said to Sun Yunxiao: Besides, no one pays attention to the psychological problems of teachers. Now many teachers in vocational and technical schools have told me personally that it is really meaningless to be a teacher in their school, because students don't listen to their teachers and even say something inappropriate in class. If only one or two students in a class listen to the teacher's face, how can you manage this class and have a sense of accomplishment? The teacher said, "Fortunately, my family is very harmonious. If you are not so happy at home, there is no point in telling the truth. " Some teachers even want to commit suicide. From the teacher's words, it is not difficult to see the teacher's pressure and psychological obstacles, as well as the quality of students in vocational and technical schools. Fourth, the cultural life of being a teacher is very poor now, and I just look through books every day. Because the content of the exam is still very limited and teachers have to do it, it is getting harder and harder to be a teacher. Although continuous training is often carried out, the quality of teachers trained is actually lower than that of our students. Does this work?

Sun Yunxiao said to Xie Baiyun: Your analysis is very reasonable. The mental health of teachers and parents has a great influence on students' personality development!

Xie Baiyun told Sun Yunxiao: The Pony Incident tells us that teachers should pay more attention to students' psychology and give them more opportunities for equal participation. In particular, subject teachers should care about things outside the subject, such as how to be a person, how to do things, and how to deal with interpersonal relationships. Teacher Sun, you see that there are more and more quality education problems in our country now. The louder we shout, the weaker we become. what do you think?

Sun Yunxiao said to Xie Baiyun: Fortunately, the education reform is getting stronger and stronger, and the new curriculum reform will bring hope to many students. Of course, the reform is also very complicated.

Xie Baiyun said to Sun Yunxiao: Yes, the new curriculum has really injected vitality into our education. However, in today's China, where education is not very balanced, it is difficult to implement the new curriculum, especially the quality of teachers can't keep up, and the society has not reached this level.

Sun Yunxiao said to Xie Baiyun: Yes, the new curriculum reform is a great challenge to the present situation of education in China, and the success or failure is hard to predict.

Xia Dui said, in fact, this is not only a problem of education, but also a lack of humanity in the whole society, which is a reflection of the double extrusion of history and reality. The lesson is too heavy. In fact, Ma Jiajue is also a victim.

Say to Xia: Great! The growth of teenagers is the responsibility of the whole society, but our society is full of dereliction of duty, which is a huge misunderstanding.

Wei said to him, Hello, Mr. Sun, how can we cultivate students' sound personality?

Wei said: the core of education is to learn to be a man, respect every child, let every child live with hope, and let them learn to cherish themselves and others.

The secret of education is true love.

I can feel a sense of inferiority, loneliness and helplessness. If the school teachers could care more about these poor students, don't isolate them because they are ugly, and communicate more, today's tragedy would not happen.

A young life, with social dissatisfaction, ended here! This is pathetic!

Say to Xia: well, maybe a little care can make him turn over a new leaf. Ideological differences are often a prominent feature of juvenile delinquency.

Xia Dui said: It is the embodiment of a tragedy. His deep-rooted inferiority made him study hard since childhood and proved himself with excellent results. But it's a pity that this kind of proof changed direction after he became an adult, and violence became his way to prove himself to everyone. Finally, all he left in everyone's mind was an exclamation point and a string of ellipsis.

I felt the same way when I was a child, but I got a lot of love, so I became more tolerant and even appreciated the world. So the secret of education is true love. Bing Xin said it well: Without love, there would be no world.

Xia said: I think he has deeper motives for killing people: first, he is a poor student and has to pay back the loan after graduation; Second, it is difficult to find a job now, especially for farmers who have nothing to do with it, not to mention his narrow professional employment scope; Third, starting from this year, graduate students will have to pay tuition fees. Even if he is admitted, can he afford it? Fourth, he killed all the poor students in the same situation as him; Fifth, he asked to be interviewed by a reporter from Southern Weekend. Why southern weekend? Because this newspaper dares to report and expose the dark side of society! To sum up, Ma's motive for killing people has deeper social reasons!

Not all poor students can kill people, but the development of personality plays a decisive role. There is no exception in ancient and modern China and foreign countries.

Xia said: I don't think education can do this. This is a social problem.

Wei said to Xia: Do you mean that he killed people because the whole society has drawbacks?

Xia said to Wei, don't you think so? Environment determines consciousness.

Wei said to Xia: Yes, I feel the same way, but it seems difficult to change. After all, it is the whole meeting!

Xia said to Wei: with our little strength, care for others and believe that people's hearts will always be kind.

Xia said: society is made up of everyone, and each of us has a responsibility. If we are kind to the people around us, maybe we can avoid some tragedies invisibly.

The brain said to Sun Yunxiao: Remember the past and learn from the future!

Sun Yunxiao said to his brain, yes, from Xu Li's case of killing his mother to Ma Jiajue's case of killing his classmates, I don't know how many people died during this period.

Brain smiled and said to Sun Yunxiao: Learning well is only the tip of a triangle, but what should we do with this educational ruler?

Sun Yunxiao said to the brain: Then change education!

Brain smiled and said to Sun Yunxiao: Changing education is easier said than done.

Wei Dui said: Besides, today's society is a pluralistic society, and it is difficult to give children a unified personality and value standard.

Say to Wei: Personality can't be unified. We should respect differences, but at the very least, we should cherish life. It is said that a professor said that the bottom line of being a man is not to kill people, which makes sense to me.

Waiting to say to Sun Yunxiao: Yes, people should keep their moral bottom line under any circumstances.

Besides, parents with bad temper have a great negative influence on their children, but sometimes they won't get angry with their children unless they are told not to do so. What should we do?

Tell Wei: in Europe and America, beating and scolding children is restricted by law, and parents who beat and scold children are going to jail.

Wei said to him, What can we do with grumpy parents in China?

It is a great realm for the younger generation to surpass their parents, calm down and fight violence with violence, although it is difficult.

Wei said to him, You are right. I will try to treat every classmate around me with love in the future.

Xia said to Wei, Are you a teacher?

Wei said to Xia: I'm not a teacher, I mean I want to treat my classmates with love. If they have bad tendencies, I will influence them with love.

Xia said: Yes, as long as everyone has a kind of love, that kind of love is sincere, powerful and affectionate, and that kind of love is timely and true.

Say to Wei: Your idea is very good!

Adapting to society and developing individuality are the principles of education.

Xie Baiyun said to Sun Yunxiao: Last night, I talked with an ordinary farmer here about the ugly phenomenon in today's society. In fact, this society is for everyone, especially the reform and opening up. The intention of the Central Committee was good, but it changed when it was exercised. All powerful people operate for their own interests. When it is time to open, it should not be opened everywhere. For example, pornography has become more and more rampant in recent years.

Sun Yunxiao told Xie Baiyun: Reform always pays a heavy price. Beauty and ugliness are always competing.

Xie Baiyun said to Sun Yunxiao, take our local area for example. Large-scale public places of entertainment are one after another. This is not lively yet, and that is being planned again. The people turned around this, and finally the people's wallets and government finances were hollowed out. I don't think there is a good plan. Besides, it's nerve-racking to run a junior high school here. It is said that the fees of private schools can be unlimited, so many famous schools run private schools, using policies, and the local government does not interfere or plan. There are more and more schools, bigger and bigger. What about the students? Funnily enough, a famous headmaster also said that if our school is not successful, the 300 mu of land I bought can also be sold for a lot of money, hehe! I don't think I will buy a facade house in the end.

Sun Yunxiao said to Xie Baiyun: Such a headmaster should go home and sell sweet potatoes.

Sun Yunxiao said to everyone: I want to ask a question: We can't forget those four students who were killed. Should we be wary of Ma Jiajue around us? Ma Jiajue is a time bomb. Therefore, an early warning mechanism should be established in any place where people are concentrated, and those who find danger should take appropriate measures instead of waiting for him to blow everyone up.

Waiting to say to Sun Yunxiao: After all, Marek Jagger's murderer is a minority in our society, so we don't need to be shocked, but each of us should really show more love.

Sun Yunxiao told Waiting: Yes, but the murder case in Ma Jiajue is just the tip of the iceberg, which cannot but arouse the reflection of the whole society. In other words, if we don't take strong measures, there will be thousands of Ma Jiajue in China. Do you feel terrible?

Xie Baiyun said to him, Teacher Sun's words are very reasonable. It is indispensable to prevent people from harming others. The second lesson of Pony incident should be that school leaders should reflect on themselves, especially the first-level leaders and class teachers of Yunnan University. How are you doing in teaching and educating people?

Ji Yun said to Sun Yunxiao: But the social reality of the disparity between the rich and the poor is so different from the fairy tales of equality in our textbooks, and some people have rebellious mentality. I think this is the most critical.

Sun Yunxiao said to Ji Yun: The income gap is an inevitable product of the reform era. We should not only take adjustment measures, but also adjust people's mentality.

Xia said: poverty is also a bomb. Maybe if the problems concerning agriculture, countryside and farmers are solved, there will be fewer similar tragedies.

Ji Yun said to Sun Yunxiao: Why don't our textbooks seek truth from facts and tell the truth? Always put everything at a high theoretical level?

Sun Yunxiao told Ji Yun that the textbooks of the new curriculum reform have made historic progress.

Ji Yun said to Sun Yunxiao: Yes, so I think our teachers and textbooks should be practical and realistic, and don't always teach our children to make peanuts and pears from Kong Rong and others. It is appropriate to expose the reality of social injustice and unhealthy phenomena and let students learn how to survive in this environment. Just like a disabled person is not terrible, the key is as long as you can overcome difficulties and live in the world. I always feel that there are too many teachers who can make up fairy tales, and they always paint a bright future for students, instead of telling them the gentle traps there, especially the low-level teachers.

Sun Yunxiao said to Ji Yun: Youth education is socialized education, which should be based on adapting to society and developing personality. So we should proceed from reality. Deceiving students is a sin!

Xie Baiyun said to Sun Yunxiao: Let's go back to the pony incident. What lessons should we learn from the pony incident? Personally, I think schools should increase mental health education, not ideal education, at least know how to cherish life and consider the consequences before doing anything.

Sun Yunxiao said to Xie Baiyun: I know that there have been many educational tragedies in Kunming, the capital of Yunnan. A middle school girl committed suicide by cycling into Dianchi Lake, and her mother killed her husband!

Xie Baiyun said to Sun Yunxiao: Oh, it's the first time I've heard of such a thing. It seems that there are many educational problems in Yunnan. This is not an alarmist. Schools with such problems must be the result of the backlog of educational problems, not by accident. I think it's time to sum up.

Sun Yunxiao said to Xie Baiyun: Well, the more serious the exam-oriented education is, the more serious the tragedy will be, and the more people will die naturally.

Moral education focuses on cultivating the mind rather than the mouth.

Xie Baiyun said to Sun Yunxiao: Another lesson is that people should not be too impetuous, have a cool head and a tolerant heart. Secondly, the whole society should attach importance to life education as the first priority. Only by being a good person can you read a good book. Our Chinese teacher often teaches students to write. In fact, the essence of writing is to express healthy and enterprising thoughts. How can a person with ulterior motives have noble thoughts?

Sun Yunxiao said to Xie Baiyun: The key to moral education is to be effective, and to cultivate the mind, not just the mouth.

Xie Baiyun said to Sun Yunxiao: Effectiveness is very important. I think moral education in our school is very effective. Recently, several old comrades from the Education Bureau visited our school and found that our moral education has penetrated into every corner of the students.

Sun Yunxiao said to Xie Baiyun: It's so rare! This shows that as long as you work hard, school education will play a great role, and you can't just complain about society. Someone said it well: it is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness!

Xie Baiyun said to Sun Yunxiao: Yes! I'm a little unhappy tonight, but I'm still very serious about my work, and I especially like to carry out creative educational activities. Teacher Sun can pay more attention to our school when he has time. I believe your concern is of great help to the development of our school and is my greatest motivation.

Ji Yun said to Xie Baiyun: But, Mr. Xie, composition is just an art of writing, which may not really reflect a person's mentality.

Xie Baiyun said to Ji Yun: If it is not true, it means that the students' writing ability has not reached the outline requirements. The outline clearly stipulates that there should be true feelings and gradients.

Ji Yun said to Xie Baiyun: To tell the truth, my composition as a child was very good, and I was often read as a model essay by my teacher, but I knew that many articles were not what I really wanted to say, but what my teacher wanted to hear.

Ji Yun said to him, I wonder if Mr. Sun has seen the new concept composition contest? I found that most articles are decadent, but many of them are moans in our eyes, so I think our teacher should be a person who can lead children into the sunshine.

Sun Yunxiao said to Ji Yun: Really? I didn't read it carefully, but I agree with you that children's education should be sunshine education!

Wei said: Sometimes, people should learn to educate themselves and find books that are beneficial to them. In this way, my mind will be open and I won't do anything too extreme.

Said to Wei: Yes, some people say that children who love playing chess don't learn so badly, because playing chess requires rules and long-term vision. I think piano, chess, calligraphy and painting are both education and ways to cultivate healthy personality.

Ji Yun said to Sun Yunxiao: Being a regular person, people who love the Internet will make many mistakes, because the Internet is too free and casual.

Xie Baiyun said to Sun Yunxiao: Education is everywhere, all the time. As teachers and parents, we should set an example and don't treat children as children. There are some things adults can know, and children should also have the right to know.

Sun Yunxiao said to Xie Baiyun: Yes, every adult is a role model for children, and every adult with conscience can't shirk this sacred duty.

Wei said to Xie Baiyun: I agree with you very much. In fact, children are human beings and need respect. Their understanding is beyond the imagination of adults.

Xie Baiyun said to Wei: Thank you, shake hands!

Wei said to Xie Baiyun: shake hands!

Wei said to him, Yes, an incompetent teacher destroyed not one child, but several classes of children. This is a great responsibility. I hope the school must manage the problem of teachers well and not let the incompetent teachers go.

Say to Wei: Why not let go and keep it? Teacher's morality is missing one vote veto! But people who can't be teachers can do other jobs.

Wei said: I mean, I have to go to work again with a new teacher!

Say to Wei: I totally agree!

Xie Baiyun told Wei that a good teacher can affect a child's life, especially preschool education and primary education.

Wei said to Xie Baiyun: You are right. For children, they are serious about everything. Don't do anything too radical in front of them. This will not have any good influence on them.

Cultivate love with love and educate morality with morality.

Waiting to say to Sun Yunxiao: As far as I know, many schools don't offer mental health education classes now, even if some schools do, it's useless. Mental health problems have not really attracted the attention of schools, parents and even the whole society, and the horse case has once again sounded the alarm for education in China.

Sun Yunxiao told everyone that "waiting" netizens are right, and mental health is still a very weak education. Remember that 2 1 century is the coming of the era of mental illness!

Cai Jingyang said to Sun Yunxiao: How to understand the "inaction" of education?

Sun Yunxiao said to Cai Jingyang: Perhaps it is to respect people's personality and educate yourself.

Cai Jingyang said to Sun Yunxiao, You're right, that's what I told my children.

Xia Dui said: When students feel the love of others, beauty will grow in their hearts, the relay of love will be passed down from generation to generation, and society will have a peaceful warmth.

Say to Xia: this is good! This is called cultivating love with love and moral education with morality.

Xie Baiyun said to him: Hehe, a good teacher should be good at learning, reflecting and making progress, and dare to face reality and difficulties.

Xia said: But teachers also have many psychological problems. How can you get a healthy education if you are not healthy?

Say to Xia: Teachers should be educated first. First of all, teachers should be educated in mental health, so that teachers with unhealthy psychology can adjust their posts.

Xia said: Yes, people are kind, let alone simple students, so the key is to give them a good example and a good environment.

Wei said to Xia: What you said is wrong. Some people say that human nature is good, others say that human nature is evil. This sentence is controversial.

Xia said to Wei, what do you think?

Say to Xia: Yes, we should believe that every child has an upward heart, which is the first foundation of successful education.

Jyszzyc said happily to Sun Yunxiao: I think this is because Ma Jiajue didn't get the moral education he deserved in middle school, which is also the result of exam-oriented education.

Sun Yunxiao told jyszzyc: This judgment is correct. The tragedy of teenagers is closely related to the wrong education.

Jyszzyc said happily to Sun Yunxiao: Which do you think has a greater influence on students, parents or schools?

Sun Yunxiao told yszzyc: Parents and teachers are people who have great influence on children. Generally speaking, parents play a greater role in the formation of children's habits, but teachers also have a lot to do. The younger the child, the greater the influence of the family, and the older the child, the greater the influence of the school.

Jyszzyc said happily to Sun Yunxiao: Now middle schools only talk about further studies, not ideal moral education! Quality education has been called for many years, and it is still exam-oriented education! !

Sun Yunxiao said to jyszzyc: There is a ray of light, don't worry.

Haloxylon Gobi said to him, Teacher Sun, I am a science teacher in Senior One. There is a chapter in my textbook called "Life is passed down from generation to generation". Among them, there is a systematic knowledge and introduction of the bisexual reproductive system. Do you think it is appropriate for boys and girls to teach in separate classes or in one class? One of my colleagues is a male teacher. He suggested teaching in different classes, so I would like to ask your opinions. Thank you!

Sun Yunxiao said to Haloxylon Gobi: On-off and on-off are fine. We should proceed from reality, but it is important to have a scientific spirit and a sacred attitude. Welcome to my website to have a look at the roses hidden in the schoolbag, serialized by Sina and Sohu.

Haloxylon Gobi said to Sun Yunxiao: Because I was born in the late 1970s, I deeply hope that today's children can get timely and scientific sex education.

Sun Yunxiao said to Haloxylon ammodendron in Gobi: Indeed, even in the darkest time, children's eyes can shine brightly, which is the light of life, freedom and hope!

Haloxylon Gobi said to Sun Yunxiao: Students are so cute. I told them: the teacher is very grateful to you! Meanwhile, the teacher needs your help. There are too many stories that moved me. As long as we adjust our mentality: we really love children. The core idea of education should be for the happy and healthy growth of children. All empty words and slogans have to give in before it, I think. There was a "problem student", but he looked at me writing a small blackboard and said: The teacher's handwriting is so beautiful! So I want to express my gratitude to him quickly tomorrow, which may have an effect: let him know that the teacher respects him and thanks him.

Sun Yunxiao said to Thoreau Gobi: Yes, he will appreciate you! This is love, a weak flame is burning, don't let it go out.

Haloxylon Gobi said to Sun Yunxiao: It should be said that his educational wit is not enough. When I talked about life movement, he whispered: "Erection is also"; At that time, I didn't know what to do (because the main content of this section is mechanical motion and force), and the students next to me dared not say anything. I just don't make a statement. I'm afraid I can't handle it well, which will have a bad influence on my children.

Sun Yunxiao said to Haloxylon Gobi: What is erection? I suggest that sexual intercourse, contraception and AIDS prevention be made clear. Of course, we should also talk about sexual morality and aesthetics.

Without humanistic spirit, there would be no modern education.

He Jie said to Sun Yunxiao: As a front-line teacher, I want to talk about my situation. I have 17 classes every week. As a class teacher, I have pressure from my family, exams and my own development. Seriously, I don't have time to read books now. How can we have psychological education?

Sun Yunxiao said to He Jie, I understand you very well. This is something that schools and education committees should consider. Of course, it is also important for you to have a good attitude. I suggest you take time to watch movies, listen to music, chat with friends, come here and get together with netizens and so on. Make your life colorful.

He Jie said to Sun Yunxiao: What is the standard of mental health?

Sun Yunxiao said to He Jie: From the perspective of self-cognition, the standard of mental health can be summarized as 12 words: know yourself, accept yourself and control yourself.

He Jie said to Sun Yunxiao: I've been thinking! In rural areas, how can rural teachers talk about mental health when they are running around to make a living? I want to discuss whether it can be more practical. I used to be an admirer of Li Zhenxi, and I still am. I often consider myself a good teacher.

Xia said to him, You are right. This is a very realistic problem.

Sun Yunxiao said to He Jie: Li Zhenxi is my friend and a very good education expert. Real educators are people-oriented. Without humanistic spirit, there would be no modern education.

Haloxylon Gobi said to Sun Yunxiao: I've always wanted to visit Teacher Li Zhenxi's "Education Online". When education became the care of heart and heart, I realized the happiness and happiness of teachers.

Sun Yunxiao said to Haloxylon Gobi: Yes.

He Jie said to Sun Yunxiao: However, when I wake up every day, reality always makes me think more about things that have nothing to do with education. So I often think that our education experts, educators and psychologists should not let us break through the tradition and the present culture.

Sun Yunxiao said to He Jie: Yes, I like Lao Zi. His wisdom two thousand years ago can still nourish our hearts. Of course, education should solve practical problems.

Xia Dui said: It takes a long time for people to calm down when they are unhappy and busy. This is health. It's hard to do, but we still have to do it.

He Jie said to Sun Yunxiao: I think it is more about how to let us breathe some fresh air in this heavy culture. More specifically, I hope we can talk less about some seemingly true truths.

Wei said: You can't just take this job as a means of making a living, but take it as a career and have love, so that you will think of the necessity of mental health.

He Jie told Wei: Education is something I love, and I always think so. I think more often, I should define myself correctly: I am a "person" engaged in this profession.

Wei said to him, I understand that you are human. Maybe you have done a good job. It's just too much pressure.

Xia said: If you can take good care of your students calmly, that is true happiness. This is also helping others and helping yourself.

He Jie said to Sun Yunxiao: So, I often think that our education is not only for students, but also for teachers, hehe.

Wei Dui said: Humanism is people-oriented, and in layman's terms, it is "human touch".

He Jie said to Wei: It seems that the requirement for teachers is people-oriented, hehe.

Xia dui said: the most important thing is to train teachers first, because some students' deviant behavior is caused by the school intentionally or unintentionally, as well as the society! !

You can find a good way by groping slowly.