I smiled and silently returned a small red flower to my friend. I am glad that I can shine and feel that I can let others feel my good side.
My friend went on to say, hey, I can't even be happy!
I said, get out more.
He said that he was in poor health and could not leave. I always take a walk in the yard at home. My life is really beyond description. Seeing you happy every day, I really want to have an optimistic attitude like you.
Looking at him at the other end of the screen, he described his mood like this. I can feel his depressed mood and his depressed face. I have always been frank and outspoken, and I don't know how to whisper. I don't know what words to comfort him.
I am not good at comforting others, just as I always don't know how to find reasons for myself. It's time to say that you are a girl, it's inconvenient to get sick, and it's natural to have parents to support you and do nothing. Let it go and live like this. All the above statements are just excuses for my laziness!
I replied to my friend that nothing is impossible as long as you want.
Speaking of happiness, if I am happy, then I think what you see may not be complete, because everyone can't have only one side.
Just a minute ago. I almost fell into the abyss of heavy internal debt. In the final analysis, it is your own desire.
There is a hurdle at work that I can't get through (maybe you will ask: what can a quadriplegic person do if he is lying in bed and can't move all over and can't take care of himself? Yes, even though my real life has always been like this, it doesn't affect my pursuit of dreams, nor does it affect my efforts to achieve self-reliance and wealth freedom.
Ok, let me answer your question seriously. From 2065438+March 2005, I began to learn to write and run the network from the media. 2065438+September 2005, officially joined Zangyutang, selling 28 Tibetan secret bubbles in Taobao and micro-stores. At the beginning of 20 16, he joined mk Corps and became an online and offline promotion seller of pure plant skin care mushroom flower shop brand. You can simply understand it as WeChat business!
Then the problem is that this hurdle is beyond my personal ability. I've thought about it for a long time, and I've thought about many possibilities. However, we all know that any idea and imagination can only be regarded as an illusion before it is realized and before you take action, which makes it difficult to sleep and exhausted.
I often describe myself as a hopeless person, and I can't put anything down in my heart. I can't eat or sleep until I solve one thing. I'm surprised and annoyed. I'm only in my thirties. How did I get my father's 40-year-old illness again? Hey!
I used to think so when I saw my father like that, and even talked about him in front of my father. No matter what happens, I will eat well and sleep well today, and there will be a solution to the problem tomorrow. Today, however, I didn't expect that besides blood and looks, people's temper and habits are also inherited!
When this problem appeared, I struggled for several days. I talked to the person in charge of management, talked to our great sister, and expressed my own thoughts. I have been like an ant on hot bricks for more than a week, and my heart seems to have been scratched by a thousand claws. Predicting that no matter what the outcome, I will not be better now.
If the result is not good, then the hurdle before us will still exist.
In other words, if the result is good. I think so, too. I have a heavy mind, so if I borrow money from others, I may pay it back when I have time. But the debt of gratitude to others is never enough. Think about what to do in the future.
So when I heard that and its result, my heart, which had been hanging in the air for almost a week, was put down.
I have written so much and said so much. Actually, I want to explain one thing, explain the connection between cause and effect. Life, from small to large, is a multiple-choice question.
When I choose others to help me tide over the difficulties, I will inevitably bear corresponding psychological debts that even I can't bear. So naturally, when you choose to completely wrap yourself in pain and pity, you naturally can't feel the warmth and happiness in life!
You may think you will say; My situation is quite special. You don't understand. You can't imagine the disaster in real life.
Ok, I give up, I have nothing to say!
I admit that happy lives are similar, and everyone feels unhappy for different reasons. Speaking of bad experiences, a group of people sat together and talked for days and nights. But what can you do, release the negative energy, and then the problem will be solved? We all know the answer, but we don't. We should go back to our own lives, work hard and live seriously.
You know, everyone has their own problems. Because of human nature, people like to be close to beautiful things. Who wants to be with someone who complains all day?
This is something that you and I must understand!
Hungry and thirsty, I have to drink water to eat by myself. You have to solve it yourself. These things that support your body in life can only be done by yourself. No one can do it for you, and happiness is the same.
I can only say that even a grass in a gap on the edge of the cliff will grow tenaciously as long as it is alive. Even a small flower in the roadside weeds should bloom enthusiastically. Not to attract others' attention, not to make others stop and applaud, but to live the true colors of life. The law of life is that a dark heart bound by pain can never drag down a smiling face.