Family rules refer to the code of conduct stipulated by a family, which is generally passed down by a family to educate and regulate future generations. It is also called family law. The so-called "national laws, family rules" means that a country has national laws and a family has family rules; The rules of this family are equivalent to the laws of the country. Mencius said, "If you don't obey the rules, you can't be Fiona Fang". If a family wants to flourish, it must know how to behave. Family members who violate family rules will be punished like citizens who violate the law.
2. The connotation of family style and family precepts is very simple. A few family precepts refer to teaching children and grandchildren to live in the world and manage the family.
Family instruction is an important part of China's traditional culture and genealogy, which has played an important role in personal cultivation and family planning in the history of China.
In ancient times, human society experienced the changes of clans, clans and families. However, these are the cornerstones of a country.
Family instruction can play a role in stabilizing social order when the country is unstable and the national laws are unclear. Because, in order to maintain the necessary legal system, the family has drawn up a certain code of conduct to restrain the people in the family, which is the earliest origin of family discipline.
Since the early Han Dynasty, family instruction works have gradually become rich and colorful with the evolution of dynasties. Genealogy records many famous sayings and aphorisms about being a parent, which has become a good strategy to manage the family and a model of "cultivating self-cultivation" and "keeping the family in order". For example, the idea of "a porridge and a meal, when thinking is hard-won" still has positive significance today. In the genealogy, there are many detailed family instructions and rules. For future generations to follow. Among them, the most famous family instructions, such as Yan's Family Instructions and Zhu's Family Instructions, are widely known so far.
The reason why family precepts are valued by the world is mainly to advocate loyalty, filial piety and righteousness, and to teach etiquette and ethics. In addition, what is advocated and what is forbidden is also an important content in family law, such as "frugality should be respected" and "evil witches should be banned".
Family style refers to the traditional fashion of a family or family. In other words, a family's lifestyle and cultural atmosphere constitute a family style. As the name implies, family style is the ethos, style and fashion of a family. In other words, when a family's family rules and family instructions form a family's public behavior habits, it constitutes a family style, which is also a family or a family's family style culture. Genealogy is a tool to carry family culture, and Internet genealogy is a new generation tool to carry family culture.
3. What do you mean by family style and family instructions? In Chinese, "family style" refers to the fashion and lifestyle handed down from generation to generation, that is, the atmosphere in a family and the value standards set for future generations in the family; It is a collective recognition based on the roots of Chinese culture and the spiritual footprint of each individual's growth.
Definition of words
"Family style" generally refers to a fashion and style advocated by parents or grandparents, which can set an example and restrain and standardize family members.
Family style characteristics: 1, demonstration 2, sociality 3, inheritance 4, absorption 5, creativity 6, innovation.
"Family training" refers to the family's instruction to children and grandchildren to live in the world and manage the family. Family instructions are published separately or attached to genealogy.
The role of family precepts:
(A), pay attention to family law, national law.
(2) Harmonious clans and villages
(3) Honor the elders
(four), in line with moral norms, a clear birthright.
(5) Ancestor Sacrifice and Grave Sacrifice Procedures
(6), cultivate one's morality
4. What is the meaning of family style and family precepts? Family style is a family cultural style passed down from generation to generation, which reflects the spiritual outlook, moral quality, aesthetic style and overall temperament of family members. The formation of family style is often that a certain person in a family chain is outstanding and highly respected by other family members. His words and deeds become the source of family style, and then through the relay of family generations abiding by ancestral teachings, the charm is passed down from generation to generation, and a family has formed a distinct moral concept and aesthetic style.
Family style is very important for family inheritance. Without an honest family style, it is impossible to keep a family from falling apart. A family with identity is cohesive. Obviously, this sense of identity cannot be family property, because property is often divided up and eventually exhausted. There is only one thing that all family members can share, which will not decrease but will increase-that is, the "family style" that all family members are proud of. Family style is an essential element of an influential and prestigious family and the core value of a family.
Family style is often reflected in the family rules and regulations that ancestors have high hopes for. These family rules have many names in China: "family rules", "family rules" and "family instructions". In a word, it is "family education". Invisible family style must rely on tangible family education to spread and carry forward.
Family instruction refers to the instructions for future generations to live in the world and manage their families.
Since the early Han Dynasty, family instruction works have gradually become rich and colorful with the evolution of dynasties. Genealogy records many famous sayings and aphorisms about being a parent, which has become a good strategy to manage the family and a model of "cultivating self-cultivation" and "keeping the family in order". For example, the idea of "a porridge and a meal, when thinking is hard-won" still has positive significance today. In the genealogy, there are many detailed family instructions and rules. For future generations to follow. Among them, the most famous family instructions, such as Yan's Family Instructions and Zhu's Family Instructions, are widely known so far.
The reason why family precepts are valued by the world is mainly to advocate loyalty, filial piety and righteousness, and to teach etiquette and ethics. In addition, what is advocated and what is forbidden is also an important content in family law, such as "frugality should be respected" and "evil witches should be banned".
In short, every family has different family rules and family instructions. Common genealogies generally include the following:
First, pay attention to family law and national law
2. Harmonious families and villages
Step 3 honor your elders
4. Conform to ethical norms and correct the name.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) Ancestor Sacrifice and Grave Sacrifice Procedure
Step 6 cultivate one's morality
Example:
Quoted from Zeng Guofan's family instructions
Eight characters: brothers, sons and nephews at home, but remember grandpa's eight words, saying: "test, treasure, morning, sweep, book, vegetable, fish, pig."
Eight books: There are still eight books in my diary, which say, "Reading is based on exegesis, writing poetry is based on tone, caring for relatives is based on gaining goodwill, keeping in good health is based on avoiding anger, keeping in good health is based on not talking nonsense, staying at home is based on not being able to do anything, being an official is based on not asking for money, and marching is based on not disturbing people." These eight books are all based on experience, and I will teach my sons and nephews to keep them in mind. No matter the chaos in the world or the wealth of the family, as long as they can keep the eight books of Xinggang and the other eight books, they will always be regarded as excellent families.
Twelve-style self-cultivation:
1, main aspects: neat and serious, always careless. When there is nothing, the heart is in the cavity; When doing things, be single-minded and not miscellaneous, such as rising day by day.
2. Sit-in: As long as you sit for half an hour every day, you will experience the kindness of being quiet and living in the sun, and you will be as quiet as a town.
3, get up early: wake up when you wake up, don't fall in love when you wake up.
4, reading is not the only thing: if you don't finish reading a book, don't read his book, read the east and the west, follow the outside world, and the daily rate is ten leaves.
5, reading history: C subscribes to twenty-three histories and reads ten leaves a day, although some things are uninterrupted.
6, be careful: attention is the first time.
7. Nourish qi: You can say something to the people in the gas storage.
8. Protect yourself: frugality and abstinence will always be a disease.
9. God knows his death: I will say one in every diary. It can be divided into virtue, knowledge, economy and art.
10, don't forget the month: write a few poems every month to test the accumulated amount and the prosperity of qi. You can't worry blindly, it's the easiest to drown your heart.
1 1. Writing: Write for half an hour after breakfast. The place where pen and ink entertain is your homework. If you don't leave it to tomorrow, the more you accumulate, the harder it will be.
12, staying at home at night: working hard and quitting.
5. What do you mean by "family discipline"? 1. Family style: the traditional fashion of a family or family; Style of door
2. Family education: Family education for children and grandchildren to live and manage their families in the world.
3. Family pronunciation: jiā fēng
4. Importance: Family style is the modern inheritance of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation and many fine traditions nurtured by our splendid culture for more than 5,000 years; Family style is our code of conduct; Family style is the foundation of social harmony. Those fine traditions have been preserved until now, and they are still in use today.
5. Pronunciation of family training: jiā xùn
6. Importance: Family training is an important part of the family, which has an important binding effect on individual education and principles. Family precepts have been formed in China for a long time, which is a part of China traditional culture and has a good effect on individuals, families and even the whole society.
7. Make sentences:
1. Criminal rules are the fundamental difference between ancient family rules and family precepts. Family precepts are indoctrinated without punishment.
2. Family style and family training focus on spiritual education.
As a family precept, diligence is a good training.
4. The "female education" in the family precepts of the Song Dynasty embodies the dominant position of men in the relationship between men and women in the Song Dynasty. Song Confucianism successfully shaped women in the Song Dynasty and completed the infiltration of Confucian ethics into the family.
5. Family Style and Family Instructions is an ancient family ethics textbook, which contains very rich family moral education ideas.
6. What are the ancient poems about family style and family precepts? 1. Reading at Winter Night-Song Luyou.
The ancients learned nothing, and it takes time to grow old.
What you get on paper is so shallow that you never know what you have to do.
The ancients spared no effort in their studies, and often achieved nothing when they were old. After all, the knowledge gained from books is not perfect. If you want to understand the truth deeply, you must practice it yourself.
2. "Xiuer"-Song Dynasty: Lu You
I know that when I die, everything on earth has nothing to do with me. But the only thing that hurts me is that I failed to see the reunification of the motherland.
Therefore, when the great Song Jun team recaptures the Central Plains, you will hold a home banquet ceremony. Don't forget to tell me the good news!
I know that when I die, everything in the world has nothing to do with me; But the only thing that makes me sad is that I didn't see the reunification of the motherland with my own eyes. So, don't forget to tell me the good news when Song Jun recovers the lost land in the Central Plains and you hold a family sacrifice!
3, a porridge and a meal, it is not easy to think about it; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources. -Zhu Bolu's "Zhu Zi Family Instructions" in the late Ming and early Qing Dynasties
Interpretation: For a bowl of porridge or a meal, think hard; For half-silk or half-thread clothes, we should always remember that it is very difficult to produce these materials.
4, the strictness of father and son, can not be embarrassed; Love with flesh and blood, not Jane. Jane doesn't accept filial piety, but she is lazy. -Yan Zhitui's "Yan Family Instructions" in the Northern and Southern Dynasties
Interpretation: father and son should be serious, but they should not be neglected; There should be love between flesh and blood, but it should not be simple. If Jane is slow, filial piety will not be done well, and there will be neglect of discipline and neglect.
5, the way of self-study, it is difficult to raise the heart; It is difficult to raise your heart, but you should also be cautious. -Zeng Guofan's "Zeng Guofan's admonition" in the Qing Dynasty
Interpretation: The most difficult thing to cultivate one's morality is to cultivate one's mind. The most difficult thing to cultivate one's mind is to think carefully, speak carefully and act cautiously when one is alone.