Example: 1. Everything has both positive and negative aspects. It is said that the asphalt pavement of Hainan Island is very resistant to heat, and it will not melt above 4 degrees Celsius. The asphalt pavement in Harbin can resist cold and will not crack at MINUS 3 degrees Celsius. Conversely, the asphalt roads in Hainan Island are the least cold-resistant; The asphalt road in Harbin is the most forbidden and hot. What does this example show? The stronger something is, the weaker its opposite direction is.

2. Everyone knows Zhuge Liang's greatest weakness. He has been too cautious all his life. In those days, the general Wei Yan proposed a strange plan to sneak attack on Chang 'an, but Zhuge Liang rejected it. Wei Yan thought it was Zhuge Liang's big mistake until his death. However, when the street pavilion fell, Zhuge Liang was forced to make an empty plan. The reason why Sima Yi did not dare to rush into the city was that Zhuge Liang won this dangerous move by virtue of his "weakness" of using military caution all his life. It can be said that weaknesses are also strong, so weaknesses also need to be cherished.

3. There are weaknesses in any species, but this does not affect the general law of "natural selection, survival of the fittest". Those who make good use of "weaknesses" are not weak, but will become strong in the middle. Take the mouse as an example, its appearance is humble, sneaky, without the loyalty of dogs, without the kindness of cats, without the smell of cattle and sheep, without the beauty of birds and birds. Because of its "weakness", people not only don't domesticate it, but also kill it quickly. The art of war says, "As for death and afterlife", this mouse has survived thousands of years of bad luck, and the absolute number of mouse families exceeds the number of people. Famous saying: Carnegie's "Weakness of Human Nature" should not imitate others, but should discover and realize oneself.

don't count how much you are missing, but how much you have.

don't forget that vicious criticism is often a disguised compliment; You know, no one will give a dead dog.

Do your best, then hold up your umbrella, and don't let the blame rain hurt you.

don't criticize, blame or complain when you encounter setbacks.

inspire others with sincere compliments.

arouse strong demand from others.

it's important to make the other person feel noble-and sincere.

respect other people's opinions and never tell others that he is wrong.

start with a friendly approach.

let others think that the correct opinion is his.

appeal to noble motives to arouse a good mood.

learn to point out other people's mistakes indirectly.

use the tone of discussion instead of direct orders.

I hope it can help you to let others save their face.