1. The reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things.

2. Rather than saying that others make you suffer, it is better to say that your own cultivation is not enough.

3. If you don’t trouble yourself, others will never trouble you. Because you can’t let go of your own heart.

4. Discipline yourself well and don’t care about others.

5. This world is inherently painful, without exception

6. Don’t say others are pitiful, you are even more pitiful. How much do you know about life?

7. You must always forgive all living beings. No matter how bad they are, or even if they have hurt you, you must let go in order to gain true happiness.

8. Only by knowing yourself, surrendering yourself, and changing yourself can you change others.

9. If a person cannot forgive others from his heart, he will never feel at ease.

10. People who are filled with their own opinions and ideas will never hear the voices of others.

11. It only takes one sentence to destroy a person, but it takes a thousand words to cultivate a person. Please be more merciful.

12. Don’t mix arrogance with your wisdom. Do not let your humility lack wisdom.

13. You don’t have to look back to see who is cursing you? If a mad dog bites you, should you lie down and bite him back?

14. Never waste a minute of your time thinking about anyone you don’t like.

15. Listen more carefully to what others have to say, and don’t rush to express your own opinions.

16. Why do you put poison in the same bottle? With the same mentality, why are you full of troubles?

17. We will always think that something is beautiful if we can’t get it. That’s because you know too little about him and don’t have time to spend time with him. One day, when you understand deeply, you will find that it is not as beautiful as you imagined.

18. Be patient, be willing to be indifferent, and be happy to be lonely.

19. Hatring others is a great loss to yourself.

20. Everyone has life, but not everyone understands life or even cherishes it. For those who do not understand life, life is a punishment to them.

21. People who think they have wealth are actually possessed by wealth.

22. Don’t be too sure of your own opinions, this way you will have fewer regrets.

23. Don’t deliberately guess what others think. If you don’t have the correct judgment with wisdom and experience, you will usually make mistakes.

24. If you don’t take a shower, the perfume will not smell good if you apply it hard. Fame and honor come from true talent and practical learning. Virtues are naturally fragrant.

25. Instead of rejecting the fact that it has already happened, you might as well accept it. This is called accepting fate.

26. If you can discover your own shortcomings as accurately as you can see the shortcomings of others, then your life will be extraordinary.

Twenty-seven. To forgive others is to leave space in your heart for recovery.

Twenty-eight. There is no cure for people who always distort the good intentions of others.

Twenty-nine, people are not bad, they are just habits. Everyone has habits, but the depth is different. As long as he has a Taoist heart, forgive him if you can, and don't regard him as a bad person.

Thirty. There is no one in the world who will never be slandered, and there is no one who will always be praised. When you talk a lot, others will criticize you. When you talk little, others will criticize you. When you are silent, others will still criticize you. There is no one in this world who is not criticized.

31. Those who can keep themselves low are the real nobility.

32. Silence is the best answer to slander.