Live a small life with the big picture in mind

Instead of complaining about everything, it is better to look on indifferently

1. In the first half of life, we will encounter some of our own problems. I think it’s a hurdle that I can’t get past. Now, as we have richer experiences and broadened our horizons, looking back, we will find that sometimes we only have so many worries because we care too much and worry too much.

I have heard this saying: "Walking in the world, whether you go well or not does not depend on fate, but on the height of looking at things and the pattern of doing things." Indeed, when our pattern improves, The perspective also becomes wider, and there are fewer things to worry about.

Faced with sudden changes, some people choose to complain, while others choose to face it. In fact, when something has already happened, it is useless to complain and argue, it will only make yourself more uncomfortable.

Many times, when encountering unsatisfactory things, instead of blaming others, it is better to take it lightly and look away. Most of the time, the reason why people are unhappy is because they care too much about gains and losses. In life, if you take gains and losses too seriously, you will lose more and your heart will become more tired. Not being happy with things and not being sad with yourself is the best attitude towards life. Whether it's money or reputation, I'm lucky if I get it, and I'm lucky if I lose it. Only by calming down can you live a relaxed and comfortable life.

2. In life, there are always some people who don’t know how to consider other people’s feelings and have to get to the bottom of everything. In fact, everyone has some things that they don't want to mention to others. If you ask again and again, it will only offend people and affect their relationship. Whether it’s friendship or love, only by knowing how to remain silent and not asking questions about the past will make the relationship more harmonious. Maybe some people just care, but for the other person, it may be a kind of trouble.

Many times, silent support for others is better than thousands of words of greetings. The best expression is silence, not words. Not asking about faults is a sign of consideration for others, a form of self-cultivation, and a pattern. The best way to get along requires both parties to put themselves in each other's shoes and feel the difficulties of the other party. Some things do not need to be said clearly, and some things do not need to be asked.

3. There was a question on the Internet: "What is the pattern?" Someone answered: "Don't be trapped by the current situation of life, don't be burdened by face, and face the future calmly. This is the best life. Status is also a pattern. "When we are young, we think that face is more important than anything else. Only when we reach a certain age do we understand that smart people know how to bend down and bow their heads at the right time. When everyone is in trouble, instead of trying to hold on for the sake of face, it is better to work hard down-to-earth. When you are at a low point, putting down your body is a kind of responsibility; when you are in a high position, being humble is a kind of cultivation.

I have heard this sentence: "The world is neither chaotic nor difficult. How you live is just your choice." What kind of life a person wants to live in this life has the right to decide In fact, it is in our own hands. When you don't care about gains and losses, don't ask about the past, and aren't afraid of troughs, your life will naturally be happy and comfortable. A person's life is only a drop in the ocean. Instead of worrying about everything, it is better to be content with the situation. There is a saying that when the situation is bigger, your mind will be wider and your life will be smoother. For the rest of my life, I hope you and I can live a good life with the big picture in mind.