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Why do people who complain have bad luck?

Article by Ms. Cat of the Second Dimension

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Recently, there is news from the Human Resources Department: the company will promote a group of hard-working old employees and eliminate a group of unqualified novices. .

Hearing the news, Xiao Chen was secretly happy. She has been working in the company for more than five years and has always been dedicated to her work, often forgetting to eat and sleep just for a copy. She had been left out of the previous few personnel adjustments. Members of the same team felt that with Xiao Chen's qualifications, being a team leader was more than enough. Xiao Chen also thought to himself that with this promotion and salary increase, it would be his turn.

Unexpectedly, when the results came out, people were shocked: Xiao Chen was actually on the layoff list!

After serving the company diligently for five years, he was laid off without any explanation. Xiao Chen was naturally unconvinced.

She ran to the HR manager to argue, and the other person said earnestly: In any company, an employee who complains too much will not be a good employee.

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Xiao Chen loves to complain, which is indeed a bad habit known to everyone in the company. Whenever she encounters a difficult problem, she always sighs.

Xiao Chen’s supervisor often said: Just tell me if you need help.

Actually, it’s not that Xiao Chen can’t handle problems. At first, she just wanted to attract the attention of her boss by complaining, and then solve the problem under the observation of her boss to demonstrate her work ability.

However, Xiao Chen’s little idea did not achieve very good results. Her supervisor always believed that this girl was reluctant to do things and had a negative attitude.

Moreover, over time, Xiao Chen's complaints have become a habit. She became more and more dissatisfied at work and had a bad temper.

The two girls who were close to Xiao Chen gradually came under the influence of Xiao Chen and often complained about others. When they get together, they either accuse other departments of poor cooperation or complain about the company's poor welfare. The entire small team is almost filled with a negative atmosphere full of complaints.

Therefore, it is not unreasonable for the company to remove Xiao Chen. Complainers are like a chronic poison in the workplace, eroding the people around them over time. When their negative emotions spread, the entire team will become decadent.

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Best-selling author Rhonda Byrne once mentioned a concept of "Law of Attraction" in one of her books: Everything that happens in your life, It's all attracted by you.

If you complain, the Law of Attraction will forcefully bring about more situations that cause you to complain. If you listen to other people's complaints and focus on them, sympathize with them, and agree with them, you are attracting more complaining situations to yourself.

People who complain are more likely to miss opportunities and lead to bad luck. On the other hand, the worse their luck is, the more they will complain. If you repeat this, you will fall into a vicious cycle. So we often see that those who love to complain are not in a good situation, and their troubles always keep coming.

The original intention of many people’s complaints is to gain sympathy or recognition from others, but this is the most meaningless act that consumes oneself and consumes others.

For the listener, there may be approval or recognition at the time, but if it is used as a dumpster for the confidant’s emotions for a long time, it will not only cast doubt on the value of one’s friendship, but will also inevitably be criticized. The influence of some negative views leads to oneself becoming negative.

For the complainer, complaining causes people to focus on the problem rather than thinking of ways to solve it. Ultimately, nothing will change the complainer's situation other than amplifying their dissatisfaction.

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Will Bowen, a spiritual guru from the United States, once said: Negative thoughts are like the seeds we sow in the world through complaints. They will take root and sprout and give birth to More negativity.

This is similar to what we often call cause and effect. You reap what you sow. If your thoughts are negative, the results you harvest will not be optimistic. Moreover, negative thoughts will invade the bone marrow and destroy people's will.

Why are there complaints? This may have something to do with our abilities. There is a famous saying: People who are not good at dancing always complain about their shoes.

Complaints often occur when we want to make changes to the status quo but are unable to do so. But instead of complaining, it’s better to reflect on yourself: What can I do in an unsatisfactory situation?

Some situations can be changed through action. Believe in your own potential and focus on exploring and improving your abilities.

Maybe this time I will be helpless, but as time passes and I become stronger, I may not be able to turn the tide if I encounter a similar situation again.

Some situations are beyond a person’s control. When you encounter such powerlessness, instead of wallowing in a depressed mood, it is better to divert your attention and adjust yourself. Reading, listening to music, watching movies, and traveling are all good ways. It's easy to heal on your own as long as you don't let your mind focus on pessimistic things.

Franklin has a famous saying: "I have never seen a diligent and honest man who got up early complaining about his bad luck."

Good living habits and a strong will are always a good mood. The best guarantee of peace and good luck. Only those who are good at managing their emotions and mentality can be successful.

Please always remember: Complaining cannot solve any problems. The real ability is to be able to manage your emotions and control your own destiny.

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