There are Jonathan Lee edition and Sitar tan edition. Some people say that understanding Jonathan Lee is cruel. People who have experienced the failure of lovelorn love and feel separated from each other have ups and downs in his songs. "I want to buy osmanthus with wine, but it's not like youth travel."

Maybe everyone has a Jonathan Lee.

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I still prefer Sitar tan singing "Late Marriage" in a wedding dress on the stage of "The Voice of Dreams";

Love makes people feel sad, but love makes people more sleepy. Women are really smart, and they are stupid when they love them.

Often love a person, there are thousands of possibilities, but the taste is not necessarily.

It's better than sleeping alone at night. I won't run away. I will be serious.

That loves knocking at the door, and the echo is really deep. I never want to be single.

But I have a hunch that I will get married in the future, and I am waiting for the only soul in the world.

The phrase "I never want to be single, but I have a hunch that I will get married in the future" sings the sadness of many people.

In the world where people come and go, we constantly meet and miss each other; After stepping on Qianshan, I still long for love and being loved.

But even if you get married late, what's so terrible about it?

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Jing Li, a young slash writer, spent five minutes confirming that he (global traveler Yan Ling) is the soul mate I have been waiting for.

They met under the introduction of a reader. On September 5th, while Jing Li was writing, a reader friend left a message on WeChat: "I'll send you a man's micro signal. He is sunny and optimistic, and he will surprise you with your beauty and talent. After this neat news, the WeChat business card was sent.

After adding WeChat, first of all, Jing Li was melted by Yan Ling's sunny smile, and she browsed her nearest circle of friends like a curious child.

At that time, Yanling was still traveling in Tunisia, and Jing Li introduced herself to Yanling. After the exchange, I was surprised to find that two people have the same hobby.

Later, Li Jing sent him a WeChat: "After returning to China, go back to Pushi Ancient Town, Xiangxi, Hunan, and I will give you a warm home. In other words, we create a home together. Perhaps this is a bit abrupt, but I am sure that we are people with similar souls. "

He also said: "I don't need a house, a car, or a deposit. I just need love and company. And as long as we work hard, all this will happen. "

All this only took Jing Li almost five minutes to decide her future life and her other self, Yan Ling. Make sure he is my lifelong companion.

I admire Jing Li's bravery.

Due to the time difference, Yan Ling didn't reply in time, and the result is unknown. ...

Three days later, Yan Ling said affectionately to Jing Li on WeChat: "I'm sure you are the one I've been waiting for. After waiting for so many years, I finally waited for you. I am willing to study, write and travel with you for the rest of my life. " At that moment, Jing Li read these words and shed tears.

Sometimes fate is really amazing.

At that moment, Li was sure that when he was brave enough to be himself, he would really meet a partner close to his soul.

On September 9th, the couple decided to get married in the town, and Yan Ling transferred her only savings to Jing Li to pay the down payment.

165438+1On October 3rd, Yan Ling returned to China. Jing Li met Yan Ling for the first time from the ancient town to Beijing. Yanling held a red rose and gave Jing Li a big hug. Seeing you for the first time is like going back to an old friend. Then, the two went back to the ancient town to do house-related matters.

From then on, the two were inseparable every day, and they accompanied each other wherever they went.

18 September 15, two people got married. Jing Li said, "Do you think I'm lucky? I spent 28 years waiting for the result. " Good love is worth waiting for.

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Many people don't get married, not because they don't think marriage is important and don't want to get married. On the contrary, I think marriage is too important to make a decision casually.

Some friends around me have always been single, and everyone will always say, "Don't be picky, you are old."

With the growth of age, knowledge and experience, it is difficult for us to meet love casually again.

It is difficult for us to have a casual love, a love that is faithful as soon as we meet.

Because of growth, we have our own outlook on life, values and love. When a person's external conditions are satisfied, we will also explore his quality of life and personal accomplishment.

Maybe it's just because of his little moves that we can't stand to continue to associate with him.

That's right, we want a person to conform to our living habits and have empathy. Even a little, we can't accept and compromise. Because all we think about is life.

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It is said that others sang Jonathan Lee's songs, while Jonathan Lee sang life.

In Sitar tan's version, it is a little more open to late marriage: if I can meet love earlier, I will love at all costs; It doesn't matter if it's not enough. It's nice to be alone.

Users of Netease Cloud Music once commented under "Late Marriage": I am ready to die alone, but I am also ready to get married in the future.

In recent years, the most talked-about topic around Chen Qiaoen is "When to get married". Although everyone was in a hurry, Chen Qiaoen disagreed. She said:

"I hope I can like myself enough, that's enough."

The subtext is that love is better, there is no need to force it. Anyway, after loneliness, the world is in front of us, and there is nothing to worry about.

The beauty of Chen Qiaoen is that she always keeps an independent posture and never wants to be an accessory of others.

Therefore, she holds the initiative in life. Even at the age of 39, she is still radiant, and even if she is single, she lives happily enough.

I hope all women can "like themselves enough". We believe in love, but when that person does not appear, we will never be stable.