Excerpts of famous aphorisms about making friends

1. Those who betray their companions often unknowingly destroy themselves too. ——Aesop

2. A gentleman avoids sexual relations and chooses friends as if he were seeking a teacher. ——Jia Dao

3. In misfortune, useful friends are more necessary; in luck, noble friends are more necessary. In misfortune, looking for friends is out of necessity; in luck, looking for friends is out of nobility. ——Aristotle

4. Friends will know us in times of joy; we will know our friends in times of adversity. ——Colinth

5. To make friends, you must make loyal people. Just as a smart doctor must examine the pulse and examine the root of the disease before treating a disease, when making friends, you must also examine the character of the other person, otherwise it will be dangerous. ——Ibn Mugafa

6. When you are cold, you will know the pines and cypresses, and you will find friendship in times of adversity.

7. Rely on your parents at home and your friends when you go out.

8. The best way to deal with the fear of external enemies is to make as many friends as possible; for those who cannot be friends, at least avoid making grudges with them; if you cannot even do this, you should try your best to Avoid interacting with them and alienate them for your own benefit. ——Epicoo

9. Light first and then thick, first sparse and then dense, first far and then close, this is the way to make friends. ——"Hu Family Instructions"

10. Just as true gold must be recognized in fire, friendship must withstand the test in adversity. ——Ovid

11. Treating others with courtesy means treating others the way you would like others to treat you. ——Chesterfield

12. The best way to deal with the fear of external enemies is to make as many friends as possible; for those who cannot be friends, at least avoid making grudges with them; if even this is not possible If you can't do that, you should avoid interacting with them as much as possible and alienate them for your own benefit. ——Epicoo

13. The end and pinnacle of all goodness, the last star of life is friendship. ——E. Markham

14. If you fail to understand the other party’s true identity, you must never reveal your heart. ——Balzac

15. As long as we have experienced the process of growing up and maturing together, it is enough to turn the most superficial acquaintance into the closest confidant. ——Logan Smith

16. Those who know the danger but do not tell it are enemies. ——Goethe

17. Alas, I can no longer stand this trick of destroying natural kindness and sincere friendship - fake style. What "due pride"! What a "taste" and "privilege"! The order of tastes and grades is nonsense, it should be thrown into the fire! Arrange tastes and privileges? The masters of etiquette in previous eras specialized Will do this! Come, now come a great ceremonial officer to arrange equality in society. May your scepter swallow up all the golden scepters of deception! If this is not the eternal truth, if the world does not want to do this, if the great worship of the world is not deception and idolatry, then we might as well put Stuart The kings of the special dynasty welcome back and cut off the ears of "free speech" on the pillory! - Thackeray

18. Only in times of suffering can you see the sincerity of your friends. ——Krylov

19. If you want to understand a person, look at his friends.

20. All friends will receive the rewards of their loyalty, and all enemies will taste the bitter cup of their sins. ——Shakespeare

Famous aphorisms about making friends

21. A good friend is often obtained in adversity.

22. The most valuable thing in life is to know oneself, and to meet flesh and blood relatives from all over the world. ——"Yanmen Collection"

23. The taste of sugarcane is sweet as time goes by, and friendship becomes more profound over time. ——Yuan Mu

24. A gentleman uses literature to make friends, and friends to support benevolence. ——"The Analects of Confucius"

25. Those who can please me can harm me, so we should be careful to guard against them; those who are willing to discipline me will be willing to help, so we should listen to them with admiration. Use the word "light" to make friends, the word "deaf" to stop slander, and the word "engraved" to blame yourself.

26. If you make friends with the friendship of discussion, your knowledge will be improved day by day; if you use prudent actions to benefit your life, your path will become farther and farther. ——Master Hongyi

27. In the face of misfortune, understand your friends. ——Herder

28. Some people are complimentary to you, but they are not friends in need. ——Shakespeare

29. Live in such a way that your friends will not become enemies and your enemies will become friends. ——Pythagoras

30. When making friends, you must choose the one who is better than yourself. It is beneficial to talk about it thoroughly. Those who are arrogant, disrespectful, and lead others to do evil will harm their friends. A gentleman and a gentleman are friends who share the same path; a gentleman and a gentleman are friends who share the same interests. When making friends, only take their strengths and ignore their weaknesses.

31. People’s hearts can only be won, not gifts. ——Yeats

32. You must be careful when choosing friends! A truly selfish person will put on the mask of friendship, but also set up traps to trap you. ——Krylov

33. Never fall into pride.

Because when you are proud, you will reject the advice and help of friendship from others; because when you are proud, you will become stubborn when you should agree; because when you are proud, you will lose the objective criterion. ——Pavlov

34. I need three things: love, friendship and books. However, these three are so connected! Fiery love can enrich the content of books, and books are people's most loyal friends - Montaigne

35. In addition to the concept of disinterest, mutual respect seems to be Another point of friendship. ——Moroa

36. Those who unite by power will be separated when their power is exhausted. ——Sima Qian

37. It is better to befriend a fool than to be a villain. ——Sima Guang

38. Young men and women should maintain a sincere relationship, that is to say, there must be such a relationship: neither exaggerate nor underestimate anything. If you don't deceive each other, if you respect yourself and others, then no matter what kind of relationship you maintain - friendship, love, etc. - it will be a healthy relationship. ——Makarenko

39. Wholehearted help and closeness are the highest state of friendship. ——Valois

40. Those who can only share happiness with you but not suffer with you have lost one of the keys to the seven doors of heaven. ——Kahlil Gibran

41. No friendship lasts forever. People come and go in your life, and sometimes the process of friendship is short-lived and limited. ——Sophia Loren

42. Honest friendship seems to be healthy. You only know how valuable it is when you lose it. —— Cordon

43. Friendship established on the basis of business is better than business established on the basis of friendship. ——Rockefeller

44. A gentleman does not mirror water, but mirrors people. If you look in the mirror at water, you will see the face; if you look in the mirror at a person, you will know the evil and good fortune. ——Mo Zhai

45. The back is the past, the back is the present, and there are some domestic ones. It is not a good idea to make broad friends, such as reading famous books; to make elegant friends, such as reading poetry; to make cautious friends. Making friends is like reading a holy book; making funny friends is like reading a legendary novel. The friendship of fighting games lasts forever, the friendship of love lasts forever; the friendship of power lasts forever, but the friendship of morality lasts forever.

46. You don’t need to be careful when talking to friends, but you must always be on guard when facing enemies. ——Lu Xun

47. A person who wants to make friends with everyone is not anyone’s friend. ——Pfeifer

48. Relatives are given to us by God, and friends are chosen by ourselves.

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