The innocence of overage, if not affected, is bound to encounter embarrassment. Just like excessive innocence, it has become a kind of stupidity. When a person comes into your life, he leaves a deep impression on each other. He becomes a very important part of your life and a part of yourself. It is beautiful to know each other and have no regrets. When a man humiliates himself to please you, don't be moved by it. This cigarette end burns on him, and the next one may burn on you. Don't provoke other people's men unless you love him very, very much, and he is very, very worthy of love. Don't provoke a man who looks for a woman similar to his ex-girlfriend and his mother and sister. Don't provoke prodigals, young artists and middle-aged men. Don't mess with too pure a man. Don't be with heartless people. Don't treat being a bitch as true love. When we met some people, they were in bloom; When we met some people, he was full of fruit. I have seen the flowers bloom and fall into the palm of my hand, but I remember what they look like. Picked the fruit, just the fruit. Why am I the one who picked the fruit? Why is he the one who took me off? The poet said: those who plant melons and trees will bear fruit, and those who plant karma will have no end. Looking back, there is nothing wrong in this world, only a matter of course. We have been warned and threatened for the first half of our lives: "If you don't do this, you will never be happy!" I don't want to do it just out of fear, so I do it. The more you grow up, the more you find that there are many kinds of happiness. I don't know what true happiness is. For me, there seems to be only one kind, that is, to live according to my own mind and live a life of intelligence, sex, fun and love. We love a person, that is, to give a hostage to the world that confronts us. I love you, that is, I give myself to you, and I give myself to you as a hostage. From then on, you have the right to hurt me, you have the right to abandon me, and you have the right to neglect me. No one else did. I gave you this power myself. After all the hardships, I am willing to accept it. I don't think we are always happy. Life is never easy for me. But I always think that no matter how hurt, I have to love, no matter how betrayed, I have to believe, no matter how attacked, I have to be sincere. There are four stages of lovelorn love: the first is not accepting this fact and feeling impossible, the second is anger, anger, slander and complaint, the third stage is trying to recover, pleading and being crazy, and the fourth stage is venting, looking for a substitute and eager to fall in love with a stranger. Then ... calm down and move on. Love the next person again. Love is not the way out, it is the way. The way out is a very narrow feeling, as if we have only a small exit from a big world, which is urgent or urgent and must be so. Love should be a road, it is broad and long, you can walk slowly or run, it is wider and more free. Love is superficial, and human nature is more eternal. For me, love is a kind of faith. Even if love is finally shattered, love is still there. In my opinion, only two equal, independent, mature and civilized men and women can talk about a stable long-term emotional relationship. I think the purpose of seeking a partner is to complete the life and find a fit in the other person, but not to get a new life, change my life, give up myself, and get happiness. Just for the sake of happiness, it's not necessary to go to a cross talk actor. We are not proud of showing off our lack of sexual knowledge. Not proud of pretending to be clean as toilet paper. The kind of gay men who treat women as white paper and want to seek a sense of conquest, please click on the small fork at the top right of the screen to close the page. I agree with Ji Bolun that men and women are like pillars in front of a temple, close to each other, but they don't overlap and depend on each other. Love, when, is not a waste of life. I believe that true love, passionate and affectionate love, is the only way to make life complete. Learning love is hard and painful, but you still have to learn. For example, my current topic may be to let go of false plans, let go of too much myself, and eternal anxiety. Youth is far away, everything is not over, no, everything has not started. Although it hurts, it doesn't feel bitter. Although full of regret, but no regret. We hugged and danced in the music of the Beatles, just like at the beginning. You looked at me with a smile, just like at first. I never thought I could break up with a smile. You gave me the best beginning and the best ending, and everything was perfect. I thought about giving up on myself, but I can't, because I have been loved by such a good person, and I have to cherish myself. If you don't want to control a person and don't want to be controlled, then you are making the most difficult attempt: balance. In fact, balance is not about finding a particularly equal person. Two people always stand at the two ends of the scale without tilting. I think, balance is sometimes arguing and sometimes helping. Balance is a state of "finding balance" all the time. In the long run, it is indeed balanced, but the balance itself includes fluctuations all the time. The well in my heart is hollowed out, so I live quietly, live according to the flow of life, and wait quietly for the well in my heart to overflow again. It's not so easy to lose the ability to love, but it takes a while for energy to accumulate and give your heart a break. A friend of mine once said, "When we were young, we all thought we were the sun at eight or nine o'clock. The endless energy of love can illuminate the world. But when people reach middle age, they should learn to gather all the light into their hearts and warm their hearts. " I think it's quite right. At a certain age, love needs to be screened, restrained and not wasted. I think it is normal to want to be friends after breaking up, because there is always a concern and warmth between people. But this can't be forced. Any relationship is maintained naturally and comfortably by two people. If the other person doesn't want to, why do you insist? There's more than one friend. Love is our only way. " The way out is very narrow, but the road is very broad. We are all on this road, and all roads lead to the same goal. Love is a big proposition, love life, love writing, love the world, not a very narrow thing, and finally converge into an exit. After watching Love Story in Tokyo in the middle of the night, when I was a child, I felt that Wanji had missed Li Xiang. Now I find that Limei and Wanji are the most suitable. Together, they stretch freely, trust each other, dare to make demands and tolerate each other, just like each other's hometown. Only now do I understand "appropriateness", and I only saw "love" before. I don't know why, this discovery hurts me. So much, so inappropriate, but so loving. Love is grounded, dear, life is trivial and can't escape. Let's face, communicate and work together. After going through one customs clearance, I will suddenly turn back one day, and I will be surprised that it is so powerful that I almost made a customs clearance. I never spurn the trivial details of ordinary life. I am willing to accept it with you, even if it is no longer, even if it is dusty, even if it complains to each other, even if it is as dull as water. What's the difference as long as I can be with you, conform to the customs, or be detached? It's all grace. Because women's social identity is too clear and they have a sense of urgency, but in my heart, there is still a girl, forever. Maybe mature but not sophisticated, maybe complicated but not turbid. Laugh when you should laugh, cry when you should cry, be angry, and be silly. Always be curious, always admire, and look forward to adventure. Spring is here, and everything is sprouting and growing. You can grow, too. I sincerely hope that you can meet someone, someone who cherishes and cherishes you in this world. Otherwise, or it is too lonely. Really, I hope you can fall in love and let the pink cherry petals fall on your hair. Let a person give you a big hug before seeing you off. Love is simple and rude, beautiful and wonderful. It makes you feel infatuated, passionate, sweet, ecstatic and uneasy ... If one day I suddenly disappear, don't look for me. I am looking for happiness! Don't give the same man two chances to hurt you. Don't believe the vows in bed. Don't value virgins, but stay pure. Don't be ashamed of desire, enjoy it, but never tolerate men's insults and neglect. Believe me, sister, there are more men than three-legged frogs. Don't say "love" easily Trust your instincts. Experiencing life is another matter, and it doesn't mean depravity and indulgence. Never agree with the coolness and otherness in disguise. They are people who have nothing to do, and they find excuses to let themselves have nothing to do. The real coolness is in the heart. You should have a strong heart. We must have the belief that time will pass and that we will not be worn and yield. Sister, I want you to believe the old words of warmth, beauty, trust, dignity and strength. I don't want you to be decadent, empty, confused, ruin yourself and hurt others. I don't want you to mess yourself up. Restrain one's feelings Not everyone can have it. We talked about those pains, and I found that my new pain healed the old one. The trauma was so similar that I saw myself; The past reappears, and the problem is no longer a problem. Sanggege said, "Wash oil with oil." That's very good. She said, sadness can't be said. Every time you say it, it's a layer of truth. If you don't say it, it will resolve itself. And what about me? Every time I say it, sadness will become frivolous, concrete and vulgar. Finally, it died of transparency. Hemingway said that hunger is good exercise. I think hunger is a state of life. At the age of 22, I am completely hungry, and I can eat a supermarket, a group of animals and a lot of love for love, life and everything. Chew and swallow, and the verbs that touch the mouth are all. STAYHUNGRY, I don't think it's greed, but the desire to cherish sincere senses and sharpen my mind. All the students are married and all the girls are mothers. At a certain moment, I feel completely abandoned, out of some kind of life. Being a minority, at this moment, is afraid. I sat quietly in the crowd, waiting for this feeling to pass. Dear old girl, maybe you, like me, gradually feel that love is no longer the most important thing in life. The important thing is that we love ourselves, love life, love this imperfect world, and love everything that makes us happy and angry. Tell me the reason why you love the world. Let us believe that something good will always happen! What's it like to like someone? You can't help feeling very lucky. Also, when you describe him, you can't help using a lot of "special". "Special two, especially cute, especially stingy, especially …" Because in your eyes, he is special. Don't share the most precious things. Once shared, there is an immediate loss. Love and live. Youth is so short, don't sigh old. You can stop to have a rest occasionally, but don't squat down and look around. When you walk a road, remember not to look back. Believe in love. I believe that good men still exist, are unmarried, and are still looking for you in the vast sea of people. The so-called old girl is that she still likes the perfume she liked at the age of 2, wears the amber ring at the age of 2, wears clothes at the age of 2, and likes the boy she liked at the age of 2. She may be mature, but she is not worldly. She may be complicated, but she is not muddy. Always be curious, always admire, and look forward to adventure. Dreams are not a goal, but a temperament. Growing up is too difficult. How can we confront ourselves and the outside world while loving the people we love? One of the criteria to measure whether love is good or not is whether you two have stopped growing up inside. Growing up doesn't mean that as you get older, and then wear away, you accept many hidden rules of society and the helplessness of life, but a self-improvement. If you regard love as a long road and a practice, you will find your own problems every time you are lovelorn, and you will become more and more complete and mature. Then you can bring real good love to each other. This is a learning process. Although lovelorn is painful, it is not so unbearable. The real despair is that your pain is meaningless. Life is a 3-episode series, and so is love. If you regard love as a long road, then lovelorn is the disillusionment of one of your love stories, but you must have gained something from it. Then you take this new feeling to find new love, and then turn you into a better self. Love may disappear, and two people can't go on together for various reasons, but if the thing of human nature is still shining, and you sincerely think that the other person is a valuable person, then love is not shattered. At a very young age, we all say, I know what love is, I know what love is, and we all say that I "know" and write that kind of particularly sophisticated words, as if we have seen through human affairs, but in fact you just know. From knowing to knowing is far away, and so is man. When you know someone, there is also a process from knowing to understanding. Never trust a man who is not going to introduce you to his circle of friends. When a man is only willing to call you "baby", insist that he call your name. When a man stops coming to you, don't go to him again. Don't trust people who use means in love. Don't swear when you break up. Learn a lesson, but don't regret it. Regret is useless.

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