Family tradition is the beginning of inheriting historical culture and a symbol of the historical memory of a nation. A good family tradition not only carries the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, but also carries the hope of future development of society.

In the history of our country, through the inheritance of good family tradition and education, countless families have become a learning tradition, talents have emerged in large numbers, and a large number of outstanding talents have been cultivated for the country and society, such as Yue Fei, the hero who served the country loyally, etc., they are all good The result of family tradition.

If a family does not have good traditional virtues and a good family tradition, it will not cultivate talents with excellent personal cultivation, it will not have a good family, and it will not have a happy life. , there will be no promising descendants in the future. This is proven by the rise and fall of the families of emperors and generals, the families of wealthy people, and the families of common people over thousands of years.

The following situations are bad family traditions:

1. Doting and pampering children

"Yan's Family Instructions" says: Parents are dignified and dignified. If you are wise, your children will be cautious and filial. Parents should not be blindly doting in front of their children, but should be dignified and wise. Then the children will be respectful, cautious and filial to their parents. Only when there is a good and harmonious relationship between parents and children can children grow up healthily and the family be harmonious and lasting.

2. Do not believe in doing good deeds and accumulating virtue

There is a verse in the "Dabao Accumulation Sutra": If the karma you have created does not perish for hundreds of thousands of kalpas, when the cause and fate meet, you will receive the retribution yourself. All dharmas are empty, cause and effect are not empty. When causes and conditions meet, the results will come. Therefore, human beings cannot live without cause and effect. Only by doing good deeds and accumulating virtue can we sow good causes.

3. Complaining and quarreling

In some families, young couples have strong personalities, refuse to give in to each other, are competitive, and fight for results over trivial matters. In fact, it doesn't have to be like this. The result is there, but the quarrel has damaged each other's harmony and created a gap in the hearts, which is detrimental to future relationships. Especially quarreling in front of children is detrimental to their growth.