In fact, each of us has such a problem, that is, there is always a time of complacency, but not always a time of awe and modesty. This is because when we compare with others, we always habitually compare our own advantages with others' shortcomings, and rarely see what others' advantages are, which requires us to learn. About learning to respect and appreciate, in fact, our ancestors gave us a good answer 2000 years ago. Confucius said, "A threesome must learn from the teacher. We should choose the good and follow it, and change the bad. " This is a wise statement, but now more and more people forget it.

To learn to respect and appreciate, we must first learn to be modest. In fact, we should understand that everyone has their own strengths or weaknesses. For example, I have a classmate who can't draw well, but sings well, so when he meets those conceited and vulgar people, he will laugh at this person's painting: "Look at his painting, it's not as good as mine!" But other educated, connotative and modest people will say, "Hello, you sing so beautifully. Can you teach me next time? " You see, the "awe" and "appreciation" you ask are exactly the qualities that such people have.

So how do we learn to be modest? In fact, the reason is also very simple, that is, to lower one's social status and relax one's mentality. Yes, there are some people in this world who don't deserve our respect, but it would be foolish to say that you don't respect most people because of these people. In fact, respect is an essential factor for us to maintain interpersonal communication. It is because I can respect you that I am willing to explore your advantages. It is because I found your advantages that I am willing to learn from you; It is because I learn from you that I have awe of you; It is because of awe that I can constantly appreciate everyone I meet. Every step is so interlocking, every step is so interlocking.

What do you think we are in this world? Compared with the whole universe, the earth is just a drop in the ocean. We are just a grain of sand in this world. You think you're good. It is only because you are at the center of your imaginary world and at the center of your ego that you feel that you are superior to others. But who is not the protagonist in your own play? So we might as well relax and regard ourselves as a supporting role in the whole world, so that you can be a humble person conveniently.

Finally, I want to say that it is a long process to learn to respect and appreciate the things around you. Because it has something to do with the education you received since childhood. If you have become a proud person, please don't go to the grave and be yourself. After all, the world is so vast, and proud people have their own living space, right?