Introduction: Does a prolonged separation increase or reduce pain? I can’t figure it out, but the further I walk with him, the more afraid I am of never seeing him again. Below I will introduce you to Yang Jiang Qian Zhongshu’s classic quotations and articles. You are welcome to read and refer to them!
1. A well-educated person can be indifferent to emotions and anger. But it is not tangible, and his happiness and anger may not affect his judgment and choice. Only when the emotions have been sufficiently satisfied or vented and calmed down can the intelligence not be driven by emotions.
2. The fate we see is unreasonable. He only makes jokes, loves to tease people, and loves to make trouble.
3. Love is involuntary. It is easy to see when it is easy to get. Only what is not obtained or cannot be obtained feels rare and precious.
4. Although people are small and life is short, people can learn, cultivate themselves, and improve themselves. The value of human beings lies in the human beings themselves.
5. I looked around for him, but there was no trace of him.
6. The sunset gradually dimmed, the evening mist fell heavily, the sky was low in the wilderness, and the vegetable fields were dim. There was no one or any light in sight, far or near.
7. Ah Yuan is no longer here, and I can’t find her even if I change my dream; I’m too tired to change my dream.
8. Everyone has a spiritual conscience. Constantly restraining oneself based on spiritual conscience is self-cultivation.
9. My heart is as calm as water. I should welcome every day peacefully, live every day well, and prepare to go home.
10. The shout fell into the wilderness, as if it had been swallowed up, leaving no vague sound. The complete silence added weight to the dark night and deepened my loneliness.
11. After all, humans are flesh and blood, with some shortcomings, which makes them more humane.
12. I don’t know where home is, I’m still looking for my way back.
13. A few years have passed, and I gradually understand: It is the shame of a lucky person towards an unfortunate person.
14. In fact, if you don’t want to do things that are not allowed in the world, you don’t need fairy magic weapons. There are also invisibility cloaks in the mortal world; but instead of seeing them as treasures, the world is afraid of wearing them like a wet shirt. Can't take it off. Because the material of this invisibility cloak is humble. Being in a humble position, people turn a blind eye and see but not see.
15. Don’t peep when people have curtains hanging. I would rather hang one myself, whether it is gorgeous or simple. If you don't bother to hang it, or are too lazy to hang it, you might as well leave a naked window open. However, you have to respect other people's curtains.
16. The good and bad qualities of the soul are not reflected in the body.
17. I often hear people brag and make grandiose remarks, which makes me feel insignificant. I also want to brag about my "self-greatness", but when I brag about it, I feel like a ghost. Because it’s just unfermented dead dough without any air.
18. An important component of creation is imagination. Experience is like a fire lit in the dark, and imagination is the light emitted by this fire. Without fire, there is no light, but the light reaches far more than the light of fire. Dot size.
19. Your problem is that you read too little and think too much.
20. Now he deliberately walks slowly, letting me take him one step at a time, and try to get together as much as possible to turn a small dream into a long dream of thousands of miles. I do. Give me a ride, say goodbye, and see you again. If the separation lasts longer, will it increase or decrease the pain? I can't figure it out. But the further I walked with him, the more afraid I became of never seeing him again.
21. I called him, but no one answered. I'm alone, standing in the middle of nowhere.
22. I have always thought that I am an easy-going person, but I am a bit withdrawn and often depressed. I even suspect that I have depression, and I feel that I have made mistakes since I was born. Every word and deed I always feel when I think about it. improper. I was wrong about everything. Why do I have to be here?
23. The further I walk with him, the more afraid I am of never seeing him again.
24. I think the quality that we can rely on most in the face of hardships and sorrows is the willingness to endure hardship. Because hardship breeds wisdom; if you have not experienced hardships, you will not know how rough life is.
Only through personal experience can we become smart and capable.
25. Disappear in the crowd, like water drops contained in sea water, like tiny wild flowers hidden in the grass, not asking for "forget-me-not" or "racing peonies", being comfortable and comfortable is what you want. . If a person doesn't want to climb high, he doesn't need to be afraid of falling, and he doesn't need to exclude others. He can keep his innocence, let nature take its course, and concentrate on accomplishing what he can do.
26. Generation after generation of people, from birth to death, work hard and busy, but in the end they only become batches of corpses. What value can we say in this life?
27. If you want to train a person who can do great things, you must make him endure hardships and be unsatisfied in order to develop a persevering character. After a person undergoes different levels of exercise, he will obtain different levels of cultivation and different levels of benefits. Just like spices, the more you pound them, the finer they are ground, the stronger the fragrance becomes.
28. If we say that humans are animals with spirituality and conscience, then life is nothing more than understanding oneself, refining oneself, and voluntarily transforming oneself, unless one is willing to be no different than an animal. But this is easier said than done.
29. Self-cultivation-exercising oneself is the most fundamental requirement for being a human being.
30. When I think back now, I saw the alternation of ups and downs in just one moment.
31. I am alone and miss the three of us.
32. Your problem now is that you don’t read much but think too much.
33. Give me a ride, say goodbye, and see you again. If the separation lasts longer, will it increase or decrease the pain? I can't figure it out. But the further I walked with him, the more afraid I was of never seeing him again.
34. The so-called poverty simply means not owning property and supporting oneself. There is no guarantee of self-reliance. Not only does one not get sick or grow old, but one also does not have the freedom to control one’s own time and do things one likes or is good at.
35. Memorize new words and do exercises without interruption for a day, because when learning a language, if you don’t make progress, you will fall back.
36. Yao Mi’s eyes lit up, as if on a thunderstorm night, before the thunder, the lightning shined through the dark clouds.
37. Only with faith can life be valuable.
38. I swallowed hard, but I tried too hard, and my chest burst with tears.
39. I caressed the post road that I walked through step by step, and there was a sense of separation along the way.
40. There will be no ending in the world like novels or fairy tales: "From now on, they will live happily together forever." There is no pure happiness in the world. Happiness always comes with worries and worries.
41. I often wonder why someone who received help from my father is so grateful that he kowtows to my mother and never forgets it. Why did someone get more than a thousand acres of good land with my father's help, and twenty years later she didn't forget the benefit she got? She ignored my father's old age, illness, and poverty, but came to exploit his brain power, and then used two glutinous rice dumplings to express her gratitude. . Why are there so many differences between people?
42. The faith of ordinary people may come and go, or it may disappear, or it may be forgotten as time passes, or it may be doubtful if requests are not answered. This is normal for ordinary people. Without training, faith will not be firm. Those who train their souls throughout their lives will have faith in themselves that will grow stronger with age.
43. After a person undergoes different levels of exercise, he will obtain different levels of cultivation and different levels of benefits. Just like spices, the more you pound them, the finer they are ground, the stronger the fragrance becomes.
44. My heart was filled with tears, and my eyes were filled with tears.
45. When I was young, I thought that I could not understand life without reading. It was not until later that I discovered that if I did not understand life, I would not be able to read. The meaning of reading is probably to use what you feel in life to read, and to use what you get from reading to live.
46. I would like to turn into a stone and watch the boat that I can no longer see.
47. Who said the world is ruthless? It only smiled slightly and sighed softly, letting the suppressed wind blow. Because once you relax, heaven and earth will not be able to control you.
48. The world belongs to you and has nothing to do with them.
49. When we read, we always appreciate and evaluate a book from the highest level. When we use ropes, we always judge the quality of the rope from the weakest section.
50. This world is like a melting pot, which produces batch after batch of souls with different qualities and different from the original qualities.
51. A person can condense into a stone, lurk to the bottom, and let time rush past the body like water. He only knows that he is in the water and is unaware of the current.
52. The good things in the world are not firm, the colorful clouds are easy to scatter and the glass is brittle.
53. I think fate is the most unreasonable.
54. I clearly see that the apartment that I used to regard as "our home" is just an inn on the road. I don’t know where home is, I’m still looking for my way back.
55. When we read, we always appreciate and evaluate a book from the highest level. When we make a rope, we always judge the quality of the rope from the weakest section. Idiots who sit on the bench might as well treat others as if they were reading; politicians or entrepreneurs may have to use people as ropes.
56. The old man’s eyes are dry and he can only shed tears in his heart.
57. Only by taking the path of your choice and not choosing the easy path can you have your true self.
58. If a person does not want to climb high, he should not be afraid of falling, and he does not need to exclude others. He can keep his innocence, let it be natural, and concentrate on accomplishing what he can do.
59. On the road of life, if you pursue fame, wealth, power and status, you will have no time to take into account other things.
60. Human beings do not rely on God’s teachings. Human beings have spiritual conscience in their nature. Under the guidance of spiritual conscience, everyone has higher than material requirements.
61. The little aura of human beings is only weak enough for us to panic and see how stupid we are. Human wisdom has its own limitations that cannot be broken, just like a cat's intelligence has its limitations that cannot be broken.
62. Westerners say that there are seven deadly sins: pride, greed, lust, anger, gluttony, envy, and laziness. These seven sins also include what Buddhism calls greed, anger, and ignorance. All these sins are rooted in human flesh and blood.
63. When an ugly person looks in the mirror, he never sees how ugly he is, he only sees the beauty that others cannot see.
64. If the separation is prolonged, will it increase or reduce the pain? I can’t figure it out, but the further I walk with him, the more afraid I am of never seeing him again.
65. Maintaining a contented mentality is the best way to refine your mind and purify your soul. All happy enjoyment belongs to the spirit. This kind of happiness turns life and work into enjoyment. It is the victory of the spirit over the material and the sublimation of the soul to the spirit!
66. Life is nothing more than knowing yourself, training yourself, and voluntarily transforming yourself, unless you are willing to be no different from an animal, but this is not easy!
67. If the metaphor of "the heart is like a mirror" can be borrowed, she will brush it diligently to wipe away all the dust.
68. Shame often makes people forgetful, and they are reluctant to remember things that are embarrassing or embarrassing, so it is easy for them to slip through the sieve of memory.
69. Husband and wife should be lifelong friends. The most important thing between husband and wife is the friendship. Even if they are not close friends, they should at least be friends who can be partners or partners who respect each other. A relationship of lovers rather than friends cannot last. Husband and wife are not friends enough, so they have to break up.
70. There is no pure happiness in the world. Happiness is always mixed with troubles and worries, and there is no forever in the world.
71. If a person has shortcomings, he must deceive himself and others. Once you tell a lie three times, you will believe it to be true.
72. I shouted loudly, including my name and surname. The shout fell into the wilderness, as if it had been swallowed up, leaving no faint sound. The complete silence added weight to the dark night and deepened my loneliness.
73. My father said, there is nothing you should or should not do, just learn whatever you like the most. But I'm not worried.
Just ask what you like, right? I like literature, so why should I study literature? If you love reading novels, study novels? My father said that what I like is the one who is closest to me sexually, which is the most suitable for me.
74. Young people are playful, young people are obsessed with love, young people are obsessed with becoming famous and having a family, and old people are content with deceiving themselves and others.
75. As the saying goes, "Colorful clouds are easy to disperse", but dark clouds can never occupy the sky forever. The years covered by dark clouds are hard to look back on, but what remains indelible in my memory is the golden edge containing light and heat.
76. When I was young, I thought that I couldn’t understand life without reading. It was not until later that I discovered that if I didn’t understand life, I actually couldn’t read.
77. Our country is a weak country with a lot of national humiliation. We don’t want to go out and look up to others and be second-class citizens.
78. Things you hope for will come true sooner or later, but the hope you realize will always change.
79. I once had a little dream that he suddenly left without saying a word. Now he deliberately walks slowly, letting me take him one step at a time, trying to get together as much as possible to turn a small dream into a long dream of thousands of miles.
80. I pretended to be strong at first, but then I became really strong.
81. The smile of an old friend is as bright as the trees in the courtyard, and the autumn wind blows every day.
82. Her conditions are not harsh, just very subtle. For example, she wants her husband to be loyal to her, follow her lead, and let her control everything. But he cannot be a loser. At least, he must be able to show off on the table and be qualified. He can't be a talented person who attracts admiration, nor can he be too young or too beautiful. It is best that he should be looked down upon by ordinary women. He also needs to be like an old lady used by smart housewives. It is best if he is not burdened and has no worries.
83. Only those who are in humble circumstances have the best chance to see the truth of the world and human nature. If a person doesn't want to climb high, he doesn't need to be afraid of falling, and he doesn't need to exclude others. He can keep his innocence, let nature take its course, and concentrate on accomplishing what he can do.
84. Laziness is also natural. Diligence requires one's own efforts. Once you relax, you will become lazy.
85. We learn wisdom from sorrow and refine virtue from pain.
86. Fame may be useful to you while you are alive, but you can only be used by others after you die.
87. Or for this reason, the wind cannot be calm in a lifetime, just like human emotions.
88. I only remember a sentence that often comes back to me: In the situation at that time, a person was like a fallen leaf or withered grass in a whirlpool, unable to control himself. Not bad, but do people have the final say?
89. Zhongshu laughs with me because he understands my laughter and admits that I laugh well, with a bit of pride.
90. To be honest, I think I would rather be scolded than scolded. Because scolding is a self-performance, and being scolded is a performance of others' conscious or unconscious performance - a performance of their feelings towards me, and the true feelings revealed unintentionally are often very thought-provoking.