Ye Luming Literature is in the corner of Yuan and Song Dynasties. I think most people can't stand having rivals around their girlfriends. I think both men and women should refuse to be ambiguous. If the girl clearly knows that the boy is chasing her and doesn't keep the distance between men and women as normal friends, it is really inappropriate for her to do so. If she chooses to have an affair with the boys around her because of unbearable loneliness, it doesn't mean that she doesn't like you. It will be very difficult to stick to it.

You can talk to her calmly about this matter, but only if you believe her words. But you must not be suspicious, make assumptions, make random suspicions and other behaviors that undermine trust. This will lead to quarrels, her unhappiness, and her loneliness will indirectly push her into the arms of that man. The basic principle is: 1% believe what she says, and tell her that if that boy is after you, I will feel more at ease if you keep a certain distance from her. I believe you can handle it.

The worst result is that she can't hold on and get along with that boy. Think about it, she chose to give up your feelings when you believe her, but she can't hold on, your feelings can't stand the distance, and there are other opportunities without that man, so it's sunk costs, and giving up is the optimal solution. On the contrary, it is the most regrettable to break up because of the emotional damage caused by paranoia and much ado about nothing.

tell me my story. My girlfriend in a different place is beautiful and popular. Many people give her gifts on holidays and birthdays, including boys. Many people hint at her and chase her when her boyfriend in a different place is public. The other day, she told me that a boy in a class usually has a lot of contacts. In the evening, WeChat asked her if she could chase her if she broke up with me. She clearly said that it was impossible to break up with me, and the boy stopped talking later. Before, a senior who had known him for several years asked him to go to the cinema alone to watch "In a hurry that year". She told me in advance that there were many beautiful people chasing her. In fact, I care about this matter. I had an idea to ask her to cancel it, but in the end, I felt that as long as she didn't deliberately hide it, I chose to believe her. Many friends broke up in different places because of suspicious quarrels, and sometimes it was nothing. The communication barriers brought by different places, coupled with pride and loneliness, pushed each other into the arms of rival lovers. If you want to understand the above, it is necessary to communicate if you seriously want to develop together in different places, and then you should believe each other 1%. Once there is cheating, it is sunk cost, and giving up is the only choice.