Only when you are free can you get happiness. The most fundamental point of freedom is the right to choose. No matter how bad the situation is, you still have the right to choose how to face it. Others can be angry with you, but it's up to you to be angry with others or not.
3. The premise of free choice is to have enough courage to be responsible for the choice. When things go bad, don't blame others, take responsibility and remember your right to choose.