The lyrics of a song are as follows: "Carnival is the loneliness of a group of people, loneliness is the carnival of one person."
Living in this noisy and noisy world, many people don’t like to be alone. When they are alone, they will feel unbearably lonely and at a loss.
So, I simply moved between pushing cups and changing cups, and rushed to the bustling and prosperous events one after another without stopping. But he has never had a long conversation with his soul, and the tranquility in his heart has gradually drifted away from him.
Sometimes you really need some alone time. Free your mind, you can think about anything, and you can think about nothing. When a person is alone, the kind of purity and tranquility comes with it. When you are alone, you can be poor but also rich, and lonely but also gentle. You can stroll among the flowers, beside the small bridge, stand in the silent openness, and feel the tranquility. Let your mind stay away from the hustle and bustle and experience the singing of birds and the fragrance of flowers.
Appreciate the fun brought by nature, be silent in your own reverie, and don’t need anyone to accompany you, only yourself. At this moment, I am my truest self. I look up at the clouds in the sky, my heart is wandering with endless thoughts, I make a pot of tea and read a good book. At this time, the world belongs to me, and I own the whole world. Let yourself find the unknown world in books and find your true self in this rare tranquility.
You can be moved by the characters and stories in the book and shed tears. At this time, I took off the mask of life and returned to nature. There is no pretense, even the smile is sweet, it is a secret hidden deep in the heart that cannot be expressed. Let yourself be immersed in such an atmosphere, let your body and mind return to their true nature at this moment, and silently enjoy the spiritual habitat brought by this purity.
You can carry a simple bag and go to the place you have longed for. You can travel alone without being with anyone, and you can be free and carefree. Can be as innocent and naughty as a child. Standing on the top of a high mountain and shouting, breaking the tranquility and letting the lonely heart feel the joy of release.
A passage from Yu Hua in "Shouting in the Drizzle":
"I no longer pretend to have many friends, but return to loneliness and use my true self Start living alone. ”
When you are alone, you don’t have to worry about useless interpersonal relationships, you don’t have to deal with other people’s emotions, and you don’t have to deliberately judge other people’s thoughts. You can be leisurely and contented in your own space.
Being alone away from the hustle and bustle of the world may seem lonely to some people, and they will lose a lot of the joy of life. However,
There are also happy things when you are alone, and you may not know each other all your life.
A person who truly enjoys being alone can return to his true self and devote himself wholeheartedly to the things he likes. The beauty of this is that others may not know it all!
In life, we often think that multiple friends mean multiple paths. We take pride in our “wide network of connections” and love to show off our circle of friends.
As everyone knows, meaningless general communication will only continue to consume limited energy. Apart from a few more names in the address book, it has no substantive meaning.
Just as it is said in "Night Talk Around the Fireplace": "It is better to study all day long than to make friends indiscriminately."
It is better to spend quality time alone than to have low-quality social interactions.
Take the initiative to shut out the carnival of a group of people, and not be disturbed by the outside world, calm down and think, reflect on yourself, improve your knowledge, and discover a better self.
The world is full of noise and chaos, and walking in it can easily make people dusty. If you don’t know how to be alone, you will often follow what others say and drift with the crowd. As I get older, I gradually realize that the world belongs to me and has nothing to do with others.
I am also alone, and I also have happiness.