First, the three views of parents are the wealth of a child's life.
The greatest wealth that parents can leave their children is not money, not a house, but three views. A child in kindergarten had a seizure, and a mother of the family Committee encouraged her parents to vote for her to quit school. Gu Jia not only supported his little friend to stay, but also patiently explained to his son why his little friend was ill, and demonstrated with her husband how to help others. When his son didn't like equestrian, Gu Jia didn't force the child, but sat down to communicate with him and encouraged the child to try. Yan Zi changed her attitude and studied hard under her mother's instruction.
French scholar Baudas said: "People's concepts and standards are deeply influenced by their parents and rooted in their minds." The child is too young to form his own thinking ability. This is the concept of parents, which determines his attitude towards the world and affects his view of life. Only by cultivating their children can parents stand out.
Second, marriage has never been an eternal haven.
Chen Yu said: "It is said that marriage is a safe haven. I married you to relax and worry. " I don't want Zhong's words to be broken: "Everyone wants to take shelter from the wind and who will be the port. Indeed, marriage is not a one-man show, it needs two people to understand and support each other. If only one party is working hard and supporting, the balance of this relationship will be unbalanced sooner or later. You can't hide in the shell of marriage, just covet comfort, look on coldly, and make no contribution to this family. A truly happy marriage requires two people to paddle together and ride the wind and waves. In fact, a broken marriage will not obliterate your glory, but will consume your heart that is unwilling to communicate and grow. There are no perfect two people in this world, only two hearts are tolerant of each other.
The lifelong friendship between husband and wife is nothing more than that I am sick, you cook me a bowl of porridge; You are tired, let me give you a hand.
Third, the pain of being born in a family should be treated by himself.
Zhong is pregnant, and her first reaction is not surprise, but fear. He is afraid that he can't afford the responsibility of being a father and can't give his children a better life. Gu Jia, also a single-parent family, learned to do everything by herself after her mother 13 died. Because of the influence of family background, the former dare not have children and are afraid to follow in their own footsteps; The latter tried to become strong. Adler, an Austrian psychiatrist, once said a famous saying: "Happy people use their childhood to cure their whole lives, while unfortunate people use their whole lives to cure their childhood." Although it is difficult to be truly powerful, we must believe that even if we are mired in the mire, we will one day drill out of the mire like a lotus and bloom ourselves.
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