1. As soon as people leave, the tea gets cold, which is a natural law. The tea will get cold as long as people don't leave. The world is in a hot and cold state.
2. Ambition and strength are equal. If you talk about ambition when you have no strength, what awaits you will only be disaster.
3. While you are young, you need to suffer more before you can be truly humble. Otherwise, your self-righteous intelligence and contempt for everything will destroy you sooner or later.
4. A true good friend will not fall out when there is mutual loss, will not be suspicious of each other when alienated, will not care about money, has no distinction between high and low status, does not need to fawn over when you succeed, and will not leave when you fail.
5. Life is like a plane, it doesn’t matter how high it flies, the key is to land smoothly; life is like a train, it doesn’t matter how fast it runs, the key is to reach the destination smoothly.
6. Don’t expose your inner vulnerability easily, and learn to bear everything you should bear. Don't talk about the messiness of life easily, learn to face the messy and disorderly reality. Don't waste every day easily, because it is the first day of the rest of your life. Don't give in to the world easily, it makes you cry, you have to make yourself laugh while persisting.
7. Life makes us understand that the most important thing is mentality. In the material world, there are many things that are yours and not yours; in real life, there are many beautiful things that are yours and not yours. If it doesn't belong to you, you will happily reach out; if it doesn't have yours, you will happily let go. There is no need to covet it, no need to feel uncomfortable. If you get it, you will be happy. If you don't get it, you will not be sad. Indifferent, tranquil, and peaceful. Gladly.
8. Your life is your own, you don’t have to use other people’s standards to define your life. If you try to please everyone and meet everyone's standards, you will only lose yourself in the end. You can't please everyone because everyone has different standards. Trying to make everyone like you is futile and irresponsible to yourself. Don't get lost in other people's evaluations, listen carefully to your inner voice, and just be yourself.
9. Life is an unknown river, whether it is deep or shallow, you have to cross it. The world is so big, whether it's love or friendship, you have to save a lot of fate to be together, so don't give up on each other easily. Some people can only leave if they can't wait; some things can only be given up if they don't want them; some pasts, regarding happiness or pain, can only be buried in the bottom of my heart; some hopes, regarding the present or the future, can only be buried in the bottom of my heart. Choose to forget.
10. There are certain paths in life, and once you choose them, you can’t look back. On the journey of life, if we want to realize our ideals in life, we must not only learn to go straight, aim at the goal and move forward inexorably, but we must also learn to turn around and adjust the route based on the situation. Especially when we are at the end of our rope, we have to tell ourselves that it is not that the road has come to an end, but that it is time for us to turn.
1. There is joy and sorrow in life, there is bitterness and sweetness in life. Only by grasping every role you will face will you be able to laugh at the ups and downs and ups and downs of life. Because no matter how much you pay, how much you gain or lose, they are all embedded in the past scenery.
2. Good friends are those people who often tell you to "go to hell"...Good friends are those people who always tell you that you are sick and ask you to see a doctor...Good friends are those who catch one of your shortcomings The people I talked about for a long time...Good friends are those people who say unscrupulous and unpleasant things in front of you...Good friends are those people who want to go to your school with a team to make you poor...It is rare to have a few good friends in life!
3. Life is full of things and things are impermanent. Life requires a calm and peaceful mood. Time is like an eraser, which can easily erase those memories that have been missed intentionally or unintentionally, but it cannot erase those imprints that are imprinted on the heart due to mistakes.
4. In the passing years. We always think that we have changed our lives, but just when we think we have changed our lives, life has actually changed us. We have changed our material life, but real life has changed our essence.
5. As time changes, so do people. If you can't carry it, let it go; if you can't bear it, let it go; if you can't figure it out, don't think about it; if you can't hate it, heal it. Life is a process of cultivation. Why treat people and things with such an unfair heart? You will fail yourself and let down the years.
6. The heart is in the distance, and the road is at your feet: Have lofty goals, but do detailed things. ——Jack Ma
7. Love is very strange, it doesn’t mind anything, but in the end it can forgive everything; as Rabindranath Tagore said: Your eyes are raining for her, but your heart is holding an umbrella for her. This is love. .
8. Life is a memory accumulated over time. Don’t care too much about gains and losses. Don’t always live in the shadow of loss. A blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. If you can’t get it, don’t force it and lose it. Those that are passed away are kept as memories, and those that are held in the hands are the ones worth cherishing.
9. What wakes you up every morning is not an alarm clock, but a great dream. What you abandon every day is not others, but your immature self. Being short of money every day is not poverty, but tuition fees paid for success. What is new on my shoulders every day is not pain, but the quality of calmness. What happens every day is not bitterness, but fulfilling experiences. What comes every day is not the long night, but the dawn.
10. I don’t know whether it was right or wrong to meet you, but I know that I am happy to have met you.
11. The more stories a person has, the calmer and simpler he is, while the more superficial a person is, the more restless. Every good person has a period of silence. During that time, I put in a lot of effort and endured a lot of loneliness. The real strong man is not the one without tears, but the one who still runs with tears in his eyes. Sometimes you have to dare to carry burdens beyond your expectations. After you really work hard, you will find that you are much better than you imagined.
12. Qingqingzi chants, lingering in my heart. Fireworks are easy to get cold, but a few people really understood that after they bloomed all over the sky, the ground shattered and became cold. The clouds on the temples are slanting, the shadows of flowers are shaking, and the rest of my life is vast. I suddenly look up at the sky. Maybe my life is over. When I suddenly look back, what comes to my mind is nothing else. It is the scattered autumn leaves on the ground and the unknown brilliance. The thick entanglement between years.
13. Most people who are stalking you don’t really love you deeply, they are just racing against themselves. People who really love you can't be obsessed with you. Because self-esteem does not allow it. We have always believed that love means giving the best to each other, including dignity. --How many shallow turns are the depth of affection that others cannot understand.
14. Maybe love is not nostalgia or enthusiasm, but the years, which have become a part of life over time. The world is small, but cities are really big. The farthest distance between people is not the distance between them, but the distance between hearts. Sometimes you can look at it very indifferently, and sometimes you can be a little too persistent. No matter what happens, don't give up. If you keep going, you will definitely have unexpected scenery.