Primary school is a good opportunity to promote intellectual development, form a harmonious personality and cultivate good psychological quality and behavior habits.
If you are willful, you should establish rules for your child and tell him which behaviors can and cannot be done. As long as he doesn't hurt himself or others or break anything when he is willful, you can let him roll and cry on the ground at will. As long as you keep a calm attitude and send him a message, his rolling and crying are useless to you. What you want depends on your own efforts. If you can't get it, you should learn to accept it. If you do something that hurts yourself and others, hold him tightly. I believe that children will soon learn the rules you have established.
The child is two years old. He is very headstrong. How should he be educated? The child is two years old, and willfulness is generally used when the baby is young. Such a big child is well educated. As long as the family works together, usually one month is enough time for the children to change.
1. Adults should always educate their children. Especially grandparents, when parents criticize their children, never come forward to protect and interfere. When adults have different opinions, children should also be avoided to discuss them.
2. When the child is willful and noisy, don't severely criticize, let alone beat and scold. You can take advantage of the situation, actively and patiently reason, and explain to your child that unreasonable demands cannot be met;
3. Diverting children's attention is a good way to solve waywardness. For example, if a child clamors for a dog, he can take him to the park to see monkeys. Naughty monkeys will divert his excitement and get rid of his willfulness.
4. When necessary, give some "punishment", such as; No one will pay attention to his crying. Even if he stops crying, he will be "cold" for a while. When he is impatient and approaches an adult on his own initiative, seize this opportunity, seriously explain to him the reasons for not meeting his unreasonable demands, point out his willfulness and mistakes, and make him promise not to do it again. Only in this way can criticism be effective.
Five-year-old children are obedient in kindergarten and willful at home. 1 How to educate kindergartens? There is a timetable for work and rest, and what to do at that time is completely arranged by the teacher. Besides, children are obedient in kindergarten to like their classmates and teachers. He likes teachers.
Being naughty at home is because there are too many parents and the education of children is inconsistent. One said this and the other said that, and the children didn't know what to listen to. In addition, if there are old people, they will spoil their children, so being naughty is not necessarily a bad thing. Parents should tell their children more and set a good example.
What kind of mother will raise a very wayward child? An unprincipled mother must bring out wayward children.
What kind of education does modern society need most? Personal point of view. First of all, we must understand what modern society is. In my opinion, modern society is the product of the industrial revolution. Based on scientism, it advocates that human social activities can be coordinated and planned through scientific methods and mathematical analysis, and is committed to building society into an efficient executive machine with economic principles and obtaining the highest output with the least input. As a result, a series of disciplines have emerged to regulate human behavior, such as economics and law. In this machine, human nature is evacuated, the meaning of human nature is ignored, and people are regarded as a screw of social machine. People's inner perception succumbed to external pressure, and people became animals instead of people.
In this context, if we ask what education is most needed in modern society, what modern society certainly needs is to turn people into screws and be competent for "a certain job" and "a certain occupation" education. For example, our current education is. However, if you want to ask what kind of education people need, it is an education that can make people think freely and feel the meaning of life. What kind of education is this? I don't know, but I'm thinking about it. what do you think?
What are the reasons for children's willfulness? Spoiled. Let it go. Or lack of parental care.
Five-year-old children don't listen to anything, they are willful, and they are beaten and scolded every day. They have no memory to teach children to pay attention to ways and means. They can't beat and scold every day, so the children will be very anxious and don't know what to do. You should encourage him.
The child is six years old and very headstrong. What should I do if I have to do what I want to do? Because, every time when his demands were not met, he cried or used other methods. For whatever reason, his parents finally met his demands.
So in his cognition, there is nothing impossible, only what you don't want me to do. As long as I work hard, it can be achieved.
If you want to correct this problem, you need to really refuse the request, not to say no at first, but to compromise after crying. If a real refusal is not enough for children to understand, only by refusing every time can this misconception be truly corrected.
What happened to a child who is almost three years old? Three years old is a process of children's ideological maturity. Being a child in your home is not like this. Most of them do. What you need to do is to guide correctly, talk to him at ordinary times, communicate well and tell him what he can and can't do. Be patient and pay more attention. Children are precious now, unlike us at that time.
This four-year-old boy is very headstrong and unreasonable. How to teach him? Hello, Jane!
Your question is very good! Under the current social environment and exam-oriented education mode, our children are easily infected with bad habits, such as willfulness, rebellion, dishonesty, addiction to the internet, and inattention in class, especially teenagers! The purpose of education is to change children's wrong outlook on life, values and world view. Although there are many ways to educate children, some people adopt tiger mother and wolf father education and say "win at the starting line". A person's life is actually a marathon long-distance running process. Even if they win the starting line, how far they can run, how long they can persist, and who can laugh at the end is still unknown. Therefore, some people's so-called tiger mother education example is not worth popularizing and imitating widely, so education will cause permanence to most children. If corporal punishment educates children to beat them, the consequences may be quite serious, and they will retaliate against their elderly parents and grandchildren in the future, so violent education is harmful! On the contrary, it is more important to cultivate children's healthy personality and optimistic spirit. If you want to educate your children fundamentally and cultivate their good interests and habits in study and life, I suggest you make them like Disciples Rules as soon as possible!
Sages teach filial piety again and again, trust and love the masses, love benevolence and virtue, and learn to be an official and filial piety. Parents should call on them not to delay their parents' orders and not to be lazy. Parents should respect their parents' responsibilities, inherit winter and be gentle in summer ... (reading more books will definitely improve children's sense of responsibility and inspire their wisdom). You see, this is really a "filial son", the best tutor! How well written! It is catchy, easy to read and easy to teach. There are also many video story textbooks on the Internet, and there are many versions suitable for children at all stages. As a parent, as long as you are willing to encourage your child to watch with you (this is very important, you like to watch with him, children are naturally curious and easily influenced by others), you will definitely make your child like her. If you can work hard in real life and try your best to implement the teaching inside, why not educate your children well?
At the same time, your problem involves teenagers' ideological and moral, behavioral language, academic performance and other family education issues. Parents and teachers are very concerned and want to solve it. Parents' correct educational guidance plays a decisive role in the process of children's healthy growth education. Therefore, in daily family life, parents and children are sincerely recommended to watch the series of documentaries "Sage Education Changing Fate" (also known as Disciples' Discipline), which is a large-scale public welfare forum of excellent China traditional culture education planned and supervised by Chen Dahui. This is a very favorable free network resource about moral education and family education, which can help children feel the truth of life in a happy and grateful atmosphere, help them improve their healthy growth and learning progress, understand why disasters and accidents happen, and avoid disasters. It can prescribe the right medicine for children's various problems and is a good treatment! There must be the answer you need, and it is also a powerful teaching material for our parents and elders to learn. It is indeed a rare classic tutor program! There are many wonderful cases in this program to discuss various ways to solve children's education. It is really the best one-on-one tutor for us and our children, and it is also a very good family education network resource, and it is completely free, which is of great help to the improvement of children's academic performance. In life, children and even adults are prone to various problems, such as lack of perseverance, greed, rebellion and disobedience, internet addiction, puppy love, strong dependence and inattention. These problems can not be fundamentally corrected by some simple methods or measures to become a filial and obedient child, but we need to carry out comprehensive and systematic family education to treat both the symptoms and the root causes. In this film, many experts, teachers and parents speak in person and report to the public with their unique experiences, enlightening parents that their educational ideas will directly affect their children's family education. Therefore, it is recommended that parents and children watch together. The family education they received from childhood will affect their children's life, and they will certainly get unexpected gains from it!
There is a classic epigram in the film: people can teach well! Good people are taught, and so are bad people! This shows the importance of family education!
However, at present, we are facing various realities: serious lack of social integrity! Various media exaggerate and mislead, and the environment where children grow up is constantly being destroyed and polluted. It is difficult to do a good job in family education! Parents are getting worse. To tell the truth, many parents don't know how to be parents, so they bring their children into this world and put a lot of educational responsibilities on schools and society. However, parents are children's first teachers, and many growth experiences require parents to set an example. They shirk their responsibilities, how can they educate their children well? Really sad!
As children, we often can't understand our parents' thoughts and real experiences, just for our own convenience and enjoyment. To tell the truth, it's a bit of a violation! When we are parents, we can truly understand this feeling, but it is often too late to regret it, alas. ...
Many so-called generation gaps in our lives are caused by the disjointed and inconsistent education received from generation to generation. Nowadays, too many people are eager for quick success and instant benefit, only paying attention to their own enjoyment and ignoring the feelings of others.
You know, all education should start with roots, just like a tree needs roots to grow trunk, branches and leaves, and flourish. If we abandon the fundamental virtue education, everything else will be just castles in the air. I would like to recommend friends who are destined for you. Whether you have seen it or not, please try your best to take time to watch the excellent program of China Traditional Culture Education Forum: "Sage Education Change Destiny" (which can be searched and played on Baidu video or Youku Tudou). I hope everyone who has seen it can get real and meaningful benefits from it and continue to benefit others. Let's work together to create a harmonious social environment.
I hope my answer is helpful and enlightening to you.
Sincerely bless you!