second, don't try to control others, and don't ask others to understand you.
third, patience is good, patience is a treasure. You can't bear the thought of once, and it's a big disaster to fight for strength. I can't bear the anger, and I will haunt you all my life, so what's the harm in making people step by step, and there is no trouble in making a big fortune.
4. Keep what others say in your head, while keep your own in your heart.
5. If you have something to say, if you are dissatisfied, you should scold it, if you have emotions, you should vent it, and if you have love, you should speak it. Our youth will soon pass, so don't be afraid of this and that all day. If you want to speak, you will have it and be taken seriously. Being seen, noticed, cared for and missed is life.
6. What customers want is not cheap, but feeling that they have taken advantage of it.
seven, people's mind, too much desire is narrow, too little desire is wide.
8. Being in a desperate situation is both unfortunate and fortunate in life, and that's the case if you don't come too late. Whether it's the pine tree at the top of the towering Mount Tai, the solitary tree in the vast Gobi and endless wasteland, the Populus euphratica in the depths of the desert, or the ancient willow that has fallen to the ground for thousands of years by the royal garden lake, it all explains a truth: the success or failure of life lies in the struggle with despair! Never give up in the face of despair, this is the unyielding great spirit of mankind!
9. There are some things that you can care about, but don't go too far. Too much will wear your mind and weigh your steps. Some pain, you can immerse yourself, but don't be too long, it will reduce your fighting spirit and lose your direction. If you look down, you will be relaxed; If you look shallow, you can be comfortable; If you look down, you can be happy; Open-minded, open-minded and mature; Understand, can be simple.
1. read more books and watch them.
11. Don't forget your roots, at any time and in any matter
12. Really understand the meaning of impermanence. When you are in pain, you should think that this pain is not eternal, and when you are happy, you should think that this happiness is not eternal.
XIII. When a society is completely intoxicated with fashion, those truly noble and great things gradually fade out of people's sight, and people may even doubt whether those things really existed. If the sky is completely covered with dark clouds for a long time, people will gradually think that those clouds are all in the sky. They don't believe that there is a blue and pure sky above the clouds.
14. Only by knowing yourself and changing yourself can you change others.
15. Good people do good deeds, from joy to joy, from brightness to brightness. The wicked do evil, from suffering to suffering, from ghost to ghost.
XVI. If you can choose, don't end a love with hate.
seventeen, learn to be patient and persistent!
XVIII. Make your own decisions. And be prepared to face the consequences. Remind yourself from the beginning that there is no regret medicine in the world.
XIX. Sometimes you should learn to listen to the opinions of people around you. More often, you won't get hurt.
twenty, if you are a true monk, you have never seen anything in the world.