People are not created equal, and there is no so-called God who will help anyone through suffering. It is true that each of us is very ordinary, but some people have a smooth life, while some people have a bumpy journey from birth. However, what we want to see is that many people who have a hard life can stand up bravely, win everyone's respect, and become lucky existences in everyone's eyes.

So, what do these people rely on to stand up at a low point? In fact, you only need to remember two ancient sayings from your ancestors. Remember these two sentences, and you will be able to stand up on your own ability and make those who once laughed at you look up to you.

This is what our ancestors said: When a person is poor, he should not make three friends; when he is in trouble, he should not turn to three people. What does this sentence mean? Let us all take a look together! First of all, let’s talk about why poor people can’t make “three friends”? This three friends is actually the abbreviation of "three kinds of friends".

Some people say that if I am poor, I will make friends with poor people so as not to make others impatient. But in fact, this is not the case. The person who has the same problem as you is also very poor himself. Very much in need of help from others.

When we are poor, don’t waste time on people who share the same disease with us. Everyone has their own path in life. If you stay with the person who shares the same disease with you all day long, it is very likely that Negative messages are passed on to each other, making it difficult for people to muster the courage to change the status quo.

When we are poor, we cannot have deep friendships with people who share the same problem, nor can we have long-term contact with people who are not enterprising. I believe everyone has experienced this kind of thing, that is, when you suddenly want to complete something, you find that your partner is always lack of interest.

The biggest characteristic of people who are not enterprising is that they will not let themselves live a compact life. They will not dare to take risks in their lives, nor will they muster the courage to make some changes. And if you stay with such a person for a long time, you will easily become satisfied and decadent.

In addition to people who don’t share the same problem and people who don’t want to make progress, people who like to complain can hide as far away as possible. A person who loves to complain can complain about everything for a long time, but it is difficult to complain about himself. Complaining is useless when people are poor, so it makes no sense to complain every day with people who love to complain.

The second half of an ancient saying from our ancestors says that there are three types of people you cannot turn to when you are in trouble. These three types of people are those who hate the poor and love the rich, those who add insult to injury, and those who do not keep their word.

First of all, if you go to a person who dislikes poverty and loves wealth, he will feed you delicious food and drink in his home. The purpose is to hope that you can become a beneficial resource for him. But once you When you are in trouble, in their eyes you are like a plucked phoenix. If you go to beg them at this time, they will definitely dislike you in every possible way. It would be nice if they don't ridicule you, but how can they help you? Therefore, when in trouble, those who despise the poor and love the rich will never ask for help.

People who add insult to injury do not want others to live well. Once you are in trouble, the happiest thing they will do after hearing the news is to step on you again, and they will definitely not help you. First of all, asking them for help is tantamount to humiliating yourself!

Finally, people who don’t keep their word. Why can't such people turn to him for help in times of trouble? There are two reasons: First, people who do not keep their word are likely to be unreliable. That is to say, most people who do not keep their word are fickle. They may take advantage of your mental and physical exhaustion to dig a trap for you to jump, and then refuse to admit it afterwards. , let you eat Coptis chinensis when you are dumb.

Second, people who do not keep their word cannot help you at all. They have already exhausted their resources because of their bad faith. Even if they have resources, they are resources that suit their personality. Once you accept his help, you will enter his circle of untrustworthy people, and it will be difficult to get out in the future.

When you are at a low point in life, keep these words of your ancestors in mind, and you will find that you will save a lot of mistakes and avoid many detours.