Michelle Ye, Emperor Kangxi, used Yao Qisheng in order to follow the advice of sages and disobey the permission of his ancestors, and finally recovered Taiwan Province Province. The importance of good advice can be seen from the reuse of sages by ancient emperors.
Being good at listening to Zou Ji's suggestion that Wang was ignorant, he ordered to clear the way, promote new advantages and eliminate disadvantages, make Qi's politics clear, and finally defeat the court. Facing other people's suggestions, Cai Huangong ignored Bian Que's words. "Advice at the most unpleasant time helps action, and bitterness is the medicine when it is good for illness." At first, his illness was only on the skin, and hot water could cure it. When it develops to flesh and blood, acupuncture can cure it. Even in the stomach, a few doses of decoction can still be cured, but Cai Huangong's career has been repeatedly ignored, and he is sick to the bone marrow and can only wait for death. It can be seen that listening to other people's advice is a necessary condition for survival and a road to success.
? Of course, it is also unfavorable to blindly listen to other people's opinions, so we should analyze them. Shang Yang, as wei ren, went to the State of Qin to publicize Legalism. He was not optimistic when he proposed the reform. In addition, the contents of his reform violated the interests of the old nobles of Qin, and everyone opposed it. However, Qin Xiaogong adopted Shang Yang's idea, and finally unified the six countries in deus ex during the chaotic period of the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period. His son, King Qin Huiwen, listened to the words of the nobles who falsely harmed Shang Yang, punished Shang Yang with a car crack and killed the powerful great man of Qin State. Therefore, we should learn to analyze what others say with some subjective factors, take its objective factors, take its essence and discard its dross.
It is said to be well-intentioned, so for some bad remarks, we will be Song Like Zi Rong. "Without advice, the world will praise it and the world will not be discouraged." For example, Han Meijuan in the Tik Tok fire had a visual impact on her makeup, and her Mandarin had a strange accent, which caused some netizens to abuse her. However, she insisted on spreading positive energy. As a cleft lip and palate patient, he hopes that patients like him will not feel lonely and help people feel confident when uploading videos. Finally won the praise and love of netizens.
On the road of life, in the face of various suggestions, we should analyze and adopt its reasonable components, examine politeness, despise criticism and welcome a beautiful and successful life.