In this case, you can only be silent, and you don't need to defend or explain. Because people who know you don't need it, people who don't know you don't believe it, and it's useless to talk too much, which will only increase resentment.
"Those who know me call it worry, and those who don't know me call it desire" comes from The Book of Songs. People who know my mood know my depression and anxiety. People who don't understand my mood think I have any requirements and plan to stay here.
You can't force people with different ideas to reach a consensus with you. You can only do your duty and live up to your heart, and you don't need others' understanding. See for yourself later.
"Lu Yao knows horsepower and sees people's hearts for a long time." This proverb urges us not to be discouraged, good and bad will be clear in the future, and we should not rush to explain it at the moment.
What kind of person are you? Different people have different opinions. If you are a simple person, people who know you will think you are cute and naive; I didn't know you were a schemer, act young.
If you are a sincere person, meet people who don't believe you, think you are untrue, and always suspect that you are full of lies.
So it's not that you are not good enough, but that the other party doesn't recognize you. No matter how hard you try to change the other person's point of view, it won't help, it will only increase your troubles. Be yourself, don't explain, time is the best proof.
The Italian poet Dante once said, "Go your own way and let others talk!" This sentence has become the motto of many people.
Encourage yourself not to forget your original intention, go forward, insist on doing what you think is right, concentrate on yourself, don't complain, don't explain, and devote all your energy to doing useful things, instead of wasting time defending yourself with others and making yourself upset.
"A straight body is not afraid of crooked shadows." "A clean man is clean." These famous sayings are all about believing in yourself, not afraid of gossip and sticking to yourself.
Life is not easy. It takes a lot of patience to live beautifully. If you don't complain and explain, you are an excellent person.
The world is colorful, so is life. Everyone has a different life. Only in the face of difficulties, can you be flexible, forbear, be yourself and stick to the right thing, and your life will shine!