1, don't think that a man's emotional obsession is true love, and his bottom line is dignity. The bottom line of a man who doesn't even want this is his own imagination. When you are in love, the bottom line of the other person's character can determine the degree of your injury, so don't look online, look offline. For example, many men have been chasing a woman for many years, probably because of conquest rather than true love.

2. The so-called Mr. Right or true love you meet may just be good at chasing girls and falling in love. For boys, this is only the result of accumulated experience; Many straight men are just not good at chatting or dealing with girls, not to say that they are not suitable for dating.

Don't think that a boy brings you into his circle of friends is true love. Don't think that introducing you to a buddy is true love. Don't think so.

You can be reasonable in love, but don't be too virtuous. Human nature cannot be tested. If you are too kind to a man, he will take it for granted after a long time.

5. Be sure to cherish your body and health in love, and don't have an abortion for any man; Abortion has a greater impact on the body than childbirth, such as gynecological diseases and dry breasts, such as thinning uterus and irregular menstruation; Don't take birth control pills, which will cause irregular menstruation and long spots; Especially for a girl who has an abortion for a man, even the friends of the boy look down on her, especially those who have had two or three abortions. She is always disgusted and disdainful when she is mentioned.

6, derailment is the bottom line, if a man loves you, he will not let you sacrifice your self-esteem to fulfill your love; If the other party cheats, don't choose to forgive after crying; I know it's hard, but girls should remember to break up decisively. When men know that the cost of cheating is only a few days, there will be countless derailments.

7. The most deadly sexiness of a woman is her smart mind, stable mood and independent lifestyle.

8. Don't feel that you have an interesting soul. You don't care about appearance. Everyone has a love of beauty, not to say that art photos should be taken every day, at least clean and tidy.

9. I often see various discussions about green tea and Bai Lianhua. Don't bother to think about how to fight green tea. Compared with those means, it is more important to read more books, exercise more and study more to make yourself capable. Is it really worth your time to win over the man who was hooked up by those so-called bitches?

10, don't be carried away by Korean dramas, it's all fake. In reality, the college entrance examination in South Korea is more difficult than that in China, and the social class is seriously solidified. The story of the prince and Cinderella does not exist; Those handsome, rich and gentle obas only exist in TV dramas. In reality, most men are ordinary and don't know romance. And to tell the truth, most Korean men are generally stingy and male chauvinism is serious.

1 1, don't think about getting married and having children as soon as you fall in love. In men's eyes, falling in love and getting married are separate; Even girls who are suitable for dating and marriage have clear standards. Some boys let their families arrange blind dates while falling in love.

12, don't underestimate that men want to get close to the rich woman's heart. It's hard to earn money by eating shit. Men are emotionally rational; Men will also feel that their girlfriends are poor, and they will care about each other's family conditions when they get married. After all, a woman with a good father can struggle for ten years less.

13, think clearly about what you want in a relationship, and don't wring your hands to make a living; You want money, don't look for the poor, provided you are young and beautiful; If you want to be excellent, don't find a man who is only good to you and doesn't know how to make progress. If you find an excellent person, don't complain that the other person doesn't have much time to spend with you.

If you just want to have a vigorous relationship and love you enough, you can spend a lot of time with you; You can't have your cake and eat it. A man who spends a lot of time with you will definitely sacrifice his career. Most successful men don't have time for you.

14, don't believe what you say, believe what you do. If he really loves you, he will spend money. If he loves you, he won't cheat and keep in touch with his ex. If he loves you, he will reject all ignorance, instead of making you doubt and break you down.

15, the scariest thing in a relationship is not love but cold violence. A man who refuses to communicate and disappears to calm himself will definitely make you a bitch and will not make you better and better; The horror of cold violence is that you don't respond to your feelings. The less you respond, the more afraid and unwilling you feel. If someone loves you, it won't make you feel that he is afraid of losing.

16, be sure to stay away from the man who belittles you and belittles your words. One day, it may not work. Over time, you will gradually feel useless and poor, and even feel that you are not worthy of him. Don't say that those girls who commit suicide in such a demeaning way are fools and psychologically fragile. The surrounding environment has a great influence on people, so great that you can't imagine it;

Think for yourself whether the advertising words you can remember are repeated three times. The music you can remember is basically popular in Tik Tok, and the power of repetition is terrible. The human brain will remember things that are repeated over and over again.

17, if a man makes you feel mature, it's a pity that he doesn't love you or doesn't love you so much, because the essence of a man is a boy; Similarly, if a man is good at taking care of women, those details are taught by his ex-girlfriend, he may forget you one day, but he will never forget the woman who taught him.

18, I can understand the feelings of girls in love, but at the same time, don't forget that you still have your parents to accompany you, so you should work hard in the future; Don't spend all your time with men. Your parents are more grateful to you, and your future needs your own struggle.

19, girls should not be proud of promiscuity. Maybe you will think that it is your personal freedom, but the standard of China's moral concept for thousands of years for women is unshakable by your strength; What's more, for some men, except their mothers and daughters, I wish women all over the world were bitches; After they finish you, they will discredit you and make you poke your spine for life.

20. If you can, be an emotionally stable person. If you can't, find someone who can make you emotionally stable. Emotional instability not only affects feelings, but also affects study and work, and even brings pressure to family members.

2 1, no matter how much you love, don't betray your parents for a man, no matter how good he is to you; Because life is not short, you can't guarantee it will never change, but your parents' love for you will never change; If you don't feel it now, you will find how difficult it is for parents to love you when all social relations become interest relations.