1, courtesy is extremely humane-Xunzi's Book of Rites means that etiquette is the top priority of being a man. If we don't act according to etiquette, society will collapse and fall into chaos; People will not be able to live. Therefore, Xunzi regards "Longli" as his theoretical foothold, which is also the core of his theory. 2. Governing the people with equality, not being good at courtesy-Confucius' The Book of Filial Piety means that there is no better way to stabilize the country and govern the people than to use courtesy. The so-called ceremony is just respect! The so-called rule of the country is nothing more than "settling down and living" and "governing the people." And "ruling the people with security" is the best method, which further emphasizes the importance of "courtesy". The essence of "courtesy" is "respect". However, although it is only a word "respect", its influence and function are enormous. Because there is "respect", there can be "yue". Family, society and country will be harmonious because of love and joy. 3. Without courtesy, there is no way to stand-Confucius' Analects of Confucius says, "Without courtesy, how can you be a man?" Confucius said, "How rude are people?" The master is really a master. This is how the teacher taught and educated people 2500 years ago, and I admire him very much. Etiquette is an essential quality of a healthy person. If a person can't do well, despite hypocrisy, he is only a flawed person. 4. Courtesy, Heaven's Scripture, Man's Journey-Zuo Zhuan means: Ceng Zi thinks that if he saves his body and treats his adoptive parents kindly, it is filial piety. After listening to the five kinds of filial piety mentioned by Confucius, I couldn't help but marvel and say,' Alas! Does filial piety matter so much?' Confucius recognized Ceng Zi's admiration and knew that Ceng Zi had understood what he called five filial piety. So he said,' You know the origin of this filial piety. 5.' People who are rude are not born, things that are rude are not successful, and countries that are rude are uneasy.' Xunzi's "inaction" means that if you don't learn etiquette, it will be difficult for you to stand on your feet. If you don't keep etiquette, people can't survive. If you don't do things with etiquette, the country will not be peaceful without etiquette. It is generally believed that it is good to improve moral character through self-cultivation, which must be completed under the restriction of ceremony, even if the specific way of self-cultivation is inseparable from ceremony and teacher. Be a civilized student, build a civilized campus and create a civilized city, and see what others say. Confucius said: "Ma Mian, courtesy also; Today is also pure and frugal. I follow the crowd. Worship, courtesy also; Thank you today, Taiya. I am from the bottom. " Seeing the children in Cui Zi, the clothed and the blind, although few, will do it; If it passes, it is inevitable. The essence of Fang Lin's politeness. Confucius said, "What a big problem! Ceremony, not luxury, is quite frugal; It's easier to mourn than to grieve. " It is not difficult for a well-meaning person to express his courtesy to others. -Rousseau Politeness and upbringing are necessary conditions for decorating human beings or all other fine qualities and talents. -chesterfield's English courtesy and upbringing are necessary to decorate human beings or all other fine qualities and talents. -chesterfield's English courtesy and upbringing are necessary to decorate human beings or all other fine qualities and talents. -chesterfield British politeness brings civilization, warmth and happiness to everyone. -Pilder The purpose and function of etiquette is to soften stubbornness, soften a person's temperament, and make him respect others and get along with others. John's locking etiquette is a strategy that smart people come up with to keep a distance from fools. -Emerson Beauty etiquette is a subtle thing, which is not only indispensable in interpersonal communication, but also can't be too concerned. -Bacon English A person's courtesy is a mirror that reflects his portrait. -Goethe Politeness is not always a sign of wisdom, but impoliteness always makes people doubt its stupidity. -Landauer English has an innate politeness, which is related to love: it will produce the most pleasant politeness on the appearance of behavior. -Goldrudeness is a means used by people with weak hearts to make themselves look strong. -Eric May ● Reciprocity (Joubert) ● The greater the title, the more complicated the etiquette (Tennyson) ● Life is short, but even so, people still have time to pay attention to etiquette (love to sacrifice their lives) ● If you look at etiquette higher than the moon, you will lose sincere trust between people (Bacon) ● Etiquette is to add a layer of seaweed to all his other virtues and let them have a heart. Gain the respect and affection of all those who are close to him (Locke) ● A grand funeral is held not so much to mourn the dead as to satisfy the vanity of the living (laroche Foucault) ● The human face has never been so secular as when watching a funeral (Joe Norwell Worth) ● If a person pays attention to the activities observed in the street, I believe he will find the most pleasant expression on the hearse (Joe Swift). Even the privilege of presiding over a funeral (Jan La Lowell) ● Ritual is extremely humane (Xunzi) ● Good governance of the people, no courtesy (filial piety) ● Telling the truth with courtesy (Analects of Confucius) ● Not learning etiquette, no way to stand (Analects of Confucius) ● Ritual, connecting the country, setting the country, making the people and benefiting the future. If the country is rude, it will be restless (Xunzi) ● If the people are polite, it will be safe, and if the people are rude, it will be dangerous (Book of Rites) ● Courtesy, righteousness and benefit the people, and politics will be a big festival (Zuo Zhuan) ● Courtesy and shame will ruin the country (tube) ● Food and clothing will enrich people's livelihood, and etiquette will support people's hearts (Xu Yuanheng) ●