The main meaning is: it is better to earn wealth for yourself than to help and realize men's ambitions. Only a person who climbs Kunlun Mountain (that is, has his own career and has achieved something) can get gold for her husband. Men are unreliable since ancient times, and women should be as brave as Mulan and not lose men.
This sentence first came from the internet. The last sentence of the original text is "women have their own ambitions", which corresponds to the above poem: a good wife helps me with my ambitions, and if I get it, I will kill the right person first. One day, with power in hand, I stepped on my wife's grave to pick up new people. A good wife accompanied me from scratch, and my virtue was forgotten. If one day you get ahead, killing your wife is like whipping a horse and an ox.
The whole poem aims to tell girls not to wholeheartedly assist men or attach themselves to men, but to strive to achieve themselves.
Kunlun Mountain is a sacred mountain in China myths and legends, located in today's Shaanxi Province, and an important place in ancient China myths. Legend has it that there is a fairy palace on Kunlun Mountain, which is rich in treasures, including gold, pearls, precious stones, jade and so on.