Doing good deeds, such as helping others, is entirely a personal act, which is already a kind of happiness and a kind of reward. Why care about the ingratitude of others? That's why people say, "But doing good is the future of Mo Wen".
1. If you have a problem with your mentality, you will show a strong sense of purpose even if you want to do good deeds and help others. You want to get gratitude and reward from others, to establish your own reputation in the crowd, and to achieve your own goals. In the long run, it is really morbid to always dig your brains when helping others. If you insist on doing this, you are bound to feel unhappy, because no one will cooperate with your sitcom.
Second, evaluating a person's success mainly depends on his achievements. As for doing good deeds and helping others, it is only an auxiliary standard. Otherwise, you can only be regarded as a good person, not a successful person. A good man who has no achievements like this is naturally prone to disappointment, even those he has helped.
Third, everyone is the "sun". The troubles and difficulties of others now are just rainy days or dark nights. Sunny day or dawn will come sooner or later, and no one can refuse for others. Sunshine mentality requires people's development to maintain a win-win situation. The victory of others is related to you, and your victory also contains external factors. Blocking other people's sunshine will also make you walk into the shadow, thus making life gradually dim. Therefore, we should do more good for others.
Fourth, do more things to help others, and the blessings will naturally come.
As the saying goes: "Give someone a rose, and your hand has a lingering fragrance." People are actually benefiting themselves while helping others.
As long as you help others wholeheartedly, good results will follow.
Helping others is also helping yourself. For example, if you teach others to read carefully, you will have a firmer grasp of knowledge in the teaching process; If you devote yourself to improving other people's skills, you will master them more skillfully.
Helping others helps to accumulate contacts. If you help others through the difficulties with your heart, others will keep it in mind and naturally find opportunities to repay you. Although you helped others and don't remember yourself, others are always grateful.
Help others and make yourself happy. Some people say that "helping others is the foundation of happiness". This is not unreasonable. If you sincerely think of others, your heart will naturally open up and your mood will naturally be happy.
People, as long as you are conscientious and have a clear conscience, you don't have to worry too much about the result.
Do your best, resign yourself to fate, and make your own arrangements.
In the future, if you think more about others, help others, study hard for yourself, look forward to the future, take more responsibilities and be collective, you will surely have good results and good luck.
In short, "people help me, I don't forget; I helped others, I don't remember. " Yes, but doing good deeds is the future of Mo Wen. Those who are always considerate and helpful will eventually get the good luck they deserve.