Life is determined by nature. When people are born, they are divided into times circle, interpersonal circle and resource circle. This is life. Society is formed by the contact and intersection between circles, resulting in various accidental and inevitable results of people, people and things, and people and things. This result is luck for you, and the grasp of luck depends on human nature, so the same life has different blessings.
If you were born in the Tang Dynasty, you certainly didn't have the life to play mobile phones.
If you are born in a savage tribe, your best fate is nothing more than being a chief.
This is fate, which is doomed at birth and cannot be changed. If you want to change this life, you can only work hard before birth, which we will talk about later.
Destiny is predestined, so what about luck? Luck is a variety of "circle" sports!
When I was born, I had a circle of relatives, then a circle of playmates, then a circle of friends such as classmates, comrades-in-arms, colleagues, interest circles, friendship circles, and even crossed into officialdom, culture, education and other societies. The movement of these circles has had various influences on you, thus forming your luck.
Life and luck can be regarded as external causes, and internal causes are your nature. The combination of internal and external factors determines your fate.
Knowing life and luck, how to change your destiny is simple. For you, external factors are objective facts, and the only thing that can be changed is internal factors. Only by changing the internal causes of nature can we change our destiny.
For the simplest example, if you go out in the morning and inadvertently look left or right, you may face a completely different fate in the future. Look left, it's not worth paying attention to, and then you move on with your life. Looking to the right, you find an acquaintance coming from a distance. At this time, naturally play a role.
If you are indifferent by nature, you will pretend not to see that person, turn your head and walk away, and nothing will happen.
If you are kind by nature, you will say hello to that person from a distance and wait for that person to come and chat. Maybe these little chats gave you an important message. You took advantage of this information and embarked on another life path.
There is also a story about Fan Sixun. It is said that a scholar met an expert, and the expert calculated his fate, which was later fulfilled one by one, so the scholar thought that his fate had been decided and he was passive. After entering a Buddhist temple, some monks talked about the benefits of doing good deeds and accumulating virtues. When scholars tried, they actually walked out of their destiny in calculation and gained an unexpected future.
What does this mean? On the surface, it is the merit of doing good that brings good results. In fact, the nature of scholars has changed. He changed his attitude towards life from passive to active, actively doing good, and changed his fate.
Therefore, changing nature can change fate. If a scholar changes his nature and takes the initiative to do evil, can't he also change his destiny? If you do evil, you will go to prison. This result is not calculated by experts, is it?
Let's put it another way. If you can decide the fate of others, then the nature of others can still influence your decision.
For example, if you see a poor child picking up food in the garbage, you really want to help him, treat him to a good meal, and even help him arrange his future life. In your opinion, the fate of this child will change because of you. Is that really the case? Not necessarily.
Imagine that when you say hello to him, the child jumps up in ecstasy and says, "You called me? Do you want to invite me to dinner? Ha, it must be! I can see it in your eyes. You must invite me to dinner! " Then hug your arm: "Come on, where shall we eat?" ? Can you control it? "
Such a character, are you still willing to care about him? Therefore, as the saying goes, character determines fate.
Why does this performance determine fate? This problem can be well explained by using the theory of five elements. Classify all your circles. There are four categories:
1, good for you.
2. It's not good for you.
You are beneficial to it.
4. You are not good for it.
These four circles, plus yourself, * * * is the number of five elements. People usually think that 1 and 2 are causes, and 3 and 4 are effects. This view is all wet!
Here, only you are the cause, the only cause, 1, 2, 3, 4 are all results. To make it clear, we added: "Because you are like this." So it is easy to understand.
1, because you are like this, it is good for you.
2. It's not good for you because of you.
Because of you, you are good for it.
4. Because you are like this, it is not good for it.
Do you see it? There is only one reason for all the results: because you are like this!
Although your nature can't determine the movement of the circle, it can determine the change of the circle!
When the nature changes, all interests will change. For example, when a bad boy prodigal son returns, his friends and relatives who were alienated from him will soon become friendly, while the friends who used to eat and drink with him will inevitably become alienated. Therefore, the premise of changing your destiny is to change your own nature. How can a villain have a positive fate?
Life determines your starting point.
Luck determines your process.
Nature decides your result!
How many children born in poverty have become rich and powerful by their own efforts? How many officials of the second generation and the second generation have become playboys, even living on the streets?
The so-called misfortune never rains but it pours. Misfortunes have no eyes or brains. How could they come to you on their own initiative? Always think of others in words and deeds, fate is naturally more joyful, and the probability of success is also high, and those who are often bitten by bricks and dogs must be thieves.
However, as the saying goes, a leopard cannot change his spots. For those who want to change their destiny, how to change spots? Students who want to know can click on the heads of top universities to see more information. There are contact channels, you can contact. You know, you can know what number is on it at a glance, and you can get non-public secret information from me by copying me as a friend.