Why do so many people still do what they should do after watching so many inspirational videos and chicken soup quotes, and knowing so many examples of successful people? Why can't other people's success stories help you? The reason is simple - because you can't learn from them.
Although those stories are very inspiring, and you will be excited and full of passion after reading them, but you only know some dramatic stories and the outline of the story, but you don’t know how he got there step by step, and what are the details. Gaining experience? For example, Jack Ma was not hired by KFC. The lesson learned from this was to "enhance the external image"? Or "cultivate inner temperament"? Or even "just don't expect to work for others in the future"?
The person involved may not remember it clearly. What can you learn from such a case? I learned that they are very powerful? Or have they learned that they can meet something or someone that can change their life?
It is better to be practical and learn from around you. Those who are struggling in the sea of ??study, why not carefully observe the students around them who are studying well? How do they usually listen to classes? How to review? How to do homework? How to control the time for entertainment and rest? People who are already working can observe the excellent colleagues around you and how they handle their work... At least compared with the half-truths and half-false rumors of celebrities, all the details of the cases around you are in front of you, making it easier to discover. There is something truly worth learning from it. Secondly, the success of people around you may not necessarily be dazzling, but their achievements are something you can actually achieve if you work harder. Learning from them is easier to translate into practical actions and achieve your own success, rather than just staying in fantasy.
People are different from birth, just like there are no two identical leaves in the world. For example, Marxism was borrowed from our country and became Chinese Marxism; Buddhism was introduced into my country and became Chinese Buddhism... Another example is the Reform Movement of 1898, which copied the capitalist reform model but ignored China's national conditions and thus failed; the Revolution of 1911 The bourgeois republic, parliamentary system, multi-party system, etc. that tried to imitate the Western democratic system model in the later period soon failed under the impact of various Chinese and foreign reactionary forces.
It can be seen that success can only be learned from and cannot be copied.