In the face of setbacks, if you choose the former, then you will see setbacks laughing wildly, laughing at your inferiority complex and your timidity. However, if you are lucky and your choice is the latter, then setbacks will make it easier for you to hide in a dark corner and tremble.
So, in the face of setbacks, beat him with your strongest smile and let him die in your sunny smile. Paul's tenacity, Helen Keller's persistence and Robinson's optimism have touched you and me again and again, and they are also the reason why they tell the world to "give a smile to setbacks and give themselves a chance".
In the face of those heroic competitions and the success of getting on the podium at the Special Olympics, are you moved by the success created by these disabled people who seem inconspicuous in daily life and are not even recognized by people? Neither great men nor ordinary people should give in to setbacks. I believe that on the road of life, you will climb your own mountain. In the face of setbacks, your raised mouth, confident eyes and loud "no" are another setback, which will make your tomorrow wait for you at the first time.
So ... I believe your choice is to take every step bravely and persistently in the rain! Time passed little by little, and we grew up slowly. On the way of growing up, we cried, laughed and fell, but we were not afraid of pain. After falling, we got up, dried our tears and moved on with our original dreams. On this long road of life, everyone will encounter bumps and setbacks. What will you do when something goes wrong? Are you going to be depressed from now on, or are you going to pull yourself together and work hard? When I encounter setbacks, I will tell my people that there is no eternal night on earth and there is no eternal winter in the world.
I won't just disappear in obscurity. Those unhappy things have become the past, and yesterday has become the past and history.
The past belongs to God, and the future belongs to myself. If winter comes, can spring be far behind? The darker hour is nearest the dawn. We'll get through this! If life deceives you, don't be depressed or angry! Temporarily tolerate unpleasant things; If you miss it, the happy days will come. Do not make excuses for yourself. Fatalism is an excuse for the weak who lack willpower.
Strong people are not afraid of failure, nor are they afraid of starting over. Accept the challenge, believe in your own ability, and often say to yourself: I won't lose, I will live.
Look forward to a bright future and believe that you have the ability to reach your dream future. Our future is not a dream! Work hard, the world belongs to us.
Because we are young and motivated, come on! ! I believe you, shout it out, I am not afraid, I need patience when I am frustrated, and I need weakness when I am proud. It is true that people sometimes feel frustrated and frustrated. However, I believe that frustration is the best gift for young people! People can only "wake up" and "bang" when they encounter setbacks and are teased, discriminated and laughed at by others! Isn't this the most precious gift in life? So, if the present setback can bring you happiness in the future, please endure it.
If the happiness now will bring you misfortune in the future, please give it up. "Every setback, every pain and every blow in life has its meaning.
Why don't we try to give life a freedom? Give life a freedom and learn to look for bright colors in the sky when dark clouds are gathering. In this way, even if you unfortunately fall from the peak of your life to the bottom, you will certainly hide your face and cry while looking for a way out.
Give life a freedom and you will know to learn from Wang Wei's detachment. I will keep walking until the river blocks my way. You might as well sit and watch Yun Qi. Or cry like Ruan Ji. It is said that Ruan Ji often drives around when he is sad and depressed. When he was desperate, he came back crying.
When the pressure of life strikes, we might as well learn from Ruan Ji and release our emotions with this seemingly absurd behavior. Just finished crying, don't despair, never know the return! Give life a freedom, and you will know how to tailor it to your own needs, and you won't make some unrealistic demands on yourself. Will be content, not to pursue things outside; You won't compare with others, and you won't care about others' eyes. You Ran, you can sing any song you want to go to the top of the mountain.
I don't care if anyone wants to listen to those songs. If no one wants to hear it, just sing it to yourself. It is said that there is a sign at the foot of the Alps, which reads: "Walk slowly and enjoy yourself!" " "Let's give up some unnecessary burdens and give life a freedom. Let's walk slowly, enjoy the scenery along the way and enjoy life to the fullest! Late at night, the moonlight shone through the window sash and scattered all over the floor.
I sat at my desk alone, letting my tears "beep, beep" wet the test paper with poor scores. This final exam, I am far from achieving the expected results.
I feel very wronged. Why do I pay so much and get nothing every time? I blame God for being unfair. Unconsciously, I remembered the scene of burning the midnight oil to read a book, and I remembered the scene of my parents sending me bread and milk.
Why, why, am I really not learning material? Forget it, don't think about it, turn on the light and read extracurricular books. I turned on the lamp. I found biscuit crumbs moving on the table. I pushed my glasses to see more clearly. I saw several ants moving the biscuit crumbs, and the biscuit crumbs stopped moving, as if struggling to move. How interesting! I brought a magnifying glass to take a closer look at these little things.
I have to put some obstacles in their way. I put the pencil in front of them, only to see them change direction. I was surrounded by my pen to see what they would do this time.
2. The introduction of objective trembling is also called "needle-piercing psychology". Psychologists have done an experiment: when threading a needle, the more you concentrate, the less likely it is to thread a needle. A person who works too hard and concentrates too much will screw up what he can easily accomplish.
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3. "Purpose" composition 500 words * * * People live like this, most of them live for life, and then do what they should do, so mechanically for a while. Others are looking for something, busy, running around, and then found it, happy or sad. They may have thought about what they live for, but from Freud's level of needs, they are probably still in the first few levels. If you really want to understand the great ideal of this life, you may have considerable life experience. Children's feelings are the most direct. Ask them what they are studying for. Many people are very straightforward. They will not "study for the rise of China" like Zhou Enlai in the textbook. Although China has not yet risen, most of them answered "to make money", and some of them just wanted to support their families, to worship their ancestors, or to repay their parents, to get into a good university, and to make a fortune. It's real, never as lofty as we thought. Indeed, son. Students ask me that the price is also regulated by the market, and ask them what they are studying for. For them, only personal gains and losses taste, so as to make money, which scares me. Presumably, parents understand that developing the economy is the last word, and most of them live for the sake of life, which is also the spiritual achievement produced by the economy and society. They are probably still in the first few levels, and the purpose of reading is linked with human beings, sacred and busy. People may have considerable life experience to live like this, and some are just to support their families. For a time, they were so mechanical. From Freud's demand level, they don't even have the concept of the rise and fall of their hometown. For example, students buy and sell things and even borrow money from each other. Others like toys, although China has not yet risen: "You can teach others to learn this, and don't imagine it as lofty as us."
Children's feelings are the most direct.
That's true. They may have thought about why they are alive and what they are looking for, just as I haven't thought about confession yet. If you really want to understand the great ideal of this life, in order to worship your ancestors, make a fortune, be happy or sad, and learn something. They will enlighten me, too The purpose of reading is as most parents taught them. What's the use of learning this, running around and finding it great to make a lot of money in the future? I have nothing to answer, it is related to the rise and fall of the country. In order to get into a good university, most people answer "to make money", so that what children talk about will be measured by money, or to repay their parents? Can we make money? Some people help each other with money. Many people simply say, "Teacher." I can only admit that I don't have this idea, and children can't feel the rise and fall of the country. Suffering from poverty, we don't "study for the rise of China" like Zhou Enlai in the textbook. We don't think there is anything wrong at all. What to do then, very practical. sometimes
4. Be in a good mood to write a composition "Be in a good mood" is a topic dominated by "trembling purpose" and "relaxation skill practice". Although the requirements of topic composition are broad, we must not ignore the interpretation of given materials, let alone write as soon as we grasp the topic. For this reason, we should pay special attention to the tips of "relaxing excessive efforts, reducing excessive' purpose'" and "overcoming excessive caution in avoiding mistakes and failures" After understanding the materials and watching the reality of life, many things are "trembling" because they are too focused on doing one thing and too eager to achieve success. Some people do well in the examination room because they want to do well in the exam. Don't some people have mental illness because they are in a bad mood? Some people in life become obsessive-compulsive disorder, and some people have anxiety disorder. Can we also find the answer from this topic? So this topic is close to life and has much to write about.
5. Write a composition (500 words) on the topic of "loosening" to unlock the mind.
Once upon a time, in the vast sea of clouds, there was no warmth; Once upon a time, in front of the towering mountains, there was no cage of spring scenery; Once upon a time, in pale memories, there was no harbor of fate.
Time is like running water, fleeting; Life flashed by like lightning. I often fantasize, if I am a cloud, where should I go? If I were a tree, where would I grow?
But I am just a green grass. Just a drop of water on the vast ocean, just a stone on the lofty mountain, curled up in its own space.
I don't know if you've tried. When you want to thread a thread into a very thin needle, and your skills are not very skilled, you will find that the more you try to cross it, the less successful it is, but your hands will shake involuntarily. Also, when you want to pour water into a very thin bottle, your hands will tremble. Psychologists call this kind of trembling "purpose trembling", because people are too eager to succeed and want to thread or inject water, so they become nervous and aggravate their failure. In fact, you don't have to reach your intended goal to succeed. Sometimes the more you want to achieve it, the more it will backfire.
An old cow with a rope on its nose was tied to a tree. It wants to get rid of the rope to eat grass, but because of the rope, it can only run around the tree. In fact, everyone has a rope in their heart. If you can't get rid of it and just think that you have achieved your original purpose, you can only spin in the same place.
If you don't achieve your expected goal, please untie your mind. Even if you miss the beautiful Tianshan Snow Lotus that you can't pick, don't forget that wild lilies will have spring in the beautiful and leisurely valley!
Do your happiest thing and you will find that the garden of life is full of flowers.
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Once upon a time, in the vast sea of clouds, there was no warmth; Once upon a time, in front of the towering mountains, there was no cage of spring scenery; Once upon a time, in pale memories, there was no harbor of fate. Time is like running water, fleeting; Life flashed by like lightning. I often fantasize, if I am a cloud, where should I go? If I were a tree, where would I grow? But I am just a green grass. Just a drop of water on the vast ocean, just a stone on the lofty mountain, curled up in its own space.
Alas ... now, I am always bored, let my mind wander freely. It seems that at that time, I can completely relax and get peace of mind, real peace! At that time, looking at the sky, I always seemed to be looking forward to something inexplicably. Is it about feelings? About tomorrow? Or how about tomorrow? Tomorrow? Or death? Oh, I know? Who knows? Then who can tell me? Maybe … or … keep looking forward to it … People around you sometimes feel out of place with them, sometimes they are tired and helpless. Maybe, I think too much! But ... realistic pen, draw the isolation belt of the heart!
I don't know if you have ever tried. When you want to thread a thread into a very thin needle, and your skills are not very skilled, you will find that the more you try to cross it, the less successful it is, but your hands will tremble involuntarily. Also, when you want to pour water into a very thin bottle, your hands will tremble. Psychologists call this kind of trembling "purpose trembling", because people are too eager to succeed and want to thread or inject water, so they become nervous and aggravate their failure. In fact, you don't have to reach your intended goal to succeed. Sometimes the more you want to achieve it, the more it will backfire.
An old cow with a rope on its nose was tied to a tree. It wants to get rid of the rope to eat grass, but because of the rope, it can only run around the tree. In fact, everyone has a rope in their heart. If you can't get rid of it and just think that you have achieved your original purpose, you can only spin in the same place.
Hey, classmate, don't believe in yourself like those ants who have no brains and are bound all day, even in hard suffering, you will be defeated by yourself one day.
If you don't achieve your expected goal, please untie your mind. Even if you miss the beautiful Tianshan Snow Lotus that you can't pick, don't forget that wild lilies will have spring in the beautiful and leisurely valley!
Do your happiest thing and you will find that the garden of life is full of flowers.
6. It is required to write a composition about the purpose of learning, which requires about 500 words. In today's society, human beings have to go through prenatal education, preschool education, general education, higher education, vocational education, adult education and other lifelong education, and then they have to go through terminal education. What is the purpose of such a painstakingly managed "educational world"? In my words, it is "learning survival skills, seeking a satisfactory career and creating a happy life". This is not only the purpose of education-to better promote people's all-round development, but also the purpose of learning-to effectively improve people's learning value.
Today, comprehensive, coordinated, sustainable and people-oriented are the spiritual core of Scientific Outlook on Development and the Scientific Outlook on Development that education must follow.
Therefore, after considering "what to teach and how to teach", any education, whether from the stage, subject or specific content, should consider "why to teach", that is, the purpose of education; Any study should consider "who is learning, what to learn, where to learn, when to learn, how to learn and why to learn". Of course, the most important thing to consider is "why study", which is the purpose of learning. No matter how important other factors of learning are, they should all revolve around the purpose of learning. It can be seen that the purpose of learning is the first.
According to the theory of man's all-round development, man's survival and development should not be limited to the study and mastery of skills, but also include the development of morality, interest and intention. That is to say, in the harmony between social and individual educational purposes, the educated should mobilize their learning motivation, improve their moral ability, develop their intelligence, train their skills and exercise their physical fitness in order to gain the freedom of individual survival and development.
1972, the UNESCO report "Learn to live-today and tomorrow in education" put forward "Learn to live". From 65438 to 0996, UNESCO published Learning: Inner Wealth, and "learning to survive" was developed into four pillars of education, namely, "learning to know, learning to do things, learning to get along with others and learning to survive". "Four Societies" has become the declaration of the international community on learning and education.
In the past, people's lives were obviously divided into two stages: study and work. Go to school first, then go to work, and apply the knowledge and skills you have learned to your work. However, now knowledge is updated at an unprecedented speed, and the knowledge learned in school will soon become obsolete. Only by renewing one's knowledge base all one's life can one catch up with the pace of knowledge change. Everyone's life will only have two major themes: "survival" and "learning". From this perspective, the purpose of learning is to survive.
For a long time, farmers, workers and teachers in our country can do farm work all their lives, and teachers can teach books all their lives. However, in the new century, people don't have to put their whole lives in one industry. They can be cadres, laid-off workers and farmers, give full play to their individuality, enthusiasm and creativity, do what they like and realize their ideals within their own capabilities. However, if you can't study, it will be difficult to get a satisfactory job and create a happy life.
The first blue book in China that comprehensively introduces and analyzes the development of children and adolescents —— New Discovery —— Report on Contemporary Children and Adolescents in China reveals that the overall level of external motivation of children and adolescents in China is relatively high.
This study investigates children's learning objectives. The statistical results show that when children explain why they study hard, 46.5% choose "the future will be beneficial to society"; 19.8% is "to realize one's own ideal"; 12.6% means "to have a good job in the future"; Only 7.8% of them like reading. This result shows that a considerable number of children associate personal learning with serving the society and realizing personal ideals, and the overall level of external motivation for learning is high. However, another issue should also be concerned. A considerable number of children in China lack intrinsic learning motivation. In other words, many children in China study well and do well in exams, but they don't necessarily like reading. This survey and a large-scale national survey in the past have fully explained this fact: 1996, the survey result of "Personality Development and Education of the Only Child in China City" shows that more than 60% of the only children lack cognitive needs. These two sets of data show the same result: a considerable number of children in China have not experienced the pleasure of reading in school life, and many children have completed their studies in a state of hard study, so they lack internal learning motivation. In this sense, the school should be a sea, not a fish pond, so as to give students sufficient study space and development space. Schools should realize that students are eagles in the air, not caged birds.
Everyone with normal consciousness has a purpose in his main activities. The clearer, nobler and more active the purpose, the greater the motivation when studying and working.
7. Read the following article and write an article. The wise Zhuangzi left us a thought-provoking story: a player can bet with a clay pot that his skills can be fully exerted; Besides, he gambled on gold and lost a lot.
Zhuangzi's definition of this is that "the outside is more important than the inside". Because of overexertion and concentration, I screwed up what I could have done easily.
Modern medicine calls it "purpose trembling". The hand that wants to sew the needle too much is shaking, and the foot that wants to kick the goal too much is shaking.
Valenda used to have a pair of feet walking on a tightrope, but his excessive desire to win just made his feet out of balance-the famous "Valenda mentality" was given a heavy connotation because of Valenda's slip and death. Can life have no goals? But the purpose is to lead you forward. If you make your purpose into a sandbag and tie it to your body, every step you take will be bound by great bondage and inexplicable fear. So, how will you meet that successful self? "The purpose is trembling" because the heart is trembling.
If the heart is too low, the distant scenery will unfortunately be covered by weeds and miscellaneous trees; Mediocre eyes are doomed not to enjoy the happiness of peerless beauty. And care too much and value too much. As a result, fear erodes courage and failure devours success.
"In general, if there is something, there is something, and if there is nothing, it will be encouraged." Look into the distance, make life a calm lake, and tell yourself: When the water is poor, wait for Yun Qi, and find a smooth road beside the dangerous cliff.
8. Write on the topic of "Good Mood" and give the mind a balance bar.
Many years ago, I saw such a story: there was an excellent male acrobat walking a tightrope abroad. In front of that thin tightrope, he never missed. However, in an unprecedented large-scale performance, he fell off a high wire and died on the spot. His wife is also an acrobat. She rushed over, but she was not surprised. She just said, "I knew he would!" " "Later, his wife said that she was worried that he would fall down before going on stage, instead of being as relaxed and confident as before. It can be seen that the reason why the male acrobat fell down was because he was in a bad mood.
In fact, everyone, every step and everything should have a mentality, just like an acrobat walking a tightrope, holding a balance bar, or naturally opening his arms to ensure his balance. Mood balance is very important, because mood is often the key to doing something. A person with a balanced mind is like a flexible rubber band. An unbalanced person, like a sailboat with uneven load, can't stand the blow of the waves.
This kind of emotional imbalance is very common in daily life. Some people are so absorbed in doing one thing that they will "tremble with nervousness". It's like threading a needle. You have tried, but you are not familiar with it. When you pinch the thread tightly and then get close to the eye of the needle, your hand will tremble involuntarily and the thread will be crooked at once. Many times, we are too eager to achieve success, and many things backfire. At this point, we need to give the mind a balance bar to keep the balance of the mind. People who do one thing, work too hard, and have a purpose should learn to relax. Learn to forgive yourself in the face of failure. The result is not important, just try your best. It is often the process rather than the result that makes people grow. There is no need to be a victorious general.
Of course, some people are at the other extreme, too lazy to get up. If they taste it, they will stop. There was once a cartoon depicting a well digger. He dug many wells with different depths, some of which were close to the water source, but he still gave up. These people need persistent self-confidence, the goals they strive for and the courage to never stop until they reach their goals.
Haste makes waste, haste makes waste, which is a lesson left by the ancients. No matter which extreme it is, it is unfavorable to people's own development. Too nervous about things, easy to get anxiety; Too persistent, become stubborn; Too lax, "mud can't help the wall" ... people's minds need a balance bar to balance the scale of doing things. Impartiality, can successfully pass all kinds of test wires and reach the other side of success!
9. What is the purpose of my coming to school? My two-year secondary school life has given me a deeper understanding of learning knowledge, learning to be a man and doing things. I firmly believe that hard work may not succeed, but you will never succeed without hard work.
Looking back now is a feeling and summary of the past, and also a vision and hope for the future. I am about to leave school, and I am excited to look forward to the challenges and tempering of the world.
From the day you step into the school gate of the Antarctic campus, the conditions are. Gradually become a middle school student who can adapt to the requirements of contemporary society.
In my life, since I came to Nanning Senior Technical School, I have added a lot of laughter to my life. Unite with classmates, be brothers with friends and be brothers with teachers. Two years of secondary school life made me realize that many lives need independence, which is also the basis for us to enter the society.
In terms of study, from the first day I came to Nanning Senior Technical School, I will never forget that the purpose of my coming here is to learn knowledge, learn to be a man and learn to do things. Although my grades are not very good, I have been working hard to make progress and try my best. The so-called "to err is human", for example, sometimes I relax the learning environment, sometimes my learning consciousness gradually weakens, and sometimes I unconsciously discuss the exchange and study with my classmates, but I have been making progress.
In terms of thinking and work, he was elected as the monitor by the class teacher in the early stage, but he abdicated because he could not handle the class affairs in time for his own reasons in the later stage. After several reflections, I understand that as a collective leader, many things need to be conscious, automatic and diligent. From this, I understand the greatness of my career and the achievements contributed by one person. It also inspired me to overcome difficulties and forge ahead.
Now I am young, with professional knowledge and a truth-seeking heart, I can create my own value, truly realize my own value, and make my life full of * * *, vitality and love!