Gao Weina, an ex-girlfriend who had been in love with Wu Xiubo for 12 years, wrote: "Be a man, peace of mind means winning all your life! No matter what happens, smile at life, don't worry, don't complain, get indifferent and lose calm. Don't try to control everything, it's most comfortable to follow the fate.
Wu Xiubo famously said, "At that time, you fell in love with someone, not because you had a car and a house, but because it was a sunny afternoon and you wore a white shirt."
The hero in a white shirt is of course Wu Xiubo, and the heroine is his ex-girlfriend Gao Weina. The first time they met, Wu Xiubo was 18 years old and Gao Weina was only 13 years old.
Wu Xiubo was a singer. He has also participated in films directed by Guan Hu and Tung shing Yee. Gao Weina published a book called "Take Love", which tells the story of a 12-year relationship with Wu Xiubo.
In the chapter "but not as those know it who have been poor together" in "Take Love", I wrote. "He began to feel that he was a useless man and couldn't give me a dream wedding since I was a child. I blame myself for letting him tie his hands, stay away from his dreams and have no chance of success. " The two began to quarrel, and then they had a long talk. "I seem to be rude if I see through everything, but without my rudeness, I think he will never leave me." Regarding this part of breaking up, Gao Weina wrote in the book, "I won't tell anyone, I will take it to the grave."