The lifeline is in your own hands, and you are your own master. Don't change yourself because of others, decide everything by yourself.

In the eyes of parents, disobedient children are rebellious; in the eyes of teachers, students with poor grades are ignorant; in the eyes of everyone, mediocre people are incompetent.

Sometimes, you will get angry because of the blame from your parents; sometimes, you will feel complacent because of the teacher's praise; sometimes, you will feel hostile because of someone else's disdain. Perhaps, this is what most people think. Complex emotions in one's heart are triggered by other people's actions, words, expressions, etc. Why should we change ourselves for others and let others influence us?

I am a quiet person, sometimes taciturn. In childhood, other people's memories are full of fun and joyful laughter, but my memories are a little bit blue; as a teenager and young man, I just sit quietly aside, occasionally looking up at the blue sky and white clouds, Occasionally enjoy the scenery outside the window, and occasionally listen to the sound of drizzle. My heart has always been quiet.

Quietness makes me dare not open up and communicate with others; silence makes me taciturn; silence makes me dare not take the initiative to answer the teacher’s questions in class... Maybe, all of this is Is it a negative factor for my future growth? My parents have taught me many times to communicate more and not just live in my own inner world; my classmates also said that I was too honest and asked me to be more lively. However, I like this kind of silence, it can calm my anger, it can soothe my injured heart, and it will make me forget all my displeasure. When I achieve results, it will alert me and allow me to reflect; when I feel tired in the outside world, it will allow me to relax appropriately. In short, I often immerse myself in it, let me blend with it, and forget everything else. Indeed, he caused me some minor trouble. But I will not abandon it, because it is my inseparable friend. At the same time, I also want to improve myself, but not change.

I will not change myself for others. I am an ordinary person, and I may not be immune to external influences, but I will move in this direction and absorb beneficial factors at the same time.

Who decides my destiny? Of course it's me. Don't look at other people's opinions, don't listen to other people's gossip.

Go your own way and let others tell you!