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How to get through the trough of career?

Throughout ancient and modern times, at home and abroad, anyone who is successful must have extraordinary skills. So, if you want to reach the top of your life, what skills should you possess to survive in the workplace?

1. Be friendly to others and learn to listen.

In the entertainment industry where everyone is hard to talk about, there is one person who is invincible, and he is Cai Kangyong. Almost everyone has the same perfect evaluation of him: he is gentle and elegant, speaks like a spring breeze; he is low-key in his work, and he is easy-going and friendly to others. Judging from his demeanor and tone, there is never a hint of aggression. It's like the long-lost bone-converting palm of the world, conquering your soul silently. Good partner Xiao S once said of Cai Kangyong: "You will never be stabbed when chatting with him, and sometimes you will get one or two small compliments in return. It makes people's hearts burst into laughter, and it feels real and not slippery."

2. Accumulate and develop with ease.

Do you know how long it takes to prepare for a stand-up comedy? 2 years. He spent 2 years preparing so dedicatedly, but in the end he only performed on stage for 2 hours. With a piece of wheat, a bottle of water, and just one mouth, he can ignite the atmosphere of the whole place without any peeing in the whole process. Someone once said this: Huang Zihua is the man who can compete with Xingye but tells jokes alone. It is not easy for Zihua to receive such a high evaluation.

3. Think independently and take action.

Jobs was a very thoughtful person. He dropped out of college and then took classes. The reason for dropping out was that he was not interested in the original course. The reason why he went to take classes again was because he wanted to learn subjects that interested him. Such a crazy and bold behavior is puzzling to many people. But he ignored it and continued on his own way. The most important thing is that he knows what he needs and what he doesn't need at every moment, and he takes action.

4. If you want to wear a crown, you must bear its weight.

Kobe is one of the best scorers in the NBA. He is familiar with breakthroughs, shooting, free throws, and three-pointers. He has almost no offensive blind spots. His personal record of 81 points in a single game strongly proves this. a little. Once a reporter asked him: "Why are you so successful?" Kobe asked: "Have you ever seen what Los Angeles looks like at four in the morning?"... While everyone was still sleeping, Kobe was already in the dark and sweating Become stronger and stronger in the baptism. So before you want to gain honor, please bear the price of honor.

5. Be sincere and sincere, and feel with your heart.

Some people once said that Eason Chan was Jacky Cheung's successor, but Eason Chan responded: No, there is only one Eason Chan in the world. Many singers only stay in the gorgeous melodies when singing, which is flashy and cannot sing from the bottom of their hearts. However, Eason Chan's singing is like a long stream of water, which makes people never tire of listening. I remember one time when Lin Xi was interviewed, he said about Eason Chan: "I used to write the lyrics, such as "Ten Years", and he would just be responsible for the interpretation. But now he has more and more ideas, and he must be sure to write every word Only when he understands clearly can he sing with confidence." It is precisely because Eason Chan treats songs so sincerely that he has achieved the status of the current generation of singing kings.

6. Don’t be afraid in the face of danger and do your best. "Good air conditioners, made by Gree", Gree air conditioners have become a well-known brand that is widely known to every household. But many people only see the superficial success, but never know the hardship behind it. In the 1990s, Gree faced a serious crisis - some key salesmen "suddenly resigned", but Dong Mingzhu remained true to her original intention and remained unafraid in the face of danger, and has remained with Gree until now. She once said this: "Either you work hard or get out early." In this way, Dong Mingzhu managed an unknown Gree company into a Fortune 500 company.

7. Concentrate and persevere to the end.

Someone once said: You can not care about fashion, but you can't not know Bill Cunningham. who is he? He was the first photographer in the world to stand on the street and take pictures of ordinary people. After he dropped out of Harvard, he picked up a camera and has been taking pictures for more than 50 years. He continued to lead fashion trends until his death, and everyone he captured in his photos was proud of himself. In his eyes, fashion has no distinction between high and low. Whether you are an upper-class gentleman or a low-level worker, as long as you have a bold enough personality, his lens will naturally capture you.

8. Craftsman spirit, striving for excellence.

The simple and luxurious Chanel brand is the dream that today’s women are chasing. As a saying goes: "I have not passed away, I just fell asleep. I can’t die." Why is Chanel like this? successfully? Four words: Craftsman spirit. Each piece of Chanel's clothing needs to be adjusted dozens of times, such as adjusting the ruffles, armholes, or sleeves, until it is impeccable. She is not a reformer who pursues unconventionality, but she is a perfectionist who pursues details to the extreme. She never neglects even the most unobtrusive parts of her dresses and suits.

9. Look forward and backward, and win strategically.

Jack Ma’s greatest success is not because of how hard he works, but because he bears the brunt of entering a new field - the Internet. Yu Minhong, the founder of New Oriental, has a very similar experience to Jack Ma, but the fields he strives for are different. Although Yu Minhong is also very successful, his achievements are far less than Jack Ma. When Jack Ma first started his business, he asked someone to borrow tens of thousands of dollars and devoted himself to the Internet field without hesitation. At that time, he also said: The worst case scenario is starting from scratch. It can be seen that he not only sees the future of the Internet, but also has the courage to face failure.

10. Be patient and unwilling to compromise.

Lee Ang failed the college entrance examination twice, but unexpectedly entered a stage career. After graduating with high marks from a prestigious school in New York, he was instantly faced with the dilemma of unemployment. He worked as a full-time houseboy in the United States for 6 years, cooking and taking care of the children every day... In the crew, he was obviously full of talent, but he could only guard the equipment, do hard work, and carry sandbags. But even so, he persisted as always, until the first "Brokeback Mountain" allowed him to wash away all his glory and return to the pinnacle of glory. "Life of Pi" allowed him to score twice and truly became a regular Oscar candidate. Life is like this, and it may take a long time to bloom before you can shine with unparalleled brilliance.

Every legend comes out of the ordinary. There is no luck that comes for free, and there is no career that is achieved overnight. All we can do is continue to improve and accumulate. When all the hard work turns into real talent, everything will fall into place. Because I believe in this sentence: The long dark night cannot cover up the bright moon.