1, believe in yourself

It is not because some things are difficult to do that we lose confidence; It is precisely because we have lost confidence that some things are difficult to do.

2. Set goals before you act.

If you don't know where you are going, you won't achieve anything shocking.

3. Do more than others.

No one is born with a gift. On the road to success, there is no shortcut except diligence and persistence. Every successful person can see the good habit of diligence.

4. Don't bind your mind.

What hinders our success is not what we don't know, but what we know. Fixed and habitual thinking patterns often limit our potential.

Don't waste every penny.

If you form the habit of thrift, it shows that you have the ability to control your desires, that you have begun to dominate yourself, and that you are cultivating some of the most important personal qualities, that is, independence, intelligence and creativity. In other words, it means that you have pursuit, and you will be an accomplished person.

6. Cherish every minute

Wasting time is the biggest mistake in life and the biggest destructive power. Many opportunities are contained in every bit of time. Wasting time is often the beginning of despair and the strangler of a happy life ... tomorrow's happiness lies in today's time.

7. Look at the problem from another angle

The French sculptor Rodin once said, "We don't lack beauty in our life, but lack discovery." There are many beautiful things in life, the key is whether we can find them. And the key to finding it is yourself.

8. Don't be afraid to make mistakes.

There is no foolproof road to success in the world. Dynamic life is always very random, and the elements are often unpredictable and elusive. Therefore, if you want to succeed, you must have the courage not to be afraid of making mistakes. In an uncertain environment, adventurous spirit is the scarcest resource.

9, the habit of independence

While paying attention to the team, you need to rely on your own strength to achieve your career. Practice character and skill, sweat by yourself, eat by yourself, and do things by yourself; Relying on heaven, people and ancestors is not a hero.

10, control your emotions.

There is nothing wrong with an emotional personality, but an irrational mind is a fatal flaw. Learn to manage your emotions first, then you can manage others well.

1 1, be honest with others.

Honesty is the law of nature, just as the law of gravity is inviolable, so is the law of honesty. The result of violation is punishment, inevitable punishment. Maybe they can escape temporarily, but in the end they can't escape justice.

12, keep your promise

Many times, we don't have to promise, but if we do, we can't break our word. Keeping promises is not only a noble quality and sentiment, but also a respect for others and yourself.

13, treat pressure correctly

There is no stress-free environment in the world. Asking to live without stress is as impossible as imagining walking on the ground without friction. The key is how to deal with the pressure.

14, not satisfied with the status quo.

The human potential is infinite, and your only limit is the limit set for yourself in your mind. Dissatisfaction with the status quo is the basic feature of all successful people.

15, dare to admit mistakes

If I don't handle a thing successfully, then I believe I must have learned a lot, so I need to turn to others, or the subsequent development of things will tell me how to solve it. Anyway, I have to admit my mistake to find the answer.

16, introspection for five minutes every day.

As the saying goes, failure is the mother of success. However, a mother named "failure" may not be a child named "success"-unless she finds a father named "introspection" first.

17, don't give up easily.

The failure of millions of people lies in not doing things thoroughly and not insisting; Often when you are one step away from success, you will stop doing it. Many times, success only needs one more moment of persistence and one more step. Between failure and success, there may be only the distance of holding hands.

18, good at using external force.

Even if we advocate independence, it is not without cooperation. "It is difficult to sing with one hand", a person who shuttles through social life must seek the help of others and lend the strength of others to facilitate himself. A wise man corrects his own mistakes through the mistakes of others.

19, can bear loneliness.

There is no doubt that every young heart is beating with hope for glory. Even at the age of being respected by others, such hopes and dreams will not necessarily disappear. However, glory is not a pie in the sky, it depends on hard work, loneliness and hard work. There are too many temptations in the world of flowers. If we can't control our desires and endure loneliness, success will be far away from our sight.

20. Dare to say "No"

Knowing a friend, he refuses nothing, as if he can overcome any difficulties and obstacles. However, the result he gives to others is often to break his word. In fact, the word "no" is easy to write and the syllable is simple, but it is not easy to be said when it is held between people. If you don't want to say "no", it means that you are a superman and a fairy, and nothing can beat you. However, this is impossible.

2 1, ridicule failed

Nothing can be done overnight. Success is just one more chance to fall down and get up than failure. Therefore, failure is just an experience, not a life. Laughing at the beauty of blooming flowers sounds simple, but it's easier said than done.

22. Forging a brave heart

Courage is the indomitable spirit and the courage to believe that you can do it.

23. Be good at cooperating with others

We advocate independence, but we advocate relying on external forces. Moreover, many times, achieving great things requires a sense of cooperation. A person's strength is limited. Only by cooperating with others, learning from others' strengths and making up for their own shortcomings can we benefit from each other and both sides benefit from it.

24. Make a little progress every day

The biggest weakness of many people is that they want to achieve great things in an instant, which is obviously impossible. Everything is gradual. Only by perseverance, only by learning more things every day, and through slow progress, can we change from quantitative change to qualitative change and help a person finally succeed.

25. Take immediate action

The secret of successful people is that they form the good habit of immediate action, so they always stand at the forefront of the times; The habit of others is to procrastinate until the times surpass them. As a result, they were excluded from the ranks of successful people.

Cherish what you have.

Don't look at the pot from the bowl, and don't fantasize that everything is the best all day. Happiness is at this time, happiness is the bowl of water in your hand.

27. Don't overlook the details.

It is commendable to be ambitious and do great things, but only by starting from down-to-earth small things, starting from small things and paying attention to details can we develop the rigorous and thoughtful style needed to do great things. Details determine success or failure, and this sentence is always a wise saying.

28. Don't set limits for yourself.

In the process of growing up, many people have suffered too many criticisms, blows and setbacks from the outside world (including families), so their enthusiasm for progress is "self-limited". They are used to failure and lose the confidence and courage to try again, so that the great potential contained in their bodies eventually becomes a sleeping seed and has not germinated.

29. Learn to rest

Only those who can rest can finish their work well. Rest is definitely not doing nothing, rest is mending, recovery, the process of thinking and the ladder of success.

30. Be kind to others

Everything has its consequences. Only by accumulating virtue and doing good can there be positive results. Don't think too much about your own gains and losses, help your brother row across the river! Listen, didn't you go by yourself? !

3 1, good at discovering the advantages of others.

No one is perfect. People always have their own strengths and weaknesses. Only by being good at discovering the advantages of others can we really make these advantages work for us.

32, form the habit of praise

If everyone pours out their deepest desire, it is to be praised by others. In that case, learn to praise and praise others from tomorrow!

33. Give others a chance to speak

When God created man, why did he only give him one mouth and two ears? Let's talk less and listen more. An excellent team is because a group of people are listening to an eloquent person. Therefore, people should not talk too much, but learn to listen.

34. The habit of smiling

At the right time and occasion, a simple smile can work miracles, and a simple smile can make the stalemate suddenly clear.

35, pay attention to the instrument

The appearance of success always attracts people's attention, especially the successful expression can attract people's "approval eyes".

36. Be good at playing the role of language.

People who can talk are welcome everywhere. Being good at playing the role of language helps to establish good interpersonal relationships and is of great help to your career and marriage.

37. Learn to be grateful

In life, we should learn to be grateful, grateful that our motherland has given us peace, grateful that our parents have given us life, grateful that others have helped us ... There are many things to be grateful for in life. Only with a grateful heart can we realize the happiness of life.

38. Don't make any excuses

No matter how wonderful the excuse is, it is useless to the matter itself. Many failures in life are due to excuses that have been anesthetizing us.

39. Don't get bogged down in worry.

"Nine times out of ten, life is unsatisfactory", and anxiety is inevitable. However, we should not indulge in the quagmire of anxiety, but should adjust our mentality and emotions as soon as possible, take active actions and change our changed lives.

40. Don't worry about trifles.

People live in the world for only a few decades, but they waste a lot of time worrying about small things that will be forgotten within a year. Open-minded to forget trivial matters, wholeheartedly the overall situation, in order to win the final victory.

4 1, forgive others' mistakes

Clear water makes no fish, while people look at it without friends. It is necessary to allow others to make mistakes, but also to allow others to have defects and deficiencies.

42. Don't be too conceited

People must not have pride, but they should not have too much pride. French writer Balzac said: "Complacency, arrogance and credulity are the three reefs of life." Therefore, complacency, arrogance and conceit are all stumbling blocks to success. A person is like a score, his practical ability is like a numerator, and his evaluation of himself is like a denominator. The larger the denominator, the smaller the value of the fraction.

43. Focus on your work

Focusing on work is not only an explanation to the boss, but more importantly, focusing on work is a mission and a professional ethics that a professional should have. One can make progress, but not be dedicated.

44. Observation time

Punctuality is the greatest courtesy and a proof that a person is good at managing time. If you can't manage your time effectively, success will be empty talk.

45. Leave room.

Leave room at all times. Leave room for others, leave room for shortcomings, and actually leave room for yourself.

46. Avoid chatter.

Be good at listening, or learn to remain silent. Of all the factors that hinder family happiness, destroy love and friendship, nagging is the most deadly one.

47. Use the word "we"

Selfish people will never have room for development. Using "we" instead of "I" can shorten the psychological distance between you and everyone and promote the emotional communication between you.

48. Take the initiative to communicate with others

Actively communicating with others, especially your boss, will promote others' understanding of you on the one hand, and make others, especially the leader, feel your respect for him on the other. When the opportunity comes, others will naturally think of you first.

49. Don't talk about privacy

Needless to say, the harm of chatter is fatal, but telling lies or saying other people's privacy is also a weakness. Knowing other people's privacy is a very dangerous thing in itself, let alone talking about and spreading it.

50. Respect the opinions of others.

Clory is a salesman of Taylor Materials Company in new york. He admitted that he had been sharply criticizing the mistakes of angry market inspectors for years. Although he won the debate, it was no good at all. Because those inspectors are like "baseball referees", once they make a decision, they will never change. Everyone has his own advantages and characteristics, and being good at listening to others' opinions will help us avoid detours.