1. Manage yourself well and be a responsible relative, a reliable friend, and a quality lover.
2. It is never the last straw that breaks the camel's back
3. In the adult world, one should be decisive and straightforward. Not delaying anyone, not consuming anyone, not wasting anyone, this is a kind of kindness.
4. Speak with restraint, play with moderation, do things with sufficient resources, and speak with virtue. It is suddenly late in the world, autumn has already begun in the mountains and rivers, the north wind is howling, and winter is approaching.
5. Patriotism, innovation, dedication, democracy, prosperity.
6. A gentleman loves money and gets it in the right way!
7. It’s hard to make money, and shit doesn’t taste good.
8. In fact, the world is secretly loving you
9. When you are not sure whether there is a future with him, don’t spend his money
10. I’m not sure if I have a future with you. Even if I like you again, I don’t want to spend your money. I can make money myself
11. If there are more people, keep your mouth shut, and if there are fewer people, keep your mouth shut. Take control of your heart.
12. Let your skin be your own, and the breeze will help the pines. Carve as you please, the bright moon shines on the river.
Although I am a psychological counselor, I may want to treat you to some poisonous chicken soup this time:
1. Sex is an instinctive activity of human beings, and it is also a Resources, from the beginning of primitive society, the more capable people get more sexual resources and reproduce more offspring. After developing into a civilized society, sex was gradually restricted through marriage. In fact, it was protecting some weak people and providing relative social stability.
2. The first time some mistakes are made, it can be understood as ignorance, naivety, and inexperience, but if they are made again, it just means that he has made a choice.
3. After thousands of years of development, human civilization still has not gotten rid of the seven deadly sins: pride, jealousy, rage, sloth, greed, gluttony and lust.
4. Do you think the more others show off something, the more they lack something? In fact, what you think others are showing off is just what you lack.
5. Human beings are selfish and profit-seeking in nature, but in this process some people will behave decently, while others will look ugly.
6. Don’t always discipline your children. Children are not disciplined, but taught and brought out. The difference between this word lies in the difference between passive and active: Do you feel more comfortable when someone pushes you to walk or do you feel more comfortable walking by yourself?
7. Always maintain an independent thinking brain, so as not to lose yourself in this era of highly fragmented information, let various self-media lead the way, and become a target to be slaughtered. Lamb, cut leeks.
8. Don’t rely solely on others. If you have the hands, check it yourself. If you have the brain, think it yourself. Just like many people like to be helpers. In fact, it’s not that they don’t know how to do it, it’s just that they are lazy. If you are lazy for a while, you will be lazy for the rest of your life. In the end, you will be the one who suffers.
@天山灵知 Let’s share a sentence about the three super-righteous views. We have understood the last sentence since we were children! Come and collect and share!
01. No matter what kind of clothes a woman wears or how drunk she is, it cannot be a reason for others to be presumptuous.
02. I always believe that all the books I have read will not be in vain. They will always help me perform better on some occasion in the future. ——Dong Qing
03. I hope that Chinese young people can get rid of the air conditioning and just move up, without having to listen to the words of self-destruction and self-abandonment. Those who can do things do things, and those who can speak out speak out. There is a certain amount of heat and a certain amount of light. Just like a firefly, it can shine a little in the dark without waiting for a torch. If there is no torch from now on, I will be the only light. ——Lu Xun
04. How can it not be as good as I want? But I hope that my heart will be clear. ——Liu Bowen
05. The loss of many people is that they violate their youthful aspirations. I think I am mature, I think I am experienced, I think I am smart. How naive I used to be, I finally see through it and want to see through it. So we become the people we hated most when we were young. ——Mu Xin
06. In the so-called human world, the only thing I am willing to accept as truth is this sentence: everything will pass. ——Dazai Osamu
07. Asking others to be selfless is inherently selfish.
08. Education should not encourage individuals to conform to society or live in negative harmony with society, but should help individuals discover true value: it comes through fair and impartial discussion and self-awareness. . ——Krishnamurti
09. Reading is never the only way out, learning is.
10. Just because I am not a genius, I have to work harder. ——"Big River"
11. For example, when talking to others, you always want to win the favor of others, but you can't speak your mind.
And there will inevitably be times when you play with others and argue with others, which leads to uncertainty of mood and anger, wandering thoughts, and it is difficult to let go of the heart of gains and losses - "In vain grass"
12. Right and wrong are up to you. Reputation is up to people, regardless of gains or losses.
13. Don’t encourage others to be generous if you don’t know their suffering.
14. Try not to put yourself on the opposite side of things, and try to live in harmony with our less positive situations or emotions. ——Mao Buyi
15. When young people are prosperous, the country will be prosperous, and when young people are strong, the country will be strong.
16. Dowry and bride price are two families helping a new family, rather than a new family helping two families to alleviate poverty.
17. Nothing is worth sacrificing your health to pursue. ——Schopenhauer
18. The full picture is unknown, so no comment. ——"The Patriarch of the Demonic Way"
19. Harmony is not when a hundred people make the same sound, but when a hundred people make a hundred different sounds, they respect each other at the same time.
20. Read for the rise of China. ——Zhou Enlai
Ten articles, *** Mian.
①The greatest education in life is to accept the ordinaryness of your parents.
② No matter how old you are, your mother will be the same. She is your mother after giving birth to you.
③Prioritizing boys over girls means that boys carry heavy things and girls carry light things. It means hitting boys harder and girls lighter.
④I started to wash off my tattoos, quit smoking and drinking, and took back all my bad tempers, because I wanted to plan for this little girl in the future.
⑤ Boys should understand the truth that girls who have no material requirements must have more emotional needs than others. If you don’t have the same thing, then just go to bed.
⑥Studying hard in high school and getting admitted to a university that will benefit you throughout your life is much better than falling in love with someone who has nothing to do with your future at your best age.
⑦Studying is not to get a diploma or to get rich, but to become a person who has warmth, understanding and taste and can think.
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⑨ Don’t be too humble as a person, because your father once raised you above your head, and your mother’s wish was to make you happy every day, so no matter how sad you are, you must remember to smile.
⑩You hate your father's mediocrity, but you don't know that he was once a boy with dreams; you hate your mother's nagging, but you don't remember that she was also a girl who looked at the mirror in a beautiful way.
1. Strong people also shed tears, but instead of standing there weeping and being discouraged, they run forward with tears in their eyes.
2. Not being angry does not mean that you have no temper; not caring does not mean that you have a good temper. When others involve your bottom line, you should occasionally pull out your cards to dry.
3. Maturity is actually painful in most cases. If you are lucky, you get it, but most of it comes at the cost of loss, but in exchange for growth.
4. Don’t be too aloof in life, but you must have the right attitude.
5. No matter how bad life is, it doesn’t matter, because it doesn’t prevent you from getting better.
6. When it comes to anyone and anything, accept it as soon as it is good. Don't be too greedy, otherwise you will be the only one who suffers the consequences.
7. What can really take you far is self-discipline, diligence and hard work.
8. The relationships in Shijinbala are all wrong relationships. People who are truly right are so easy to get along with.
9. Don’t be too demanding with others, and you will be less disappointed; be strict with yourself, and frustration will not hurt you.
10. Vulnerable people will talk about their misfortunes everywhere, while strong people will only remain strong quietly.
11. In many situations that people face, their talents are not worthy of their dreams, and their abilities are not worthy of their ambitions, so they either work harder or lower their expectations.
12. Don’t complain to anyone, because 20% of people don’t care at all, and the remaining 80% will be ecstatic after hearing it.
13. No one can live a good life every day. It is because of some bad days in life that the good days shine brightly.
14. No one can decide the matter of birth, but we can always change our lives with our own hands!
15. A person who doesn’t even know how to appreciate himself will not have any fun in life. From now on, love yourself more.
16. If you are determined about what you want to live for, you will naturally be able to endure any kind of life.
17. If you don’t reach the bottom occasionally, what chance do you have of reaching the sky? A life without waves is really a dull life, meaningless.
18. Human beings continue to grow, evolve and upgrade in order to transcend the limitations of the environment.
19. Sometimes, life is indeed unfair, but we are not qualified to complain about it and use it as a reason for decadence and despair. There is no way to explain this to ourselves in the future.
20. You don’t have to walk so fast or even run, but you remember, never look back casually, because life always needs to move forward instead of living in the past.
My grandpa taught me a sentence since I was a child, and it is also the sentence that I personally think is the most correct. I believe everyone has heard of this sentence. Let’s listen to it together.
If you forgive someone not from your heart, then it is deception to others and betrayal to yourself.
Whenever you want to criticize others, you have to remember that not everyone in this world has had the advantages you have. ——"The Great Gatsby"
Being soft-hearted without boundaries will only allow the other party to take advantage of you; unprincipled kindness will only allow the other party to do whatever they want. ——"The Godfather"
When pain comes, don't always ask: Why me? Because you didn't ask this question when happiness came.
Life may not be as good as you imagine, but it will not be as bad as you imagine. I feel that people are both more fragile and stronger than I imagine. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that I burst into tears with just one sentence; sometimes, I find myself gritting my teeth and walking a long way.
—— Maupassant's "Life"
Sometimes you have to do something you don't like, and sometimes you have to bite the bullet and get it done. Such is life.
Downstairs a man is dying of illness. The family in the next room is singing on the gramophone; opposite is the nanny. There were two people upstairs laughing wildly; there was also the sound of playing cards. There is a woman on a boat in the river crying for her dead mother.
Human beings' joys and sorrows are not the same. I just think they are noisy. ——Lu Xun's "Miscellaneous Feelings"
I have very low requirements for myself: when I live in the world, I just want to understand some truths and meet some interesting things. thing. If it goes as I wish, my life will be considered a success. ——Wang Xiaobo "The Silent Majority"
Wang Xiaobo: All human suffering is essentially anger at one's own incompetence.
Haruki Murakami said: "There is no right choice in this world. We just have to work hard to make the original choice become the right choice. Correct.
The sign of an immature man is that he is willing to die heroically for a certain cause, and the sign of a mature man is that he is willing to live humbly for a certain cause. - Salinger. "The Catcher in the Rye"
Sometimes, not retaliating is the greatest generosity, and not forgetting is the greatest protection for yourself.
Kotaro Isaka. In the book "Sunshine Robbers" it is said: "Strange animals will be protected, but strange people will be ostracized.
Those who fight monsters should be careful not to become monsters themselves. When you stare into the abyss from afar, the abyss stares into you.
——Nietzsche's "Beyond Good and Evil"
Chai Jing's "Seeing": Behind every relaxed smile is a soul that once gritted its teeth.
You can relax to yourself again and again, but life will not always be tolerant to you. If you cannot bear the pain of self-discipline, you will have to bear the pain of accomplishing nothing.
Throughout our lives, we want to get rid of the expectations of others and find our true selves. ——"Silent Confession"
Innocence is actually not a complimentary word, because many times, it can be like natural disasters, through a primitive, dramatic, cold and unrestrained The power can easily destroy a person.
Some talents can only be given to you by time. Don’t become famous too early, it’s better to achieve success later. ——Li Jian
The viciousness of a loyal and honest person, like the gravel in the rice or the unclean thorns in the boneless fish fillet, will give people an unexpected pain. ——Qian Zhongshu, "The Besieged City"
In this world, it is snowing for everyone, and everyone has his or her own darkness and brightness.
Breaking up is the norm in the world, and we are no exception.
In fact, all those who are struggling to make a choice already have the answer in their hearts. The consultation is just to get the choice that they prefer in their hearts. The final so-called destiny is achieved step by step by oneself.
——Keigo Higashino "The Worry-Relief Grocery Store"
Are you no longer afraid?
No longer afraid of becoming ordinary?
By then I can return to my hometown
But not at this moment. The road at this moment is difficult and long, and we must walk it well.
Everything is good in the end. If it is not good enough, it means it is not the end yet.
At what point does hard work really count?
The point that has consequences.
Your investment philosophy is very simple. Why don’t everyone just copy your approach?
Buffett: Because no one wants to get rich slowly.
Buffett: Be fearful when others are greedy, and be greedy when others are fearful.
Know people without judging them, and know things without making public.
1丶
I have not given the full picture, so I will not comment.
2丶
If you don’t know the suffering of others, don’t encourage others to be generous.
3丶
She is still young and not sensible, but I have to understand.
4丶
Morality is a restriction on oneself, not on others.
5丶
This is your first time, so why should I let you do everything?
6丶
"You can't be kind to everyone, but kindness is really important."
7丶
A fan It's rude to keep knocking on a door you don't want to open for you.
8丶
Love does not matter who comes first, but it is important to be polite and honest.
9丶
You can blurt out words of praise, but think twice before you say words of slander.
10丶
In love, openness and single-mindedness are what you do openly. Rather than what you pay for.
11.
Remember to leave a copy of the tenderness in this life to your parents. Only parents and future cannot be let down.
12.
Betrothal gifts and dowries are two families helping a new family, rather than helping another family to alleviate poverty.
13丶
Don’t rely too much on others in this world, even your shadow will leave you in the dark time
14丶
(Girl) I’m not sure if I have a future with him, so I can’t use his money. (Boy) I’m not sure if I can have a future with her, so I can’t touch her.
15.
Don’t be too good. You can refuse things you don’t want to do. Don’t force things you can’t do. Pretend you didn’t hear if you don’t like it. Your life is not to please others. But be kind to yourself.
1. Manage yourself well and be a responsible relative, a reliable friend, and a quality lover.
2. It is never the last straw that breaks the camel's back
3. In the adult world, one should be decisive and straightforward. Not delaying anyone, not consuming anyone, not wasting anyone, this is a kind of kindness.
4. Speak with restraint, play with moderation, do things with sufficient resources, and speak with virtue. It is suddenly late in the world, autumn has already begun in the mountains and rivers, the north wind is howling, and winter is approaching.
5. Patriotism, innovation, dedication, democracy, prosperity.
6. A gentleman loves money and gets it in the right way!
7. It’s hard to make money, and shit doesn’t taste good.
8. In fact, the world is secretly loving you
9. When you are not sure whether there is a future with him, don’t spend his money
10. I’m not sure if I have a future with you. Even if I like you again, I don’t want to spend your money. I can make money myself
11. If there are more people, keep your mouth shut, and if there are fewer people, keep your mouth shut. Take control of your heart.
12. Let your skin be your own, and the breeze will help the pines. Carve as you please, the bright moon shines on the river.
13. Don’t be happy with things, don’t be sad with yourself
14. If you can’t take responsibility for her, don’t provoke her.
15. You have grown up. I can no longer sleep with my mother
16. A person who has been sick for a long time has no filial son at his bedside, a person who has been poor for a long time has no good wife at home, a person who is poor has no one to care about in the busy city, a person who is rich has distant relatives in the mountains. If you don’t believe it, look at the wine in the cup. The cup is first given to the rich. Asking for someone is like swallowing a three-foot sword, and relying on someone is like climbing the ninth level of the sky. Since ancient times, it is a favor to pour tea 70% full and leave 30% full. Pour the tea 70% full so that the water will not overflow and scald your hands. The same is true in life. It is better to eat only 70% of the food and keep 30% of the words. Half human, half me, half at ease, half awake, half drunk, half god. Half close, half loving, half bitter and happy, half vulgar, half Zen and half casual. Half of my life depends on me, and the other half depends on nature. Don't be too strict in your behavior, and don't say everything in your speech. There are wine, meat and many brothers, but you will never see one in trouble.
Human relationships are as thin as paper, and world affairs are like new chess games. A tall horse is tied in front of the door, and it means kissing even if you come in person. If you put a begging stick in front of your door, your relatives and friends will not come to your door.
People in the world need gold to make friends. If you don’t have a lot of gold, your friendship won’t be deep. Three poor and three rich will grow old. How many people will rise or fall in ten years? No one will tell anyone’s back, and no one will tell anyone’s behind!